Tell me about the mood of the quarrel

In life, when most people quarrel, they do not want to solve problems or express opinions, but just vent their emotions.

Principle of quarreling: Discuss the matter as it is and do not expand it. Do not get involved with other family members. Do not settle old scores. Do not argue about specific matters, do not argue about emotions. Do not say insulting words. Resolutely do not say "breakup" or "divorce". Do not quarrel in front of children. Issues that are easy to quarrel with :. Money, child rearing, time arrangement, personal space, opposite-sex interactions, parents, hobbies, and work plans. When quarreling, men focus on the correctness of things themselves; women focus on communicating feelings.

In fact, many couples Quarreling is all about proving that you care about and love the other person more, but the words you say often turn into venting dissatisfaction. The less the other party wants to hear something, the more they say it! What they originally wanted to prove was love, but turned into proving that they were hurt. !

It’s not that I don’t say some things, it’s not that I can’t say them or I don’t dare to say them. It’s that I have already expected the result of saying it. I don’t say it precisely because the result is not what I want.

There are no thorns that can’t be smoothed out, and there are no scars that can’t be healed. Just because of the chips you paid, you can’t make her smile like a flower...

It’s okay to quarrel, but don’t say “ Whatever you want."

My heart is turbulent and cramping, non-stop, and never stopped. I thought I would never have it, but God is not as good as man. I will meet you the day after tomorrow. , and then, it became a daily routine and stayed in my body forever

For her colleagues, she waited three hours for the lottery, for her classmates, she took a vacation to get married, for her classmates, she quarreled with me... And mine Today, tomorrow is the responsibility of tomorrow, and tomorrow is the day after tomorrow. If I delay my affairs for a month, how can I say that I am one of my own?

Love is a law outside of creation. It cannot be chosen or controlled.

Love is zero-degree ice, friendship is zero-degree water, maybe we are the best mixture of ice and water. When we come together, when the temperature rises, it will bind and turn into water of friendship; when the temperature drops, we will miss you and generate love. Between ice and lukewarm, it’s the ambiguity of love and friendship.

Being angry is obviously a matter of caring more than the cold war. Arguing is just a different kind of obsession between two people who like each other very much. .When silence replaces words, then it is really over...

With you, I have an extra friendship; with you! I have an extra happiness; with you, I have an extra With you, I have an extra feeling; because I fell in love with you!