How to hint a girl with words, not too long? Thank you.

How to hint a girl with words, not too long? Thank you for your confession.

(* * * is divided into four parts, please read patiently: First, practical confession skills; Second, men profess women; Third, women profess men; The fourth is the choice of confession location. )

Confession ladder: a practical confession skill to avoid confession of death

Confession refers to expressing your interest in a girl, which is a declaration of interests. Confession is a turning point in the escalation of the relationship and a declaration to clarify the positioning of your relationship. Its purpose is only one: let the girl accept your interest in her and straighten out the relationship between the two sides.

Confession is an important link in the whole process of relationship upgrading. Without this link, girls will be confused about your development intention and doubt your interest.

The trap of "confession of death"

There is a necessary premise for the relationship upgrade, that is, you have certain attraction and availability to each other. Without this premise, you will definitely fall into the trap of "confessing to death". Confession to death means that after a man confesses to a woman, he is rejected by the woman, which makes the relationship plummet and the attraction and comfort drop sharply.

In the PUA system, confession is a topic that is rarely mentioned. For many PUA systems, language confession is actually unnecessary, because there are many other expressions that can be replaced, such as body language, availability, Kino upgrade and so on.

Confessions of death come from two factors:

1. Lack of mutual attraction or usability;

2. Put too much pressure on the other party, so that the other party needs to assume the role of an exclusive lover at once, making the other party feel uncomfortable in the face of unexpected situations.

Problems existing in the traditional way of pleading guilty

In traditional thinking, confession is to express your interest to girls, which can usually be a sentence "I love you" or "Can you be my girlfriend?" If the other person accepts your confession, it means that she needs to assume the role of lover, but when the other person is not ready, such expression will form too much pressure, so girls will instinctively refuse to escape this pressure and avoid this responsibility. This also explains why many men fall off the chain in confession and fall into the trap of confession.

Penitence ladder

You must learn to express yourself in different ways and to different degrees to avoid the embarrassment that girls can't turn back after rejecting you.

Confession follows the principle of "confession ladder", from shallow to deep, so that girls can slowly accept your interest in her. You don't have to open your mouth and say "I love you" to a girl's lover. It can be replaced by a subtle announcement at first. For example, "Your eyes are beautiful" and "I think you are a kind-hearted girl" are all relatively shallow interest announcements, which will not cause any pressure and embarrassment to girls, that is, your praise for her is also an interest announcement; Compared with shallow interest declarations, such as "actually, I think you are an attractive girl" and "I think you have a good personality, and I prefer girls with good personality" will express that you are more interested in girls; As for the declaration of interests such as "I like you" and "be my girlfriend", it is the clearest expression and the top confession of "confession steps". The straightforwardness of interest announcement depends on the degree to which girls are attracted. If girls are completely attracted to you, you can express your feelings in the clearest way, which will improve your relationship quickly, but in general, it is not recommended to express the clearest interest declaration to girls.

Reverse confession

Reverse confession means that a girl is interested in herself to express your interest in her. Its principle is to presuppose the girl's interest intention, plus a reason to let the other party rationalize their thinking. "Actually, I think you like me, or you don't hate me. I believe you won't meet people you hate. " Is a good example, of course, the premise here is that girls don't hate you being attracted to you.

Response: confession success/confession failure

If the confession is successful, it shows that she is willing to take the responsibility of loving, then you can enjoy a new relationship. If the confession is unsuccessful, don't pay attention to the girl's reaction, don't be influenced by the negative emotions after the girl's rejection, and try again in the attraction link. Don't ask girls "Why?" Originally, the girl didn't think about the specific reasons, but because of your questioning, she needs to find a reason to rationalize you and herself. Once she finds it, she must be consistent.

First, boys profess girls.

Hello! Dude, I've been there before. I went through your stage. It's really interesting and tangled. Let's listen to my partner.

