The silent king showed a strong competitive spirit in the program. Can he be so indomitable in his feelings for a long time?

Feelings of intolerance and tolerance really won't last long. It will only make everyone lose. There's really no need to do this.

I think being competitive is a good thing, which can encourage people to live and work harder. But I think competitiveness is also a double-edged sword, with both advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is to bring positive energy, but if competitiveness is not used in the right place or even a little obsessed, then competitiveness is negative energy, which will lead people to the abyss.

I think the competitive spirit of the silent king is nothing. It feels normal and competitive. Of course, it may be a little better than ordinary people who eat melons, but it doesn't cause any harm.

I want to talk about the competitive spirit of Heyang in my feeling. Let's ask ourselves, can you tolerate a partner who won't let you do anything and will fight for everything? I don't think so. Because no one wants to be suppressed forever, and no one wants to be confused all the time. Therefore, this relationship full of sense of victory and defeat cannot last long. If it lasts for a long time, in addition to sincere love, it may be that the other party was abused out of Stockholm syndrome.

I think the key to lasting love is mutual tolerance and understanding. If I can't do this, I really can't think of a long-term possibility. Unhappy things should not continue in the first place, should they? I can't feel happiness in my feelings. Why should I continue?

So I suggest that if you really want to maintain a good relationship, let this relationship always be in a positive energy position. Then please get rid of the extreme psychology of winning or losing. Learn to put yourself in each other's shoes, learn to tolerate each other, and don't have too strong extreme psychology. Forgive others and let love dissolve everything, okay?

To sum up, you can win or lose, but don't go too far. You must learn to control yourself. Don't end up hurting others and yourself, so it's not worth the candle, is it?