"Man, how can you not cheat?" Is it really terrible to have a family with three incorrect views?

Guide: Only a family with three views can raise children with a sense of justice. If the original is stained, then no matter how good the paper is, it can't cover up the defects on the copy. If you are married, you must visit his house more often. Never marry a family with incorrect views.

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As the saying goes, children are the epitome of parents. If you look at a child, you can see his family.

Parents are children's first teachers, and children follow suit. Your child is you.

To put it bluntly, if the original is stained, no matter how good the copy is made of paper, it can't erase the defects on it. That's why there is such a saying, "It depends on whether the other person is worth marrying, then go to family of origin more."

If in the family, the father always scolds the other half, the mother works hard, but the father never moves, as steady as Mount Tai, and even points fingers.

If he is indifferent to this scene, then in his mind, he acquiesced in his father's behavior, and subconsciously, his respect for women is very limited.

On the contrary, if in his home, parents are very loving and do things in an orderly way, one buys food and the other cooks, talking and laughing at the dinner table. Under normal circumstances, he grew up in this environment, and most of his moral qualities are not much worse.

Last night, my mother and I went shopping in the supermarket. I met my mother's former colleague, Aunt Fangfang, who also took her granddaughter. My mother and she haven't seen each other for a long time, and we exchanged a few pleasantries.

Before long, the children have been clamoring to leave. Aunt Fangfang had no choice but to say "talk to you later" and left in a hurry.

I was puzzled, so I casually asked my mother, "Aunt Fangfang only has one daughter, Jun Jun. According to the truth, shouldn't her grandson spend the New Year at her son-in-law's house?"

My mother sighed and said, "Jun Jun got divorced the year before last. Her husband is really not a person. He has no man's responsibility, and he has been derailed all the year round, regardless of his wife and children's life and death. "

I was surprised at this time. My mother said, "When I started the divorce proceedings, it was a devastating blow. Instead of paying Jun Jun a penny, I put all the blame on Jun Jun and pretended to be a victim. Jun Jun finally had to leave home and escape from this hellish marriage. "

I'm confused. Men don't take responsibility after marriage. Is there really no sign to find before marriage? Even if the parties can't see it, as a battle-hardened elder, shouldn't they see something?

My mother was silent for a long time and told the general story with a heavy look.

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In fact, when Jun Jun fell in love with her husband, Jun Jun's mother always strongly objected, saying that the man's family atmosphere was not good.

When this man's father was young, he had many affairs, and even when he was old, he was still hanging out.

Jun Jun's husband didn't do anything out of line when he was in love, but he was glib and boastful. Since then, he has seen that this is not a fuel-efficient lamp.

But Jun Jun, who really loves her husband, has been telling her family about the advantages of her boyfriend. In the end, her parents agreed to the marriage with tears in their eyes.

Jun Jun married in the past, at first, life was really sweet.

Unfortunately, the good times did not last long.

Shortly after the marriage, Jun Jun's husband began to go out for a drink, and every time he came back, he was drunk and nobody took care of his business. He always fishes for three days and dries the net for two days, not to mention taking care of his family.

Jun Jun always tells him good or bad. After repeated education, Jun Jun was also annoyed. They had a fierce quarrel. After quarreling for a few days, her husband got a little better, but after a few days, he began to drink unconscious again.

Jun Jun didn't think about divorce, but he thought that after divorce, his reputation was bad and his options for remarriage were limited.

More importantly, I really love her husband and cherish this relationship, so I still have more thoughts in my heart and try to touch each other.

However, if a person doesn't know how to be grateful and has no concept of courtesy, justice and shame, he always hides behind his back and runs amok under the guise of "not being sensible". Even if it is good for him, he takes it for granted.

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It is said that people's hearts are full of meat, but some people have no heart.

Jun Jun's husband broke her heart. He always crossed the line again and again. Later, he became a night tour, and the hardware store opened at home was left to his old father and Jun Jun.

Jun Jun goes to work during the day, helps to look after the store and take care of his family at night, and is often too tired to be upset.