After reading your situation, I analyzed it. In this world, if you want to pursue women successfully! Can't use the conventional method! Especially now, you all have a misunderstanding. You all have to confess before you feel that you have any problems, and then wait for others to "admit" after confession. Am I right? '

It's easy to fail, brother. Especially if the other person has no feelings for you. Actually, you can kiss her first. She's confessing! This way, the other party is fresh and * * *, and if it is the first kiss, it will be even more dead set!

Now you must chase the children quickly and accurately, I mean the most important thing. Then, listen to me. I will call you word for word. You cann't play cards according to the routine The logic of chasing girls as usual is outdated!

Let me tell you about my experience and my understanding. I hope it helps you!

My experience: If you like a girl, calm down first and don't think too much.

Then, what you have to do is to find opportunities to get familiar with him slowly when everyone is active together. Be careful, you don't always go around her, people will resent it. What you have to do is to become excellent and increase capital in all aspects. For example, playing the piano, dancing street dance, computer programming, what other good singing skills, beautiful writing, calligraphy, these, of course, the most important thing is career! Do your own business well and make more money. If students study well, then your attention will be high. The competitiveness is also great!

I sincerely share my experience, I hope you can learn the essence from it! In a word, more haste, less speed, more haste, more distance, step by step, and finally win her heart! Without teachers around her, you have to accumulate capital! You know, women don't like people who walk around her all day!

Your next step is to develop slowly, ask her out slowly, and then unconsciously try to share your little secret with him, so that you two can become good friends with everything. Finally, at some point, when there are few people, you can chat together, so you can try to ask her questions about boyfriend and girlfriend, and then give him a hint. At that time, don't be timid, you'd better have a drink. If you think you have a good grasp, you can ask her, for example, what do you think?

That's how I succeeded. Anyway, it's urgent. At the moment of final success, you will feel that these days have finally paid off. That feeling is wonderful! Haha, I might as well share the process of my confession here: when I confess, I tell my girlfriend: X, you know, I can meet the right person at the right time, and there are not many such opportunities in my life. The person I meet now is you. I hope you can give me a chance to love you, dear! Then my girlfriend jumped into my arms and refused to get up without thinking!

(Of course, the two of us were having an ambiguous conversation. I feel it's time, so I must seize the opportunity! Don't be too anxious, because girls like romantic and warm feelings! So he will never forget! Better call her who is hesitant and kiss her! But you should be prepared to be slapped by her. Of course, I think it's nothing! After all, if you want to get your own happiness, the price of a slap is too small!

In fact, confession is actually just a form. The correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that he is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while. At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

Don't say the word "love" easily.

I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility.

Haha, do you know what the highest state is? That is, the man never asked "would you like to be my girlfriend" until he slept with the woman. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!"

I wrote it entirely by myself and felt it myself. I hope I can help the landlord! I'm exhausted from writing ... ha, I didn't expect a lot. No matter how much, as long as I can help you! According to my method, the success rate is very high and effective! Girls like * * *, hehe.

I wish the landlord an early pursuit of happiness! Wish you a happy life!

If you have any questions, please leave a message and be happy to answer them!

The second supplementary answer ...

Dude.

Don't let her notice so quickly, or some girls will hurt your enthusiasm if they don't give strength.

You see, anyway, what you do is to improve your strength, and everything will be useful in the future ... what do you think?

Second, girls profess boys.

Boys chase girls, and boys confess to girls they like. However, with the change of the trend of the times, there is no so-called absolute rules of the game. How do girls express their love to boys? If girls still believe that "the right man will fall from the sky as long as women wait quietly", the ups and downs of love are predictable. ...

There are more and more leftover women in modern times. Have girls gone bad? Are boys demanding more and more? Actually, it's not. In this extraordinary period, girls only need to take the initiative to approach and have a chance to get Prince Charming.

First of all, it shows that not confessing is the most basic problem. Are you worried that he will reject you for other reasons or because you don't like it? If it is the former, you have confidence in your future. You can try to tell him what you think and tell him that you can face the problem with him.

