What do you think of "don't shout the bill in front of friends when you treat guests, and pay the bill silently in advance"?

This question is actually very easy to understand. First of all, you can see who you eat with and what you eat under what circumstances. If you are going to have dinner together after work, you will secretly pay the bill one by one, which shows that this person is still worth making friends. We have such a person here. When he goes to a restaurant to eat, people at the next table will pay the bill, so that people will be grateful to him from the heart, gradually accumulate many friends, and do business easier than others.

I have feelings about this! Have dinner with some classmates. Students who work in their hometown come here! Have dinner with us. One of my classmates is an engineer! In the past two years, when we were just having fun, he said he would go out to get water from the car, but we didn't stop him. When we were eating, the classmate who said he would invite us to dinner, when he went to pay the bill, our classmate had already paid the bill! I feel that such a trivial matter, the reason why he has been able to grow bigger in the past two years, and his sincerity, can he not grow bigger? This is also a person's accomplishment!

If you pay the bill, you must pay the bill silently. It seems rude and boastful, as if to show off.

A truly mature and connotative person keeps a low profile in everything he does.

Once I had dinner with a friend, and I borrowed the bathroom to pay the bill. At the checkout, my friend came downstairs and insisted that he buy it. He said that he knew that I came to pay the bill secretly and quickly followed. Such a person has a lot of connotations. I think he pays for most of his friends who eat with him.

I've heard the saying that the poor are generous and the rich are stingy. Don't let friends treat you just because you have a poor economic foundation. You can't eat a meal without being poor, and you can't save a meal without being rich.

It should be lucky to shout the bill in person, so that friends will compete for the bill. Easy to escape.

People who really want to pay the bill will not be at the dinner table, but will go to the counter to check out silently.

By paying the bill, we can see that a person's accomplishment and what he wants to do in his heart have been completed in a low-key manner. High-profile people are often superficial.

Many people have matured through time. May you be more and more stable on the road of life.

I have been engaged in catering for several years, and observed whether to pay the bill in person or silently, 90% is related to personal habits, and 10% is related to the purpose of treating guests.

In Northeast China, normal colleagues eat by default or by turns.

A group of five or six guests often come to the store for dinner, men and women, and girls pay the bill every time. Once, a new boy rushed to pay the bill, and the girl reached out and held him down and said, "I pay for my own meals here." I found this stronghold. If you have to pay, you can develop another one. "

The sisters of the design institute, every time they pay the bill, are tacit rotations.

When friends have dinner, if there are more than two men, don't care who arranged the dinner. Tear it when you pay the bill, and finally deusexx pays it fiercely. Northeast men have a good face and don't like to owe people. If they are invited to dinner next time, they will give money to the bar in advance, but this will still happen-

Big brother is aggressive: I'll pay the bill. It is not easy to return the money to him.

Other men followed: how much is the little sister? I have scanned the code.

And the guy who paid the money in advance is being held hostage by a miserable face, yelling and threatening: just use my money, or I won't go to your house next time.

It sounds like a play. I have witnessed it countless times.

This kind of thing often happens to people with hot temper and extroverted personality, even girls. And more reserved and sedate customers, most choose to check out when their companions go to the bathroom, or find an excuse to look at drinks.

Sometimes one party obviously invites you to dinner, usually asks the waiter how much it costs generously, and then pays the bill generously, and usually sighs in front of the other party that "it costs so little!" Usually, the waiter silently spits, "The brothers are all installed!" .

Of course, one thing is right: you can never wake up people who don't want to pay the bill.

Agreed.

Don't shout in front of friends, pay the bill silently in advance, which is not only an emphasis on the friendship of friends, but also a cultivation of being a man.

1. Shout the bill in front of your friends and give them the following feelings: 1, you don't want to pay the bill at all, and you pretend to be generous so that your friends can't face it. The subtext is to let your friends pay the bill.

2. You don't want to pay the bill, which means: Friend, why don't you understand? Don't want to pay the bill, are you more patient than me? All right, I'll take it, all right!

