Why do women like sarcasm?

Male friends often ask me why women especially like sarcasm.

For example, Mr. A said that he quarreled with his wife because of a little thing, and after a few quarrels, he went into the house to play games, and then he forgot. But after the fight, he saw his wife still sitting in the living room pouting, so he went over and asked, "What's the matter with you? Still angry? " The wife looked at him and said, "No!" So Mr. A sat on the sofa and began to watch the game with peace of mind.

My wife suddenly lost her temper, dug up all the old stories and said that A Jun didn't love herself, was irresponsible, and that she was too pitiful ... This series of complaints made A Jun inexplicable, and then they started a big war.

In fact, in the end, the reason for their quarrel has completely separated from the trivial matter of the initial quarrel, but has risen to the height of understanding and incomprehension. A jun thought, let me ask you something. Didn't you say that you are no longer angry? But his wife thought, are you stupid? Didn't you hear me being sarcastic?

This has become the norm of their quarrel. But Mr. A just never understood that his wife was sarcastic, and his wife was sad for Mr. A's low emotional intelligence.

Another friend, Mr. B, told me one day that he was lovelorn. The reason is that his girlfriend said that he really doesn't understand his own heart.

The thing is, every time my girlfriend and I go out and see expensive bags or beautiful clothes, Mr. B says, "Buy it, I'll pay!" " "But my girlfriend said shyly," Forget it, it's too expensive! "Don't!" So Mr. B will nod and say, "All right!" Then leave. After every such thing, he and his girlfriend will inevitably have a big fight.

The last straw that crushed their love was that one day his girlfriend was ill, and Mr. B happened to ask his buddy out that day, so he called her and asked, "Do you need me to accompany you?" The girlfriend said, "I'm fine. Get busy when you are busy! " "So Mr. B said happily," All right, baby, have a good rest. I will come back to see you! ""Then I went out to play with my buddies for a day.

When he comes back, what is waiting for him is not the smiling face of his girlfriend, but the breakup without any room for change. Mr. b was in great pain and didn't understand what had happened.

After listening to the above two stories, I told Ah Jun: "Women are emotional animals and like to be sarcastic when they are angry. But you must remember that any woman in this world is like this, and everyone you are looking for is the same. The only way to live in peace with women is to practice slowly. When you can hear when your wife is sarcastic and what she wants, there will be no such confusion. "

And I said to Mr. B, "If I were your girlfriend, I would break up with you, too. Because everything else has been forgotten, as far as diseases are concerned, you are not only low in emotional intelligence, but also poor in IQ! "

Why do women like to be sarcastic, while men find it puzzling? Because the thinking of these two creatures is not at all the same level. Women are used to reverse thinking, and many times they always like to beat around the bush to let men guess because of reserve and other reasons. Men, on the other hand, like to think positively, straightforward and single-minded. Although many times it looks more like a woman's unreasonable troubles, I think it is also a unique taste of women. If this woman is as straightforward as a man, I don't think you will necessarily like her, will you?

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Of course, most straight men will think that women's minds are too difficult to guess, and they can't figure out why women like to be sarcastic. So, how should men live in peace with women who like to say irony? I summed up a few for my male compatriots, so let's have some new skills.

Many times, men like to ask women, "Your birthday is coming. Do you want to give you a necklace?" "The bag you just saw is good. Shall I buy it for you? " "Don't you like the steak in the revolving restaurant? Do you want me to take you to eat? " In this case, most women will not agree directly. Because I think it is meaningless to say yes directly, and I seem ignorant, ignorant and not reserved. So he said against his will: "Forget it, no need, or don't!"

But in fact, behind this sentence is "I really want it, but I'm embarrassed to say, you can do it without asking me, understand?" Therefore, women hate men asking them to do problems, but want men to directly decide or give themselves two options, and they must choose one. This is why the overbearing president is so popular these years, because every woman likes a man who can pamper herself like this.

So, when your woman wants to have a birthday, anniversary and eat something. Don't ask her this and that again, just buy her a present. No matter what you buy, as long as it is a surprise, no woman will not like it. If you really can't decide, just take her to the store and force her to buy one. Don't listen to that "don't". You really don't want it.

One of the main manifestations of women's duplicity is that they always like to hold their stubborn little heads high and say, "I'm fine!" " "

In fact, when your woman is sick, unhappy and wronged, do you think she will really get well?

