Father-in-law's car accident compensation, aunt for compensation. Is this daughter raised for nothing?

A few days ago, a reader left me such a message: "In feelings, if money loses the meaning of exchange, its value is just a pile of unwanted waste paper."

We strive to make money because money has brought great changes to our life and emotional marriage, but whether this change is good or bad depends entirely on our own values. So now more and more people can completely ignore their own bottom line and abandon the most precious things in their feelings for money. Many people are familiar with the phrase "I would rather cry in a luxury car than laugh on a bicycle", but the extremely realistic and rational values of money distort the most basic principles of our communication with people.

Money is a good thing, and you get what you pay for it. No one wants to marry someone who has no money, but money can also make people lose their conscience. The author has discussed before that we can love money and constantly experience the height of money and material giving on the road of life, but don't lose the bottom line of personality by any means because of money.

How many lovers who respect each other as guests refuse to come and go because of money, and how many family members who love each other are also brought to court because of money. Unfortunately, driven by realistic interests, most people's feelings are worthless, and how many people forget their original intention in their true feelings for their inner selfish desires?

Zhou Xiaomeng is a child from the countryside. Her family conditions are not good and her desire for money is particularly strong. Because of poverty, I am eager to change. Although Meng Xiao regards money as her life, she is an out-and-out upright person.

Her husband Amin is a great worker who works with construction teams all over the country all the year round. In this era, men will make a living as long as they are not lazy. Amin doesn't have a degree, but he does things just right. Amin's reputation has always been good from friends, colleagues and relatives at home, and the young man has also saved a little money over the years. At the end of last year, Amin and Meng Xiao bought a house in the county, but their parents didn't give any money.

Amin has a half-sister, the daughter of his father and his ex-wife. In fact, a father loves his daughter more than his son, because in his eyes, his feelings with the original husband and wife are irreplaceable. Amin's mother was only introduced to his father through a matchmaker, and she didn't have deep feelings. In Amin's memory, his parents quarreled every three days. In other words, their parents just want to live together.

The existing form of marriage is like this. Some people just walk into the marriage hall because of love, while others just walk together for mutual care in life. No matter what form, when the inner "needs" and "possession" of husband and wife are just right, this is a happy marriage in everyone's eyes. The mode of marriage is definitely Qian Qian, but the only constant is that the loyalty and tolerance between husband and wife is an important prerequisite for long-term coexistence with each other.

After Meng Xiao and Amin got married, everything at home was handled by Meng Xiao. Whether taking care of children or in-laws, or even eating and drinking Lazarus, Meng Xiao is really conscientious as a daughter-in-law. Even though her mother-in-law offered to pay the living expenses, Meng Xiao never asked for a penny. She's just acting on her conscience. In her view of marriage, it is her bounden duty for children to be filial to their parents.

It's just that this life is not long. Not long ago, my father-in-law died in a car accident because he was drunk. In the end, he lost 1.2 million, spent 80,000 on the funeral, and returned the remaining 40,000 to his mother-in-law by Meng Xiao. I wanted to feel sorry for your loss, but Sister Amin stood up and pointed to the remaining 40,000 compensation. In front of her family, Amin's sister, Meng Xiao's aunt, said such things rudely.

"Mom, I call you mom, but also because of the mutual affection between you and my father for many years. My father died, and I am her only daughter, so everything in this family has my share. The remaining 40,000 yuan, you must give me 20,000 yuan. " My aunt is shameless.

Meng Xiao's mother-in-law is in a bad mood. Hearing her daughter say this, her heart has been burning, let alone letting her give her money. To tell the truth, my mother-in-law really didn't do it because her daughter was not her own, nor did she favor her own son Amin. In recent years, this family is full of Amin and Meng Xiao. Whenever the family needs to spend money, Meng Xiao never allows her in-laws to disturb her married aunt. Every time Meng Xiao and his wife visit her home for New Year's greetings, they often subsidize her privately, but in contrast, she usually goes back to her parents' home empty-handed. She only knows how to give presents to her father during the Spring Festival. Although her mother is a stepmother, she is at least a family, and she has been doing this for a long time.

When my father-in-law died, the family was extremely sad. At this time, my aunt still had the idea to fight for compensation, and she always knew how to tolerate her little dreams. In the face of menstruation's demands, this time she couldn't bear it.

"Elder sister, this is no time, are you still thinking about this money? I'm not the sister-in-law talking about you. You did a terrible job. Besides being a married daughter, have you done your duty to my parents over the years? When you need to spend money at home, you just distance yourself and say that married prostitutes don't ask about family affairs. When you have money at home, you lick your face and ask for it. Being a man can't be like you! "

Meng Xiao's remarks are correct. Treat a woman like Gu Jie, be sure to make it clear. If the feelings between relatives are completely determined by economic interests, there is no need to talk about feelings at this time. Isn't it casting pearls before swine to reason with a man without conscience? The truth is always told to those who can understand it. Based on emotion and reason, menstruation really shouldn't fight for compensation at this time. However, Gu Jie was ungrateful, and the tea in her hand was poured directly into Meng Xiao. Fortunately, the temperature of tea is not high, otherwise something might happen.

Daughter-in-law loves her mother-in-law, who seems to know how to be filial to her parents-in-law, so her mother-in-law can't bear to be bullied by such a good daughter-in-law. She said to her face, "I'll lose if I give you a penny." You have no conscience. You are really an immature baiwenhang. Tell me what this family has done to you over the years, and you still have the nerve to ask your father for compensation. If I give it to you, I will really become a sinner.

Because of money, my aunt finally broke up with this family, and also because of money, Meng Xiao saw the warmth of human feelings that she didn't want to see, and saw the greed and selfishness behind the cruelty of human nature. There are really not many women like Meng Xiao who always put their feelings first. She really loves money, but in the face of their family's feelings, this kind of woman can stand up and stand up straight, and will not lose the principle of being a man because of the temptation of interests. Therefore, such a woman deserves the love of every man and the respect and maintenance of her in-laws.

A good marriage, of course, is inseparable from material support. It's just that this kind of support is just a need in life, which will not lead to the bottom line of being a man, and will not be based on family affection, friendship of friends, or even the precious feelings of husband and wife. Anyone who can stick to himself and live a happy life knows a truth: because of love, there is a need for money and material things, not because of money and material things.

Some friends will say that my aunt, as the only daughter of my father-in-law, deserves her share of the money. Is it a bit arbitrary for my mother-in-law to do so? I don't want to disagree, regardless of the legal level. From the moral and ethical point of view, Gu Jie's appeal and personality are completely untenable, and she can only enjoy it if she knows how to pay. In other words, Gu Jie didn't do her duty of raising and filial piety, and she didn't deserve the money.