When getting along with the opposite sex, what behaviors can reveal the ambiguity between the two?

Many lovers' relationships start from the ambiguous stage, which is the ambiguity that successfully transforms, but some can only stay in the ambiguous stage and eventually end up nothing. In fact, there are signs of ambiguous relationships between men and women, which are simply a kind of temptation on the edge of love. 1. These two people have a very close relationship in private. When they are acquaintances, they pretend to be very distant. They are ordinary friends of the opposite sex. They behave naturally in front of anyone. Unless one person has started to fall in love, they must maintain it. Some distance away. If two people are very close in private but pretend not to be close in front of acquaintances, it means that the two people are in an ambiguous stage and have exceeded the boundaries of friendship. They are afraid of being misunderstood by others and causing unnecessary rumors. .

2. There are often some heart-warming little gestures. Men and women will easily blush because of some details. If two people start to create a special atmosphere and often do some particularly heart-warming little gestures for each other, This means that he or she wants to develop a further relationship with you, and the two of you are also in an ambiguous stage. 3. Frequently get angry with each other. Most ordinary friends of the opposite sex usually talk about things. Even if they sometimes feel depressed because of some trivial things, it is accidental. If two people get angry every now and then, it means that the two people are in an ambiguous stage. Because both of them want the other to give them more affection and want the other to care about them. At the same time, the emotions of two people often fluctuate with each other's words and deeds.

4. Create a little unintentional romance. If men and women often do some little romance unintentionally, although it does not obviously exceed the boundaries of friendship on the surface, in fact, this has already meant that the two people There is an ambiguous relationship between them. Ordinary friends of the opposite sex would not behave like this unless the other person wants to tease you and make you fall in love with them.

5. Brother and sister are compatible. Brother and sister are an excuse given by many ambiguous men and women to each other. They use this seemingly normal reason to explain their transgressive behavior, so that men can pamper women openly and women can do the same. You can enjoy this love as much as you want. But in fact, this kind of relationship is what people often call an ambiguous relationship.

Ambiguity is dangerous and beautiful, making people unable to control themselves. In fact, we should learn how to distinguish this ambiguity so that we don't both get hurt. Love is a choice. The most precious thing is not that we choose each other among many choices, but that no matter how much time passes, each other will still choose each other. In fact, when many men reach this point, the relationship between the two is basically inseparable. For the rest, as long as you don't make mistakes and work steadily, you can basically pursue the girl you like. However, it is difficult for many men to reach this point. The reason is that when you are chasing a girl, you fail to do two important things, which are your value and your attraction to her when chatting. The value is very simple, it is your appearance, height, temperament and taste. , just like you wouldn’t just randomly find a short, fat, ugly woman, a woman wouldn’t just randomly find a man to fall in love with, it must be after comparing and comparing, and choosing after choosing. If you compare If other competitors are too different, they will probably eliminate you from the very beginning. Similarly, even if you are not eliminated, when chatting with her, the most taboo things are to check the household registration, inquire about the details and kneel down too much. This is also a big taboo.

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