I was 20 years old that year. Although I was still an ignorant boy, I was already very curious about sex.

A coin always has two sides.

Since there are extroverts in the world, there must be introverts.

Extroverted people have a wide circle of friends and seem to have no trouble falling in love.

Introverts tend to stay at home and don’t have many social interactions. How do they fall in love and find their spouse?

Men who feel that being introverted is not OK, want to make more friends, and are eager to broaden their social circle and end being single.

Men who feel that introversion is pretty good can wait for the follow-up update: How do introverts fall in love (self-section)

The first step: psychological construction

Introversion/extroversion is just a personality classification. Whether you are originally an introvert or an extrovert, there is no good or bad distinction.

But so far, most people think that extroverts communicate better.

Often, we don’t need to promote ourselves, extroverts have already begun to express communication signals to you. Therefore, the general public feels that extroverts are easy to get along with.

If introverts want to change, they just need to change their behavior.

Participate more actively in communication with friends, persuade yourself, and express your emotions and opinions more.

Step 2: Define the person you want to fall in love with

To fall in love, of course you need to have a partner.

A: If you haven’t found a suitable partner yet

Then hurry up and make more friends!

Participate in more activities with colleagues, classmates, and friends around you, or sign up for organizations such as dance training, reading fellowship, outdoor clubs, etc. This will allow you to meet more strangers, and maybe your significant other is among them!

QQ and WeChat are also good choices for making friends. But it’s not as direct as a meet-and-greet event, because falling in love always requires meeting.

B: If you already have an established goal

analyze the girl’s personality traits and preferences. Get to know her social circle.

As the saying goes, if you know yourself and the enemy, you can fight a hundred battles without danger.

Step 3: Show affection with actions

Many people have always believed that in order to fall in love with a woman, you must first obtain her consent.

There are many men, whether extroverted or introverted, who have to confess their love first and get the woman’s consent before they dare to publicly say that I am in love.

A survey on love behavior found that the failure rate of men who confess their love is as high as 84%!

And, once you confess, "women become weird."

Yes, because she has started to examine you!

How to chase girls? What are your tips for chasing girls?

The old method is no longer useful. Let’s use the most accustomed method for introverts - express goodwill through actions!

Don’t always talk about your love, but do nothing in actual actions!

Keep sending caring text messages, wear more clothes when the weather is cold, remember to eat in the morning, I miss you, these are all empty talk!

Nothing beats a stranger next to her, giving her a love umbrella on a rainy day!

Step 4: Caring in a more ambiguous way than friends

Key points:

Hold it, don’t confess yet

Take care of the other person

When eating, considerately helping each other with a pair of chopsticks and pouring tea... When shopping, considerately helping to carry things and holding an umbrella... When going out to play, handing out tissues and warmly picking up and dropping off... will make the other person feel warm!

Smile, lively eyes, and an unhurried tone

Speak calmly, gently, clearly and firmly, without being hasty or loud. No matter who is speaking, look at the other person. And you can try to make your eyes appear in different postures to match your tone of voice. Eyes that can speak are very charming!

Small thoughtful gestures are the beginning of igniting the fire of love

Discover each other If you have dandruff on your shoulders, don't yell. Instead, gently pat it off with your hands.

If the other person's shoulders seem a little sore, just give her a gentle squeeze without saying anything.

When drinking a drink, help the other person insert a straw first.

When the strong wind blows the other person's hair, you can gently help the other person move the messy hair.

When there is small dirt on the other person's face (eye mucus, eyelashes, sand... etc.), you can silently and gently wipe it off for her.

With such quiet and considerate gentle actions, whether you are a boy or a girl, you will gradually fall in love with you!

Step 5: Communicate deeply with girls

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Extroverted men just make girls feel interesting and talkative.

Communicating deeply with girls is an ability that all men need to learn!

You must know how to listen. Girls always have times when they are vulnerable and want to find someone to talk to.

At this time, don’t let her feel that you are not listening, or that you are more anxious than she is, which makes her feel that she is in trouble!

She may just want to talk and don't want a man to help solve any problems.

She may have an idea in mind, but just wants to find someone to talk to about her dilemma.

A man just needs to listen carefully and give her an appropriate response.

Sometimes, it is just a sentence: "No matter what, I will be by your side"; sometimes it may be a comforting hug.

Of course, in return, a man also needs to appropriately express your vulnerability to your woman.

This will make her feel like she understands you.

Men who are strong and occasionally vulnerable will make women feel more real and reliable.

The occasional talk from an introverted man can also surprise and delight a woman!

As the psychological distance between her and you gets closer day by day, please pay attention to the shortening of the physical distance!

Staying in a polite relationship will make her regard you as her best friend!

If you can already hug and hold hands, and from time to time she will tell you that she misses you, and even starts to ask: "What is our relationship?", then you are actually in love!

I wish you all a successful love!