As a daughter-in-law, what should my mother-in-law do if she always interferes in your life?

As a daughter-in-law, if my mother-in-law always interferes in our lives, my idea is to live separately if we can't live together. Secondly, we should establish our own principles. If the mother-in-law is right, we'll change it, but if it's wrong, leave it alone. Finally, maintain the relationship between husband and mother-in-law.

From my own experience, I suggest that we can do this:

First, try to live separately from your mother-in-law after marriage. If there is no separate wedding room, you can pay the down payment for the rest of the house, and the couple will pay it back slowly.

To tell the truth, if the mother-in-law always interferes with the life of husband and wife, in most cases, this mother-in-law is mostly strong. She will feel that her actions and ideas are right and will be imposed on others.

At this time, the best way is for the young couple to live separately from their mother-in-law, so that both sides can have their own lives and spaces. Some mothers-in-law may not accept the idea that their daughters-in-law should live separately at first, and feel that it is not practical to be out of their sight. At this time, it is always easier to be accepted by the elderly than the daughter-in-law.

After living apart from my mother-in-law, the differences and frictions caused by living habits and ways can be greatly reduced.

Second, establish your own principles, and if there are, change and encourage them.

Some mothers-in-law have a strong attitude and always feel that everything is right. Treating a daughter-in-law is even more harsh. It seems that the young couple's life needs a comprehensive inspection, and they are not at ease at all.

I think we should establish our own principles for my mother-in-law to interfere in life. We can neither completely deny it, aggravate contradictions, nor accept it completely, so that we can be wronged.

For example, when your mother-in-law says that you don't do housework well, you can tell her that you may not have done it carefully enough, and specifically where you need to do it better. Only in this way can things really be solved with an attitude acceptable to both sides, instead of feeling that the other side is biased.

If your mother-in-law only finds fault with your daughter-in-law, you should stick to your principles, do your own thing well and not be influenced by it, but you should give your elders at least respect and respect.

Third, maintain the relationship between husband and mother-in-law.

For the husband, at any time, the two should be honest with each other and communicate more.

No matter what her husband's attitude is, remember to pull him in front of you, communicate with him more and listen to his thoughts. There will be some horse-haired men in reality. Men always listen to their mothers, so they must pay attention to "recognition". Some horse-haired men are hard to change.

Therefore, it is very important to reach an agreement with your husband to keep him on the same front with yourself. On the other hand, the elderly actually value face. It is also very necessary to give more face to your son and mother-in-law in front of others.

Go to your mother-in-law's house at ordinary times, help your mother-in-law on holidays, prepare thoughtful gifts for your mother-in-law, and make her satisfied with her daughter-in-law. Naturally, you won't interfere too much in your life. Who will get nothing for themselves?

Therefore, as my experience, once my mother-in-law always interferes in her own life, the best way is to draw a clear line in consciousness, take care of the elderly in actions and words, and reduce friction with her mother-in-law.