If you already know that she is angry and unhappy, ask her what's wrong with you, and then pretend to feel at ease when she pouts and says I'm fine, then you deserve the next big fight.

If you ask her what's wrong when she is sick or particularly helpless, and then turn away when she holds her breath and says nothing. Then you deserve the result of breaking up. No wonder anyone.

Therefore, when your woman has the above performance, don't believe the sentence "I'm fine". Judging by your IQ and EQ, when you are sick, frustrated and unhappy, do you want the person you love to stay with you all the time? Even if she says she's fine, stay with her, even if it's just sitting beside her and giving her a shoulder to spend the most difficult time with her.

Every woman will not belittle herself for no reason. When she started to criticize herself, she actually wanted to hear your praise. When she starts to question herself, it's actually when she wants you to be sure of her.

So, when a woman says, "I feel fat and my legs don't look good!" "You must pay attention to, this must be a pit. She doesn't want to hear you agree and say, "Well, you've gained weight recently. Legs? It seems ok! "I don't want to hear you say," I like being fat! " "If you say so, then don't think her next outbreak is unreasonable. In fact, she just wants to hear you sincerely say "no, no fat!" " If you are fat, what will others do? You are just right, you can't be thinner! "You must look her in the eye and speak very seriously and sincerely.

Every woman wants praise and recognition from her partner, which is more effective than any beauty product. And praise a woman, isn't that what every man should do?

It has been said before that when a man quarrels with a woman, the quickest solution is a strong kiss. Every woman has a dream of being beaten, so she likes watching TV and novels of overbearing presidents.

When quarreling, a woman who is duplicitous will always say something that she doesn't mean. If you really turn around and leave at this time, it will be a more serious quarrel or cold war, or a breakup. Every woman wants to be cared about, especially when quarreling.

If it's not something that touches your bottom line, you might as well coax her. Actually, women are really easy to coax. You hold her and bully her. No matter how hard she struggles, she won't let go. After a while, she will say softly and infinitely, "Hum, hate, I won't talk to you next time!" " Think about this picture, isn't it better than quarreling?

Women especially like to ask men for advice. For example, when they see beautiful clothes, they can't decide whether to buy them. For example, when they have a new hairstyle, they will feel very uneasy. For example, they have a little regret when they buy something. At this time, women often ask men, "What do you think of this?"

Although a woman will ask you questions in a rhetorical way, she doesn't really want to hear you give her a very real analysis of what's wrong and what's not suitable. Since she came to ask you, it shows that she likes it, and she hopes that you can confirm her choice 10,000 times. And all you have to do is tell her, "It's beautiful, it suits you, it's really beautiful!" "When you say these words, don't stare at your mobile phone or look far away. You must look at her, smile and nod slightly.

By this time, things have been bought and hair cut, and what has been done is a fait accompli. Why don't you go with the flow, make her happy, and you are happy. Why not?

To sum up, do you think women are a little headstrong and unreasonable? But no matter what, you have to tolerate her, who let her be the one you love? Isn't it your greatest pride as a man to spoil her?

Moreover, women will be sarcastic when they love you, and no woman will be bored to study the speaking skills of an irrelevant person. For people she doesn't like, she will only be straight and don't even want to say a word. Besides, women don't care what people don't like. Her unreasonable and coquetry is for you.

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Of course, women have many ideas besides cynicism. For example, if she hates one person and one thing, she will complain to you. At this time, she doesn't need you to reason with her and analyze the problem at all, but stand on the United front with her.

For example, if she asks you if your best friend is beautiful, you just need to answer "which one?" Didn't pay attention! "

All these, I think you will meet. In real life, the situation is ever-changing, so boys must always pay attention and treat them differently.

Of course, another important principle is to pay attention to her. What women want is enough attention. Answering her questions must not be staring at the mobile phone or computer all the time, and must not use "Oh!" Often. "good!" "ok!" Such monosyllabic words should not be loud when arguing, and they should not always write her a bad check. Another important point is that you must not always refute her and argue with her, always trying to prove yourself right.

If you remember the above, I think it's no problem to coax a good girlfriend. In fact, women are really easy to satisfy animals. As long as it is a little warmer, it can melt instantly and become very gentle. They just hope that the people they love can understand themselves and give up on themselves appropriately. This requirement is not too much.

If you find it difficult, then you must think about whether your road to love is very hard. If you think it's right, keep it in mind.

Skills are dead, but people are alive. I believe you can do better, because you love her and wish her happiness!