How to chat with girls on the phone

I gotta ask you a question?\x0d\When you get a phone call from a woman and you pick up the phone to ask her out, does that make you nervous? Are you afraid? You start thinking about what to say, how to say it, what if she rejects you? Wait? Have you ever felt nervous when you made a phone call? Do you know what it feels like when you start feeling anxious for no reason and have no control over it? Have you ever had to hang up the phone because you felt too nervous to continue? Have you ever called a woman, started chatting, only to find her completely different from the last time you saw her? Have you ever noticed that a woman suddenly becomes cold to you? It feels like you're talking to a completely different person than the girl you were a day or two ago? Doesn't make any sense to you? Right? Finally?\x0d\?? Have you ever had one of these conversations and you realized something wasn't right? She wasn't willing to accept your invitation, or she just wasn't willing to call you back right away? What makes these men always lose out because of these problems at this time? I personally think this issue boils down to a critical "deeper" issue. And I think if you don't "solve" this other problem, you will continue to be entangled in these problems? And "never" know "why"? ?This is bad. I mean, it's so bad that you always have a problem but don't know how to solve it? The solution is to do something you've never thought of, and it drives you a little crazy. In other words, the key to the solution is that you understand the problem so you can actually "prevent" it from happening rather than trying to "fix it" after it happens. Let me put it this way?\x0d\If you make the call and you start getting nervous, by then it's too late to fix the problem. There are no quick fixes that can help you. Or you ask her out on a date on the phone and she says, "Well, I'll call you back in a few days." You start to feel frustrated because you know she's not dumping you. "It's too late." There is no “magic bullet” that will solve the problem at this time. The answer is "prevention". The Magic Equation Let’s take a few minutes to discuss this problem and what “causes” it. Here are some root causes, see what I think about them?\x0d\1) You have no other choice. If you're calling at the phone with ONE phone number in your hand, you haven't been on a date in a long time, and you're feeling "horny," you may become "very" nervous. When you have no other choice, the only choice in front of you becomes "very" precious. Interpretation: You want it "too". This "automatically" kicks in your emotional system and makes you realize on some level that if you mess up, it's over. And you know this ending is going to happen quickly. The pressure is too much! 2) You take a girl alone too seriously. Now, if you have a girl you've been dating for 6 months and you think she's the one in a million and you value her, that's normal. But if you don't know her well and have never dated her, placing too much emphasis on her will most likely lead to frustrating results. 3) Thinking that you need to impress her is a "serious" problem. Most men subconsciously show it in their actions and communications that they are trying to impress the girl they like. When you think about it, it only makes sense: Of course you're trying to impress the girl you like so she'll think you're cool and want to be with you. But have you ever wondered what a funny, attractive woman thinks of a man trying to impress her? Okay, here’s the immediate and knee-jerk reaction this woman would have: “He’s overacting. There must be something wrong. There must be something this guy is hiding? He must be very insecure.

"\x0d\In other words, when you do or say something that is clearly meant to impress a woman, her radar screen will read: "Weak! ”\x0d\4) Having expectations and clinging to them You can think of this as a variation of “wanting too much”? It’s just a little different. When you start looking forward and longing, you start to “cling” to her. . Then you get too hung up on this little fantasy. Women don't date men who think too much, act too submissive, or are too quick to like them. In fact, they can always expect a guy to go out with them on a date or two and say, "You know, I really like you?" or something similar. Just like being too horny can ruin a woman's chances of being with you, liking a woman too quickly and having expectations can lead to crazy and stupid mistakes. Now, think about what I said?\x0d\ Basically what I'm saying is, if you want to fix those issues when you panic when you call them to hook up, when you mess up when you first talk or ask them out for the first time, you need to go deeper. The inside story? Take some preventative steps on your part. The good news is that these steps are not only good for you, but may help you get more opportunities to date interesting women. Here's what you need to know about this. Questions to take: 1) Get more options What if you were out with a few friends one night and you met a "real" hottie? You ended up having an interesting conversation with her and got her number, What should you do next? Go get at least one more girl's number if you can, when you pick up the phone (or email, or whatever). What), you have another woman to call after her?\x0d\In other words, if it doesn't work out this time, it's totally fine. Instead of throwing your "hope" away, go for it. More options? This will prevent a lot of problems, and it will also give you more opportunities to date. Think about it? When are you most likely to get a woman's phone number? When are you most likely to be in an attraction? The state of women? Right? It’s when you’ve got another woman’s phone number. Take advantage of this opportunity! 2) When you call, expect that the girl won’t answer. Let me tell you: most women have their own. Personality, attitude, plans for the future, etc., may keep you from being a good "potential" for her. I'm not saying "all women screw up." The only reason why you are so nervous is that your emotions control everything. Think about it, you will rarely meet a girl who will be submissive to you? Even if the girl is not that good-looking, if you can date her. You'll be happy when you come out. If you maintain this attitude when dialing, you won't act like you're being horny. Don't talk to women like you're being pointed at a gun. gimmick, or? Which is a good thing, too, because women can feel overwhelmed by this stuff too. 3) Don't call the woman out, instead, tell her what you're doing and then tell her she can join in if she wants. Why is it a bad idea to "call a girl out" early in a relationship? Because you don't have a world-class understanding of sexual dynamics, you'll come across as a man who wants to use food as date-bait. In other words, if you start by saying, “I’d like to treat you to dinner.” Might it be interpreted as "Unless I offer something extra, I don't think you'll accept my invitation?" \x0d\ Bonus tip: hint that she'll lose the opportunity if she doesn't accept right away. If she hems and haws, or hesitates? Just cut her off and say "Hey, you're about to lose this opportunity." \x0d\ I also like to say "You know, that's okay. I guess you're a no." Like happy people?"\x0d\Great statement! This is real pride & fun material, and this is the right time to use it.

You know, I myself used to be nervous the first time I called someone and "called them out." Now that I better understand this particular "exact moment" and better understand the "dynamics" of the process, I get better results with my games. Supplement: What do you say on the phone? And whatever you say – make it fun and light-hearted. Confidence will show very clearly in your voice. So stay positive and upbeat, and she'll have a great time talking to you on the phone. Start the conversation by talking about what you have in common? Ask her about her day? Tell her about interesting stories and events from your life? Basically - it's like chatting with an old friend of yours. Don't go for the witty (Don't bewitty). Give yourself permission to relax and be "bored." Because when you allow yourself to make mistakes, you'll be surprised how "creative" you actually are