Society is the jungle of life.

Do things with tact and be wise.

A law of the jungle society can't survive without wisdom.

1, the cat taught the mouse to save a hand: don't always show your talents, otherwise it won't be long before people will think you are anything unusual. So, you always have to leave some unique skills. If you can always reveal a little fresh talent, people will always expect you and want to know how deep and wide your talent is.

2. Be a principled good man: The difference between a "good man" and a "bad man" is that a good man has principles and a bad man doesn't.

3, stay away from the villain, don't flatter the gentleman: stay away from the villain, but don't show disgust; Be humble when you are close to a gentleman.

4. Human feelings should be used on the cutting edge: key friends should be reserved for critical times, and don't abuse goodwill on unimportant things. If you trade less for more, what will be left in the future? People who can protect your kindness or protect you are far more precious than anything else.

5. The "respect" of others is often your resource: don't overestimate your personality charm, which may be worthless in the eyes of others; On the contrary, things that have nothing to do with your personality can arouse people's interest more.

6. "Talent failure" is mostly caused by yourself: if you don't put the "awl" in the bag yourself, don't expect to "stand out".

7. Be cautious about villains: Villains are called villains because their influence is both contemptuous and frightening.

8. Don't let others know that you are too depressed: people who know the value of pain will not easily reveal and show their pain to others, even the closest people. Because you always pour out your frustrations to others, you leave a weak impression.

9. "Spontaneous action" is not desirable: "Emotion is invisible" will make people feel that you are gloomy and unpredictable; Crying when talking, laughing when talking, will make people feel that you are immature. People who are "spontaneous" can't bear great responsibilities in their work.

10, repay kindness without repaying it, and human feelings will not last long: giving should not expect return, but it should not breed bad habits.

1 1, get along with colleagues and keep a proper distance: the rule of making people happy is: open their appetite, but never let them eat. The desire to wait is more important than feeling full after eating. The same is true of the relationship between colleagues.

12, you can't be afraid of being strong just because you are weak, and you can't stand out just because you are strong: too rigid will be folded, too soft will be scrapped. If you want to be fair, you must be soft and strong; If you want to be strong, you must protect it with weakness.

13, digging a deep well is better than digging ten shallow pits: patience and persistence are better than fierceness and fanaticism, so many things are often ruined by persistence.

14, emotional, harmful: Good temper is the best clothes a person can wear in social activities. Therefore, don't act impulsively, "endure a calm moment and take a step back"!

15, one meter raises a hundred kinds of people: only by understanding the personality of the people you associate with can you know their intentions. Knowing the reason, you will know the result; The results will tell us their motives.

16, the "rules" that the office should abide by: what you hear is not what you want to hear, but you can't ignore it; What it sees is not what it wants to see, but it can't be ignored.

17, Dignity and popularity: Don't let self-righteous opinions of yourself and your friends arise and continue in social life, because this conversation should be more like a game than a business, and avoid seriousness through an appropriately inserted joke.

18, don't give others a chance to confront each other: when you compete with your opponent, your reputation will be damaged. Your competitors will immediately try their best to find fault with you and discredit you. So it is better to do things for people in a roundabout way.

19, hurting people is indispensable, and preventing people is indispensable: try to make others look down on you, but don't look down on others.

20. There must be a degree to maintain self-esteem: if a person is wise, he must be soberly aware; People who are too sensitive to everything will not win the respect of others.

2 1, rather learn from the tortoise than be a rabbit: the spirit of "tortoise" is never to stop working hard, no matter how big the sun is, no matter how comfortable the rabbit enjoys the cool under the tree! Keep moving! So should life.

22. Don't fight an uncertain battle: soldiers have lost the battle, and as long as they are not dead, they will have a chance to go to the battlefield again. Life is not like this. Failure once sometimes costs him half his life or even his whole life.

23, compliment to say, but by no means the more the better: prudent people know enough is enough, rather than exaggerating, it is better to say less. True Excellence is hard to come by, and should not be over-complimented.

24. Listen to the sound of gongs and drums, and hear the voice: the way of speaking must conform to the personality of the other party, which will be effective; But don't neglect your friendship with each other, otherwise, it's better not to say "shallow friendship is deep" and "unspeakable".

25. Be a good person without losing dignity: people who never lie are easy to trust others, and people who never lie always trust others. Don't be too kind, give others a chance to show that your heart is too bad. You should be half snake and half pigeon. This is not the devil, but heaven.

