If you get married, would you rather have a modern wedding in a city hotel or a traditional wedding in your hometown?

If I get married, I'd rather have my wedding in a hotel. The main reasons are:

1, it's too hard for parents to have a wedding in the countryside.

If the wedding is held in our village, our parents will do all the details, such as the arrangement of guests, the purchase of food and the diet in the kitchen. In the past, my brother's weddings were all held in the village. When I went back, I saw that my parents had become panda eyes. Prepare all kinds of supplies and ingredients the day before the wedding. Get up early in the morning on the wedding day to arrange things, greet guests during the day, and have a flowing mat all day. Like the bride and groom, they almost have no time to eat all day, so it hurts to sneak into the kitchen and wolf down a few mouthfuls. In the evening, I will arrange to clear the table and clean up. The workload is too heavy. Therefore, I prefer to hold a wedding in a hotel. As long as I arrange my own affairs, other activities are busy in the hotel. As long as my parents help meet the guests together, they can sit down and eat. They don't have to get up early or stay up late, and they don't have to prepare in advance. They just want to be happy to see me get married.

It is too much trouble for relatives and friends to hold a wedding in the countryside.

Our village's own wedding has always been helped by relatives and friends, from the wedding room, wedding car, shopping, reception, kitchen, washing dishes, serving food and mopping the floor. Although we have disposable bowls and chopsticks now, we have to be troubled by many complicated things. As long as our parents are busy, they are busy, and they are still tired after delaying time. So I'd like to get married in a hotel. As long as they come to my wedding happily and eat and drink happily, I feel very happy.

3. Getting married in a hotel will make it easier to take care of distant friends and minimize bad greetings.

Although I like traditional weddings very much, there are various customs in traditional weddings, such as the time to pick up the bride, the time to visit the bride, and what kind of friends can be present at that time. These things were busy, and the guests at the water table came early, but they were full before the bride came in. There were so many people that their parents didn't have time to take care of them, so people left with regret that they couldn't see the bride. Even some friends from afar may arrive when we are busy with the ceremony, but no one has received them yet. I hope everyone can come and go happily at my wedding. At the wedding in the hotel, everyone eats at the same time, and the couple will give you tea when they eat. Everyone can see the new couple's smile and receive everyone's blessing.

Moreover, friends from afar can also arrange accommodation nearby and will not leave early because they are in a hurry. Many friends I haven't seen for many years after graduation can also stay after the wedding to catch up. You can also take them to play the next day and send them when you have time.

So no matter how much I like traditional weddings, I prefer to take care of my parents and friends and choose to get married in a hotel.