You just want to pay the bill, but you have to be extravagant in front of your friends, which means: Look, I am better than you. You're not even going to have dinner with you. Forget it, I'll do it!

You just want to pay the bill, but you are generous in front of your friends, which means: stingy, I haven't seen you pay the bill after dinner for a long time, I'm not as stingy as you, I'll do it!

No matter what kind of feeling, friends will be embarrassed!

Second, if you pay silently in advance, your friends will feel very comfortable when they know it: 1, it's your treat, and your friends will pay if they think you should pay. You also know this truth, consciously and quietly paying the bill in advance, which shows your sincerity in inviting people to dinner.

2, friends may not be so well-off, originally did not want to pay, but it is hard to say that you quietly paid in advance, in fact, you are giving him a step, he will be grateful.

3. A friend may want to eat before paying, only to know that you paid silently in advance. He will think you are an ancestor, and you will consider others in details. You must be a person worthy of making friends. At the same time, in terms of dinner etiquette, he will also think that you are more cultured than him and deserve his respect.

Therefore, no matter what happens, shouting orders in front of friends will cause unhappiness among friends, and paying silently in advance will win you friendship.

The above is my opinion, welcome to leave a message for discussion.

Please don't shout in front of people for dinner, and pay the bill silently in advance. We should do this!

When you invite guests to dinner, if you shout the bill in front of others, it will make these guests watch you pay the bill first and then give money, which is emotionally and psychologically embarrassing. In addition, guests will have different views on how much money you give. Therefore, "invite guests to dinner, don't shout to pay the bill in front of people, pay the bill silently in advance", so as to avoid the embarrassment of guests and themselves and receive good results. At the same time, it also makes the guests feel that you are very quality.

Only bees talk about their opinions.

"When treating guests, don't shout orders in front of friends, and pay the bill silently in advance", I quite agree.

No matter who you invite to dinner, no matter why you invite others to dinner, paying the bill in front of the guests is easy to arouse their disgust.

First, if you pay the bill in front of the guests, they will think that you are emphasizing "I invite you to dinner".

Second, if the guests happen to have your subordinates, people who want you, or people who have helped you, they will misunderstand that you want them to pay the bill. This will make them feel embarrassed.

Third, China people pay attention to reciprocity even if they treat people to dinner. Paying the bill in front of the guests is cheap and shameful; If the price is expensive, the guest will think that you are reminding: "I spent so much money, and it will be almost the same if you treat me next time."

Fourth, if you want something from others, invite them to dinner; Or invite customers to eat, or invite leaders to eat, let alone pay the bill in front of them. They will think that you are either impolite or deliberately hint at them: "I spent so much money." In this case, it will affect your image in their minds.

Inviting guests to dinner and silently paying the bill in advance is the minimum respect for guests and makes them feel your sincerity!

That's right.

First, shouting orders in front of guests feels that emotional intelligence is not high. Today, it is not as rare and noble as it was many years ago. Sometimes, people socialize more and drink more, but smart people are bored with this kind of thing in their hearts. They think it's best to eat well at home, spend more time with their families and drink less to keep healthy. Originally, friends can come to your house for dinner, many of which are out of friendship and affection, but when you shout the bill in front of everyone after dinner, then count the bills or brush your mobile phone, it makes the guests embarrassed. If the price is expensive, I think I owe you one. If the price is not expensive, sometimes you may feel that you don't pay enough attention to it and are reluctant to spend money.

Second, check out quietly and gracefully. Because most people have to drink some wine when they are invited to dinner, sometimes it is not easy for waiters to check the bill carefully when they check out face to face. Men are afraid that others will say you are not generous. But sometimes some "black-hearted" waiters seize your public psychology, quote at random or tamper with the bill, leaving you confused and speechless, which is not cost-effective. So, you might as well seize the opportunity, go to the cashier quietly, check the menu bill, see if there is any unopened wine left, and whether you need to pack some after the guests leave (saving is a virtue, and it is understandable to handle too much leftovers yourself), and so on. You can also discuss discounts with the store or something. Is it best to do this in private? Ha ha!

