Be a woman that men like and have a chat.

As if he didn't tell me anything, everything was in the room;

The more I want to communicate, the more he avoids it;

He doesn't share his joys and sorrows with me, and I never seem to have entered his heart;

I really want him to share his troubles and hope that he can trust me;

He doesn't love me at all, always avoiding problems;

I said, can you tell me what you think?

How can I understand you if you don't tell me?

Can you explain it clearly?

His reaction was mostly coaxing and then silence.

In the relationship between men and women, it seems that there is always one person chasing and one person running away. Those who chase are anxious, and those who flee avoid it. The closer you want to get, the more distant you become.

Men usually like to avoid, while women expect to get more security from intimate relationships.

We all hope to have a heart-to-heart relationship, treat each other honestly and sincerely, and become the most solid backing and the softest comfort for each other.

However, we approached again and again, but it seemed to push him away again and again.

"I want to communicate with him, share with him and listen to his voice. Am I wrong? "

Honey, you're right. Our purpose is not wrong, it is for better intimacy, but we use the right method?

Sometimes, the more we resist, the stronger this force becomes, which often backfires.

We will find a situation. The more you want to refuse his avoidance and criticize his avoidance, the easier it is for him to stay in his shell.

Nobody likes to be changed, and nobody wants to be criticized. Many people are soft and fragile inside.

Some people have learned to protect themselves from harm-by covering up, disguising and wearing "masks".

But unconditional love, kindness and goodwill usually pierce these disguises. They found their home in others' hearts, and others began to respond.

So, how to make men respond, and how to make men our bosom lovers?

As long as we do this-understanding, understanding has magical power, and it is also a beacon on the road to others' hearts.

If we don't understand, we have to understand others first, and others will definitely shut us out. Understanding is the core point of becoming a bosom lover.

Next, let's see how to get to know him and become his bosom lover!

1, keep "sufficient mentality"

"Sufficient mentality" is the spirit of love and the essence of marriage.

"Sufficient mentality" means that you learn to love yourself, be responsible for yourself and give yourself positive energy first, instead of looking for reasons from the outside whenever you encounter something, knowing how to actively interpret what is happening around you with "internal strength" and treat marriage with a "win-win" mentality.