What about the personalities of Guan Ning and Hua Xin?

In Shi Shuo Xin Yu De, there is a story of "Ning Guan cutting his mat": Ning Guan and Hua Xin are hoeing vegetables in the garden, and there is a piece of gold in the field. There is no difference between a hoe and a tile stone. China people catch it and throw it away. I have also tasted the taste of reading at the same table. Those who pass by the entrance of the porch would rather study as before and read those useless books. I'd rather sit separately and say, "My son is not my friend. Guan Ning and his good friend Hua Xin broke up, not because of any major political contradictions or differences of views, but because of the small details caused by two "just classmates and teenagers" studying together. First, when they were hoeing in the garden, they all found a piece of gold under the ground. Guan Ning looked at it without looking, and regarded it as a tile stone. Hua Xin picked it up and looked at it before throwing it away. This was regarded by Guan Ning as selfish and not a gentleman's act. Second, there are officials crowded at the door. Guan Ning studied as usual, but Huaxin couldn't help but put down his books and ran out to watch the fun. This is regarded by Guan Ning as "eager for officials and gentry", which is not a gentleman's move. So Guan Ning resolutely said to Hua Xin, "It seems that you are not my friend", and cut off the table and cut off his friendship. It goes without saying that the story is included in the article "Virtue" in Shi Shuo Xin Yu. Things are very small, and they are really subtle details that people tend to ignore. But it is precisely because of its smallness that the scholar-officials at that time judged others and strictly restrained themselves, knowing from a small place, but seeing from a small place. Hua Xin refused to take charge of the integrity of Jin. What happened after people "cut their seats"? What about their actions, ambitions, achievements and so on? The reason why these questions are intriguing and attract people to get to the bottom of them is actually related to the future development and "ending" of Hua Er people, and whether the original "cutting seats" can really "foresee" the future. Can it really reflect the success or failure of their lives? The reflection volume thirteen years "Hua Xin biography". According to this legend, this man later became a pillar of talent, even a great man in the Three Kingdoms period, such as Yuan Shu, Sun Ce, Sun Quan and Cao Cao. , invited him to be an official, entrusts with an important task. After the establishment of Wei State, Hua Xin successively held important positions in and, as an official, and Si Tuleideng. However, although Hua Xin holds a high position in Zaifu, he is strict with himself. His honesty and poverty are universally acknowledged. Historically, he was called "plain and rich", so that Wei Wendi was very moved when he heard about it. He wrote a letter saying that the diet in the palace is delicious and diverse now, and Hua Xin is an official of Stuart, but it is unreasonable to eat with the food. Specially gave him royal clothes and made clothes for his wife and children. The biography also recorded a famous story of "Hua Xin refused gold". When Hua Xin was summoned by the son of heaven to leave Sun Quan for Beijing, all the guests and friends came to see him off and gave him several hundred dollars. Hua Xin refused to face to face, but secretly wrote down the name of the giver of each gift. When he left, he gathered all the guests together and said sincerely, "I didn't want to refuse your kindness, but because of the long journey by bike and too many gifts, it would bring unexpected disasters because of the eye-catching treasures, so I had to leave you the gifts." "So according to the single also. This move is not only clean, but also "strategic". Guests and friends admire their moral character. Writing here, I can't help but think of the details of Hua Xin's "throwing it at sight" when he finds money in Ning Guan. It seems that Guan Ning's fussing over a mountain out of a molehill in those days is very doubtful and untenable. In order to make Guan Ning care more about Hua Xin, he is not only honest and upright, but also honest and upright, and he has a good plan to run the country and keep the country safe. He once wrote to the son of heaven to persuade him to "pay attention to the rule of law" and reduce "things to conquer"; He heard that frequent conscription in the war "lost the industry of agriculture and mulberry" and wrote a letter pleading for attaching importance to agriculture: "Those who serve the country are people-oriented, and the people are food and clothing-oriented. If there is no hunger and cold in China, and the people have no desire to leave the land, the world will be lucky. These political propositions of strengthening agriculture and enriching the people still have practical significance today. Therefore, history books praised him as "quiet and carefree for politics and loved by the officials and the people." "What is particularly worth mentioning is Hua Xin's attitude towards his old friend Guan Ning after he made his fortune. When Hua Xin Biography wrote that Hua Xin was an official to Stuart, Ning Guan was recommended to the Emperor as a noble and outstanding talent. Hua Xin came to Qiu and wrote "give way" to Guan Ning. This shows that Hua Xin's aggressive behavior of "breaking up with Guan Ning" in those years, instead of holding a grudge, showed public interests above all else and recommended talents with an extremely generous mind. Hua Xin's virtue is noble. By the way, The Story of the Three Kingdoms Guan Ning said that Ning Guan was a talented person with both ability and political integrity. Don't be too strict in making friends. You should think about it carefully. As an independent story, Ning Guan's departure, starting from the details, and taking "knowing from the details" as the text of feudal scholar-officials' moral education and code of conduct still has certain cognitive value and reference significance. Although "knowing the roots and the bottom" has its desirable side, it is too one-sided and arbitrary to conclude that Hua Xin "yearns for wealth and official positions" based on these two little things. Because one or two details of his friend didn't meet his own standards, Ning Guan broke up flatly, demanding too much and being ungrateful. You should know that being strict with yourself, being lenient with others and "not covering everything" are the cool, objective, tolerant and generous attitudes towards making friends.