Plus, after the baby is born, it is even more difficult to move. The crying of children alone is enough for several adults to be busy around. Besides, most of Jun Jun is taken care of by one person. A person can't wait to have three heads and six arms, a family, a job and the whereabouts of her husband.

However, even though Jun Jun gave everything she had, she still couldn't win back her husband's heart.

From time to time there are rumors that her husband is looking for a woman outside.

Jun Jun quarreled, quarreled and protested, but her husband never broke up with other women outside, just made it more secret, but the paper couldn't catch fire after all, and it was exposed.

In the end, Jun Jun couldn't bear it any longer and filed for divorce. Her husband dumped his son on her, forcing her to lead a clean life, and then she was willing to divorce.

It's been more than a year now, and he hasn't seen his son once, let alone received a penny of alimony.

What is even more incredible is the attitude of Jun Jun's in-laws. They casually said to Jun Jun, "Man, how can you not cheat?"

Jun Jun was speechless with anger, and Jun Jun's in-laws emphasized to Junjun: "Men have nothing to do outside, women should be obedient and virtuous, and it is good for their husbands to go home. Why do you have so many demands? You deserve to be widowed for life. "

For the first time in my life, it is not surprising to see such an absurd way of education and such disgusting remarks. Their son is worse than an animal.

After Jun Jun's husband cheated, he told Jun Jun with dignity: "You should be as tolerant as my mother. At the beginning, my father kept a woman outside all the year round, and my mother always pretended to be deaf and dumb, so she endured it all her life. You see, my mother is not doing very well now, my father will return to the family when he is tired of playing, and I also have a complete family. "

Just the dregs of garbage, the best of dregs. There is really no need to waste your breath on such people. The first thing you have to do is to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce.

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Ladies and gentlemen, it is terrible not to marry a family with incorrect views.

As the saying goes, fish begins to stink at the head. Everyone is born with a blank sheet of paper. With the education of parents, everything has become a work.

It's just that there are good and bad works If you want your child to be a good work, you have to be a sample. If the sample is wrong, how to make a good product?

A distant relative of mine, Mix, whose parents are honest farmers, was originally an upright man, but since he made some money, he began to indulge in drinking and drinking, and he didn't respect his wife.

Mix's wife advised him to go back to the shore based on the principle that dirty linen should not be published, but when she saw that he refused to change his teaching all the time, she had no choice but to turn to her parents.

When Xiaoxiao's wife's parents arrived angrily, Xiaoxiao's parents said all the good things and expressed their understanding of the feelings of the other parents. After they settled down, they told Xiaoxiao to go home and wait for him at home.

After Xiaoxiao came home, Xiaoxiao's parents scolded Xiaoxiao for a while in front of everyone.

Mix's father even blamed him for shaking all over, grabbed a stool and threw it at him, even saying that he should leave the house now. He doesn't have such a shameful child.

After this, Mix never dared again. Since then, he has worked hard for this family in peace and has never heard of his scandal again.

I admit that it is wrong to hit the child, but in this case, I really want to applaud.

It's so cool to marry a family with three views.

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Mix's parents know empathy, the bottom line and principles of being a man, are not partial to their children, do not maintain them, and dare to criticize education, thus suppressing Mix's misconduct.

Everyone is the darling of their parents. Without any parents, they don't feel bad about their children being wronged in the new family.

In this case, when their children get married and do things that seriously hurt their families, parents should stop and educate them.

Generally, after doing this, most people will turn back.

Because in human nature, few people will fight against a large number of people alone because it is not worth it. Just like a fierce tiger, he dare not provoke an elephant easily.

Only parents with three views and integrity can raise a child with a sense of justice. Even if the child goes the wrong way, he will try his best to get him back on track.

I hope we can all live in a complete family with three views. No matter when you do it, you should do it openly and honestly.

Even if you don't live in this family, you should cultivate this awareness, be a upright parent in the future, and cultivate qualified children.

Only in this way can we continuously reduce the scum of this society. This society can become more and more beautiful.