Thank you for allowing me to transform from an ignorant girl into an omnipotent "superwoman"

We all have to go through a period of working hard, shutting up, and not complaining before we can shine, go to cooler places, and become cooler versions of ourselves.

We must be self-reliant, learn not to give in when we have it, and learn to reach a higher level when we make progress.

Since I was a child, I have always kept in mind my mother’s words. When I grow up, I must marry a man who, although he is honest and has no money, is caring and has eyes for me.

When I grew up, I finally fulfilled the promise I made when I was a child and married a man that my parents thought was honest and trustworthy for life, and he didn’t have any money.

(1) You must not waste a penny on ordinary days. The water heater is broken and cannot be replaced. In summer, you only need a few pots of water to take a bath;

(2) Do not turn on the lights for more than two hours at night. hours, everything must be done within two hours;

(3) At any time, once the water in the water dispenser boils, it must be closed immediately;

(4 ) You can’t buy clothes for more than fifty yuan, and you definitely can’t buy cosmetics and the like, because it’s a waste of money.

(5) If the refrigerator is broken, do not repair it. It is useless to have a refrigerator, it is a waste of money;

(6) Do not turn on the air conditioner in summer, turn on the fan for a while, In the hot summer, you can survive the hot summer just by relying on the power of your thoughts. Silently recite eight hundred times in your heart: A calm mind will naturally cool down... A calm mind will naturally cool down.

My mother told me that it is a virtue for a man to be thrifty and not to squander or waste. When two people are together, their lives will get better and better in the future.

I remembered my mother’s words and conducted a self-examination. I thought that men are frugal just for the sake of this family.

Day after day, year after year, this "glorious" tradition was carried forward by him.

However, I gradually discovered that his frugality seemed to be only for my son and me.

My son’s clothes and shoes are too small to wear, so I bought them secretly from him.

I don’t dare to throw my pants away when they are torn. According to his words, I can sew them up and wear them as long johns in winter.

After a long winter and wanting to change a pair of shoes, he would say:

Take off the fur and wear it in the summer.

I always thought that I had found the most trustworthy man, who knew how to live a good life and took advantage of his parents.

As everyone knows, he is so cool outside. When his friends eat, he pays the bill and then continues to have fun later.

A Tibetan Mastiff costs tens of thousands of yuan, but people never blink an eye and ask why they bought it. They just say: Do you want to take care of my hobbies?

After investing tens of thousands of yuan to lose weight, the net loss was lost in less than half a year. All the equipment and equipment were given away. It was called financing, but in fact it was given away to women for nothing.

What’s the use of living on him when you go home and cry and no one asks, you just say don’t worry? Why not work on it yourself.

I seem to be more sensible than others, but actually I don’t want to show my sadness.

Always reassure yourself that everything will get better in the future. If you think too much, you will destroy yourself. The best way to behave is to act as if nothing has happened. No matter what life brings, remember to smile.

Because many things are too pretentious to say and too aggrieved to cry, it is best to hide them in the heart. The sadness of life and physical exhaustion can be felt alone slowly. Why bother to complain to others? In fact, no one cares about how well you are doing!

Sometimes I think, there is no need to wrong yourself in order to cater to others. If you are not the one cherished by others, why bother to maintain it? The life is so tiring, why not try to leave, Get out.

Many times, I am like a psychiatrist. When I comfort others, I just want to find a rope. When I comfort myself, I just want to find a rope. I used to think that secrets cannot be told, but now I know that I am wronged. Can't say either.

If you want to have a good communication and conversation with him, he will instead say that you are unreasonable and looking for trouble.

It's like someone stabbed you in the chest and told you you were sensitive. When you stabbed the knife back, he said "this little thing doesn't matter."

I don’t know how to be tolerant or understanding. I always say that I am under too much pressure and need to be released. However, after more than ten years of marriage, I have changed from a young girl to a person who works hard to make money while carrying The son, the "superman" who risked his life to protect him, is still the carefree and ignorant boy who doesn't need to think about anything. He doesn't need to worry about three meals a day at home, his son's education and growth, and he doesn't need to bear the burden of the family. All expenses, ask him more than once, where does your stress come from? Alas, how pitiful!

You want me to be as beautiful as a flower, you want me to earn money to support my family, you want me to be gentle and virtuous, and you want me to be like a man who has to shoulder everything. You ask too much. , I am not Sun Wukong, I don’t understand the seventy-two transformations, I am just an ordinary little woman, and I also long to be loved, pampered, and cared for.

For a person who has been through the gate of hell several times and returned to the human world again, he is really looking away and looking down on it.

I don’t want to suffer at all now, and I don’t want to shed a single tear. I will leave anyone who makes me sad. The world is so big, and it can be either vulgar or lonely. If no one protects me, then I will leave. So cool that it has no weaknesses and is impeccable.

The most important things in life are nothing more than a good meal and being loved; what you want in life is nothing more than warmth and a good person; what you love most in life is nothing more than protection and companionship. Since love and a lover are not available, protection and companionship are even more important. If this is an extravagant hope, then I can only work hard, not only to eat every meal, but also to eat well, to be that strong and brave woman who protects her son, accompanies her parents, with light in her eyes and dreams in her heart.

Everyone’s time is limited. We have to do unlimited things in the limited time. Life is so short, so don’t live for others. Don't be limited by dogma and don't live in other people's ideas. Don't let other people's opinions influence your inner voice. The most important thing is to be brave enough to follow your heart and intuition. Only your heart and intuition know your true thoughts, and everything else is secondary.

Don’t look back on the past, and don’t settle for the rest of your life. In this life, people must eventually learn to reconcile with themselves. After being stubborn, humbled, and in pain, I finally understood that those who let go first are often the first to be relieved.

The road you have walked will become the scenery in your memories; all your experiences will become your wealth; the burdens you once had will become your gifts; the suffering you have suffered will illuminate you. The road ahead.

You must work harder, live a good life, be a lovely person, a shining person, not give in, not dependent, have a deep affection for the sufferings of the past, but never look back.

Go through it, and then regret it, do what you want to do, choose what you love, not what others think is right, your whole life should be lived for yourself.

While the years are still there, while the smile is still beautiful, while the sun is still bright and shining, end every single day and be a better version of yourself and have a better life.