If it is the latter, then there is no happiness, but confession is for no regrets. Think about it or not.

If you fall in love with a young man, you should try your best to pursue him, but because the girl is shy, it is not convenient to tell him frankly. Then how can you subtly convey your ideas to him? How do girls confess to boys? Please refer to the following methods:

Write him a letter first and give it to him personally. Try it. If you have the chance, make an appointment to chat online and by phone. If you find it inconvenient to write or send letters, try to find out his phone number or @ @ number and leave a message online or by phone to express your feelings.

Flexible use of body language to express indirectly: for example, smiling and eye contact are all good ways to convey your good feelings and goodwill. ; The key point of eye contact is to be distracted and stare straight at each other, which may be misunderstood. We should look at each other, move away, look at each other, move away, look at each other ... then maybe it's his turn to take action.

Use a third party to express: Sometimes if a girl is really difficult to talk, she may help you convey your love through her close friends, such as "xxx often praises you" and "xxx says you are a good person, hearty and true, and I hope your boyfriend will do the same". You express your feelings through your friend's mouth, so it is very realistic, and the other party can't see the flaw. If he is a wise man, he will think that your love will have a good impression on you.

Get what you want: how do girls confess to boys? First of all, you should explore the boy's interests and hobbies in your mind. For example, if a young man likes literature, he will borrow books from the library. You can see clearly what kind of books he likes, borrow more books of the same kind by yourself, and then find an opportunity to talk to him, and turn the topic to the content of such books, and naturally you can talk very speculatively. After a period of contact, if you feel that it suits you, continue; If you feel inappropriate (don't be confused by the words "love at first sight"), just dilute the relationship and slowly withdraw from this love, and both sides will be harmless.

Third, other situations that need attention

Confession is not an easy task. How to confess, when to confess, and where to confess all need to be considered. Let's teach you how to express your love today!

1. When is a good time to confess:

You need to choose a good time to express your feelings. Of course, this requires a premise (you talked for a while, the girls have a good impression on you, reply to your text messages quickly, and go out to parties several times together). Generally speaking, Valentine's Day, Tanabata and April Fool's Day are good choices, as are the birthdays of men or women.

2. How to say confession:

How to say what you want to say and how to write love letters is the biggest problem that puzzles the majority of boys. I'll talk about it here, such as (the feeling of meeting you for the first time) (I'm always in a good mood when chatting with you) (we have many similar hobbies) (I dream about you several times) (I miss you every day) (I especially want to be with you) and so on.

3. Choose the location of confession:

If you are a shy person, then I suggest you express your feelings through the internet or text messages. Of course, you can also say it directly in person, such as a western restaurant, a coffee shop or a relatively quiet and good mood place.

4. Prepare in advance:

You can warm up before you confess, such as giving each other a more intimate nickname. For example, come out to meet several times before confession, and send some small gifts. This can be added to the confession afterwards, and the probability of success will be much higher.

5. What should I do if I am rejected?

There are many reasons for refusing, and there must be a reason for refusing. We can decide our next plan according to the situation.

For example, she thinks that both sides are young, so they can be friends first, keep in touch, and then express their feelings when the time is ripe.

If she bluntly says that she has a crush on someone, or that she doesn't feel anything, it's actually a good choice to be friends. A person who is more suitable for you is still waiting for you to find.

I hope the landlord can confess successfully ~ ~

I hope the landlord will adopt it. Thank you. It's not easy to fight unarmed.

How to imply that a girl likes someone? Active and frequent contact.

Nothing, coquetry and clingy.

Excessive unreasonable demands

And you have to eat delicious food at every turn.

It's always your treat or something!

There is a girl I like very much. How to hint at her with your eyes? Look her in the eye and smile at her.

A boy likes a girl, suggesting that she has many stories. Write an anonymous love letter with your eyes. Specifically, for example, when I was at school, a boy had a crush on me. He sat in front of me. Once he turned to talk to me and I looked at him. When he saw me staring at him, he turned away shyly. His eyes are big and I'm a little embarrassed.