26. The first trick is strong: a happy machine is like a transaction in the market. With a slight delay, the price will change. It is really a rare wisdom to be good at finding the right opportunity at the beginning of doing something.

27. Learn from losers: If you have to go through every failure, you will never succeed.

28. Winning or losing is often linked to grievances: it is difficult to measure winning or losing between people with a standard. "Where there is blood, there is a heart for competition." It's really not worth losing a lot because of small things.

29. To be a "good person", you should learn to protect yourself: "People are good at being bullied, while Ma is good at being ridden". Good people have to do it, but you have to have your own principles, because blind tolerance will only bring more harm to others.

30. "Selfishness" should be measured: everyone has selfishness, which is a human nature issue, not a moral issue.

3 1, don't take porcelain work without gold, steel and cobalt: this extraordinary road will be very disadvantageous.

32. Once the villain is in power, he will never tolerate it: not giving the villain a complete taboo is tantamount to finding trouble for himself.

33. Don't take part in a play: sometimes you can go with the flow, but don't lose self-esteem for it; "Take part in accidental amusement" is an excuse for those who are willing to fall. Don't deviate from the beacon of morality. Otherwise, you are demeaning yourself.

34, grasp the discretion of speaking: the other party is not a person who can say everything, telling the truth is not less for you. Others are not unspeakable, but needless to say and should not be said.

35. Don't "go too far" in everything: a wise man sums up all wisdom as the golden mean and makes mistakes. Squeezing orange juice will only be bitter. Don't go to extremes even when you are happy. Abuse of talent will definitely dry up your mind. Milking like a tyrant only gets blood.

36. There is a mentality of "losing money is a blessing": if a person refuses to lose money everywhere and wants to take advantage of it everywhere, then his arrogance will inevitably infringe on the interests of others, and then disputes will arise. How can he not lose money?

37. Where to fall, where to get up: A person can achieve something and surpass ordinary people in temperament, often because of his attitude towards failure, and failure is something that everyone will experience. A person's spiritual failure is a complete failure.

It's great to be a good person when you know your mistakes. Mistakes are not terrible. The terrible thing is that I was wrong, but I didn't realize my mistake. I realized it, but I didn't correct it, which is even more wrong.

39, duplicity is not worthy of sincerity: be careful to find out other people's plots, pay attention to their movements, in order to find out what they want, and more importantly, don't let the other party see all of you.

40. Don't expose your cleverness in front of others: always make them feel important! You know, being an important person is everyone's wish.

4 1, few people talk: a calm listener is not only popular everywhere, but also knows a lot. If you don't say it publicly, it will only attract others' jealousy.

42. Don't speak too fast: It is common for two people to argue and disagree. But the truth is not a lie, there are no two faces. In this case, we should deal with it cautiously and tactfully. Sometimes you might as well stand in the other person's point of view, carefully correct your own point of view, and examine your own motives from the perspective of others' ideas. Only in this way, you will not blindly condemn others, nor will you blindly defend yourself.

43. Ignorance and cleverness are not as good as cleverness and ignorance: you should also keep your hand in the showdown, exposing your own advantages too much and your own shortcomings at the same time.

44. Make friends all over the world and open your eyes: there will always be people who will make us feel hurt, and this result is often that we put ourselves in a vulnerable position first.

45. Retreat for progress: "Compromise" is not weakness: "Compromise" is not unprincipled concession, but positive "hide one's light and bide one's time", which is actually opening the way for one's own interests, especially when risks are involved.

Life is worse than death: "Win-win" is a mutual compromise and a healthy competition, which can help us maximize our common interests.

47. Resolve others' jealousy with a condescending attitude: Sometimes, the best knowledge is to be completely ignorant or pretend to be completely ignorant; Because we have to live with others, most people don't want you to be better than them. Many times, you really should: you would rather get drunk with others than wake up alone.

48. Where does the right come from without strength? Never bargain with others without winning chips.

49. Both the leading role and the supporting role can be played, and both the stage and the stage are very comfortable: you don't have to be ambitious to realize your ambition. In the process of struggle, different people will have different experiences, so they should be able to endure the pain of failure. A person who really wants to achieve something, is ambitious, does not think about temporary success and obstacles, and will not be troubled by temporary success or failure.

50. Help others should also be private: a big lesson in life is to know how to refuse, and it is better to do nothing for something unimportant.

In a word, society is the jungle of life. We can't stand on our feet without experience. Therefore, you should be sophisticated and wise.