How does the preference of parents for sons affect you?

My parents prefer boys to girls, but there is no other way. Maybe they have feudal ideas, which have a great influence on me!

Tell me about my experience! There are three brothers and sisters in my family. I am the youngest sister and two brothers.

When I was a child, my family was in poor condition. My mother has never bought me new clothes. Every New Year, my brothers wear new clothes, but I can only wear the old clothes my brother wore last year.

I remember the clearest thing, and it is also the saddest thing for me. When I was in the sixth grade, I felt a stomachache in the morning. I told my mother that she didn't care at all and told me to eat and go to school at once. I went to school for two classes and passed out with a stomachache. The head teacher quickly called my dad and asked him to take me to the hospital, but I waited until after school, and my dad took his time. At that time, the class teacher also scolded my dad.

Later, he was admitted to a key university, with an annual tuition fee of more than 4,000 yuan and a monthly living allowance of 800 yuan. Every time I talk about this at home, my dad says to leave an account and I will pay it back later.

At this time, my eldest brother was doing business, and my father gave him 200,000 yuan. In the end, my brother lost all his money, and my father didn't ask him to pay it back.

Once, there was a social practice course in the university, which required a registration fee of 5000 yuan. I told my dad that my dad kept crying and advised me not to go, but this practical course was very helpful for my graduation thesis. I can't help it. I borrow money from my classmates.

During the winter vacation, I have been working and have no time to go home. My mother called me on New Year's Eve and asked me why I didn't go home. I said, "I borrowed 5000 yuan from my classmates and paid it back by working." My mother only said, remember to eat and then hung up the phone.

Finally graduated, I can earn money to support myself. Who knows, it's not that simple. I was influenced by my parents when I was a child. When I grow up, school and work are particularly hard, and life is really hard. Sometimes I really don't know what to do.