Let's talk about sharpening the knife in the dormitory.

1, it is inevitable to encounter pain unexpectedly. Happy people are not without pain, but will not be affected by pain. Pain is not terrible. What is terrible is that you betrayed yourself and became an accomplice to pain. We should manage our own hearts, forget those unpleasant past events, dilute those contradictions and entanglements, and regard pain as a whetstone of will. In this way, the pain in others' eyes is just a cloud in their own eyes.

2, love is like picking fruit, picking it too early, the fruit is immature, bitter and astringent, and it is difficult to swallow; Picked too late, the fruit is fully mature, either falling from the branches or being preempted by others. Picking fruits in time is not only a kind of wisdom, but also a kind of fate. It is not easy to pick a lovely fruit in this life. It is a nature to hold the fruit in the palm of your hand when it is the most abundant.

3. Life is not about compromise. The further you shrink back, the more limited your breathing space is. Life is not for making do. The more humble you are, the farther away some happy things will be from you.

4. Sometimes our happiness is not how much we take, but how much we give up; Our pain is not imposed by the outside world, but something that does not belong to us. The root of pain is born in our hearts. It flies in our endless desires, grows wildly in our wanton pursuit, squeezes out happiness and covers it up. Therefore, giving up properly can let us stick to the space of one's mind and cultivate a paradise of the mind.

The wind is still blowing. Flowers are still in full bloom. The sun still rises in the same way. But something has changed.

6, love does not need any reason, once too many reasons are attached, it will become a burden. If you love, be dead set. If you don't love, don't ask questions. There are many people worthy of love in life, but few people can really love.

7. Every choice must be a transcendence, otherwise don't choose; Every time you give up, you must be a sublimation, otherwise don't give up. The greatest pleasure of being a man is to realize your ideals through struggle, so choosing to give up means being more perfect, and having shortcomings means working harder. Giving up is a kind of wisdom, and defect is a kind of grace. Because with new goals to struggle, life will be more exciting and life will be more fulfilling.

8. Love is on the left, love is on the right, walk on both sides of life, sow and blossom at any time. This long journey, decorated with fragrant flowers, makes pedestrians who wear branches and brush leaves feel no pain, tears can fall, but they are not sad.

9. Happiness is the light boiled water in your hand. Can be sweet, if you add some sugar; Can be memorable, if you add some fragrant coffee; It can be bitter or sweet. If you add some tea, in short, happiness is your experience of life and your perception of life! Happiness is living with a smile.

10, lovers always say a lot of boring things and do some boring things. Happiness is being bored with someone to accompany you. It's rare that neither of you are bored.