I like a girl who writes about her wind and rain all the way in a poem. The moonlight disappears in the lake, the road is long, her heart is trembling, and there is no loneliness in the end of the world.

Like a girl … how to confess … don't be too direct if you don't confess, be nice to her silently, she can feel it.

I like a girl's hint that the autumn wind is rippling, which makes my heart close to the sunshine and its last residual temperature. Holding a cup of hot tea, sitting alone by the window, in the thick tea fragrance, collecting the beautiful scenery of the last day of autumn in my heart. I'm afraid I'll never see you again if I'm not careful. Perhaps, in this season, no matter how prosperous, time will eventually lead us, towards the distant, to empty our attachment.

I like how a girl hints at her confession. Tell her bravely

I like a girl who gives her a hint about what to do next. Thank you. Everyone's dating process is different. Communicate as much as possible. More contact. It must have been a storm at first. It's simple that two people like each other.

As long as we can be together, we don't need too many other things, a look, an action and a word. It can contain all.

Have you ever set foot on the road as long as you want? The two joined hands and embarked on the road. I always think this road is too short.

Have you ever tried to get wet together if you want? Walking in the rain together. Hehe, it's light rain, of course.

As long as we are willing to each other, there will be too many So, as long as you are willing to each other, you can do anything, understand?

I hope you understand, and I hope what I said is useful to you.

How to use an English sentence to hint which girl you like? I am willing to be your knight and protect you all my life.

I am willing to be your knight and protect you for life.

I want to talk to you about a love that will not break up on the premise of getting married.

I want to talk to you about a love that will not break up on the premise of marriage.

Belle, I have a lover who wants to talk to you.

Beauty, I have another love and want to talk to you.

Your existence can make me happy.

Your appearance made me happy all day.

You are always in my mind.

You always come to my mind.

Every time I close my eyes, you are by my side.

Whenever I close my eyes, you will appear.

You don't have to be perfect. You are perfect to me.

You don't need to be perfect. You are perfect for me.

I can't imagine a future without you.

I can't see the future without you.

I know we are in tune with each other because my heart is in tune with your voice.

I know we are a match made in heaven, because my heart is in tune with your voice.

You filled the gap in my heart, and your appearance solved the problem that I couldn't solve for a long time.

When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but with a little fear, she has a passion for the boy who broke into his quiet life.

She didn't mean to be contradictory. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. And when you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may be regretting, regretting! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead and pester them to fight, leaving a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue their favorite girl and continue to be nice to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't work, there's nothing to regret. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What was the sweetness of the original hard work? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!

By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I would rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets!

Enjoy it and learn to find it!

First, what kind of first impression should I leave on MM (time: I just started to contact MM)

1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make MM feel that you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Not too formal, but not too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.

Step 4 look mature

A leisurely man has feelings for mm.

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Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like an ordinary person)

or

), goodwill needs to be realized with the increase of understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: girls must be under psychological pressure if you rush directly to get something. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you come out resolutely from the beginning, you will basically be bored back immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a "good friend". Those with taste can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then there is less chance for a girl to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? !

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air.

Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).

Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.

Also, don't show the ambition of "you don't want to marry". It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and try to turn the waiting rabbit into a chance encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will find ways to repay you. If they can't, they will find a way not to associate with you, so they won't always owe you a favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, please invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home.

Third, what is a "girlfriend"?

1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good,

Dear friend, on a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her hand; On the moon, you suddenly attacked and kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.

I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" "

So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that they are very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily.

I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.

1, not every MM can catch up.

There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with either twin.

Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who has never graduated from primary school is kind to you, earning 600 yuan a month and buying you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft), and willing to be a cow and a horse for you, you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.

Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MMS are snobs (few). If you are not convinced, you can get angry and try your best to prove that "she was blind at that time". Never mistake others for yourself.