Please talk about the significance of having children.

The meaning of having children is to experience life with them.

People often say that raising children to prevent old age, but in many cases, raising children to prevent old age is not necessary, and even raising children to prevent old age may not be possible.

So what's the point of having children?

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Although the journey of parenting is hard, pain and happiness are tied together. Children are naive enough to recall childhood memories. My parents have been quarrelling for 30 years, and I need a junior to relieve my boredom. Just like he is punching and kicking his stomach now, it can make me happy; And all the creative inspiration he gave me is intangible wealth. This kind of happiness cannot be bought by money.

Make up for memory

If I remind you now, you may only remember things after the age of 3. The story before the age of 3 can only be imagined by parents' dictation. The real situation can only be clear when you raise your children yourself and shout, "Only by raising children can you know the good of your parents." This kind of life memory is complete, and we can better understand the hardships of our parents along the way.

Overcome fear

People are bound to get old, and it is easy to be afraid of passing away. When you have a young and energetic new generation in your family, you will suddenly feel that your youth can continue. Material abundance can't fill this spiritual vacancy, but it is full of sustenance, care and hope.

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The bitterness of giving birth to a child makes you truly realize the change of identity. Both husband and wife should learn to take responsibility, not blindly looking for romance and freedom, and maintain a stagnant psychological state like the world of two people. The new situation forces you to grow up quickly from a romantic person, because you want to be a role model for your children and no longer take it for granted to be a nipple girl or a nipple man.

I think these are all the meanings of having children. I love children, not for the future pension, but for happiness.