Third, it gives people a warm and considerate feeling. After drinking wine and eating a meal, when we talked about the same thing, someone suggested that we call it a day, and suggested that your host family check out early in order to dissolve. At this time, you will take your time and ask politely if you don't want to eat snacks any more. After everyone said you didn't need them, you said you had settled the bill and I'll send you away. Very thoughtful, saving everyone's time, killing two birds with one stone.

So, invite people to dinner and try not to pay the bill in person!

When treating guests, don't buy in front of friends, but pay the bill silently in advance. what do you think?

I think there is nothing wrong with this sentence. "treat" to pay for dinner, you really shouldn't shout to pay the bill in front of your friends, you should pay the bill silently in advance at the end of the meal!

Everyone will face the problem of "treating guests" in interpersonal communication. Since you have decided to treat, you should arrange everything from ordering to paying the bill at the dinner party.

Actually, it's a banquet for guests. The host often gives the guests the menu and lets them order at will. If the guest doesn't want to order, the host will arrange suitable dishes. If there are not enough dishes arranged in advance, you can add dishes halfway. When they eat for a certain time, the guests will be full of food and drink. At this time, guests will light a cigarette, have a cup of tea and chat with you. At this time, it's basically time for you to pay the bill. You can find an excuse to go to the bathroom and pay at the cashier. Never ask the waiter to pay the bill in front of the guests when eating. If you ask the waiter to pay the bill in front of the guests, it will make the guests feel a little embarrassed (a little casual eating and drinking).

I remember 19, 17. In May, Xiao Zhao came back from Sanmenxia. Brother Hu invited me to dinner, and I went with the professor and Piao Piao. We ate instant-boiled mutton in the middle of songshan road, and Xiao Zhao brought two bottles of good wine for everyone to taste. After drinking two bottles of white wine, we ordered another case of beer and said that we would not drink it after drinking it. Soon after the beer was opened, I saw Brother Hu and went to the cashier to pay the bill. After Brother Hu paid the bill, we chatted for another hour and went home after drinking beer. Instead of asking the waiter to pay the bill in front of Xiao Zhao, Hugh thought of a way to go to the cashier halfway. He did the right thing.

On June 65438+1 October1this year, I invited my friends to drink the first glass of wine in 2020. I wish this year a good start. We also had dinner in a restaurant in songshan road. A * * * Eight people, I ordered 12 food first, but I didn't have enough food in the middle, and then I added four more dishes. I bought the liquor myself in the supermarket outside. After drinking the white wine at the dinner party, everyone is already slightly drunk, but you still want to drink a bottle of beer. You ordered another glass of beer (12 bottles), and agreed to drink slowly and chat for a while. After drinking beer, I went to the toilet and bought the bill at the cashier. The way I bought it was not to ask the waiter to pay the bill in front of my friends, but to pay the bill at the cashier in advance!

When paying the bill for the guest, don't ask the waiter to pay the bill in front of the guest. This is respect for the guest and can also ease the embarrassment of the guest. After all, eating at the same table, if I ask the hotel waiter to pay the bill at the table and others pay the bill, I am indifferent, which seems a bit casual to eat and drink.

Therefore, when inviting guests to dinner, the host must not ask the waiter to pay the bill in front of the guests, but go to the cashier in advance and pay the bill in the middle of the meal!

I have to do this.

If I invite friends to dinner, I usually look at the food first and then go to the service desk to pay the bill.

Ask the waiter to pay the bill in front of friends, and friends will definitely compete with you for the bill. In order to avoid this scramble for bills, we have agreed to treat ourselves, so we will pay the money quietly early.

People who can be called friends by us must be cherished in our life. If you "pay attention" to your friends and keep a certain frequency of communication with them, your friendship will be strong and lasting.