Honestly, do you care if your girlfriend or wife is not a virgin?

I can tell you responsibly that many people don't care if their wives are virgins.

But I can also tell you more responsibly that there are more and more men who are very concerned about whether their wives are virgins.

If we are together for fun, it may not be obvious, but if we talk about marriage, then we talk about marriage. Virgin or not, you can get up.

Very important. Nowadays, the society in China is becoming more and more open, but there are more and more criteria for men to choose their spouses in China.

Conservative. So, for the sake of the person who will really be with you in the future, please keep your integrity, otherwise, except

Honey, what else can you give him besides this title?

I am 2 1 year old and unmarried. The following are the reference materials I found for you:

The reason why I wrote this article is because some things are too arrogant now, not only asking my later boyfriend to accept it, but even complaining is not allowed. I don't know. It's better to defend Sichuan than to defend the people. How can you stop it? In some places, a lot of word games are used to deliberately distort the concept and try to destroy the virgin complex mentally. As we all know, women are naturally good at language and small gestures, and many boys are seriously influenced by their clever words. However, today I will give full play to the advantages of rigorous thinking and clear logic of science boys and expose these fallacies to everyone. We honest boys must not be deceived by these sweet words, and we can fight back those insidious unjust, false and wrong cases according to the methods in my article in the future, so that they can hide nothing! Let the powerful moral public opinion in society not give these people living space!

Non-virgin, even if you give 10 thousand reasons, it's all rhetoric to refute me, but it's just a rebuttal to the post. You can't change the sentence "virgin, never marry", which is deeply rooted in men's hearts.

Let me ask you one more question. When you go to a restaurant for dinner, the waiter gives you two pairs of chopsticks. One pair is well packed, the other pair has been unpacked, and the chopsticks have been broken. Which pair do you choose? Or even, the waiter brought you a pair of chopsticks that have been broken and used by others. I think you should argue with the waiter at this time why you want to give me a used chopstick.

If the waiter answers, "What you want is rice, not chopsticks. Just eat comfortably. Why don't you care if it is used by others? " I guess you have to scold her.

But I don't think it's much different from the following statement: "You are going to marry a person, not that film. As long as you really love you and treat you well, why care about whether there is that film?"

I believe that any unmarried person who goes to the store to buy chopsticks will not buy chopsticks used by others, even if they have been used once, you will not buy them. Because you think it is dirty, in fact, chopsticks themselves are not dirty, and it is not because someone has used it that you think it is dirty. And this pair of chopsticks, you may only use it for a few months, or a year, and you are reluctant to buy a pair that others have used once.

Chopsticks that others have only used once make you feel dirty. So you have been in and out of the body countless times, so others won't feel dirty? You blame your virginity on men, saying, "Without men, there is no place." Who do you want chopsticks to argue with? Pants can also be said, "If no one uses me, will I get dirty?"

Now I want to add some omissions in my post. The purpose of writing this post is to hope that those girls who are still virgins will lead an honest and clean life, know how to cherish themselves and not do stupid things. I also hope that some men who have irresponsible thoughts about their girlfriends will stop your irresponsible thoughts. If you can't be responsible for this girl all your life, don't take the most precious thing from others.

I also hope you don't blame other men for caring about the virgin plot. If you do, blame the man who was inserted into your body but couldn't give you a marriage certificate. No matter how ugly other men are, only that one man is sorry for you.

By the way, my mistake means that I lost my virginity with my boyfriend before I got married. Not some girls who are forced to j, or who work hard to save their mothers, and so on. These girls deserve my sympathy and respect, and I salute them.

Supplement two, I want to ask you what's wrong? You look like your father-in-law with your head. What would your parents-in-law think of you if you knew that you had been dating other men for several years before you got married and had sex several times? How will you live in the next few decades and how will you face it? How many parents in this world are great enough to tolerate these and don't care at all?

Supplement three, no, you will say. You are not a virgin, why should you ask others to be virgins?

Then a man can also ask a question, "If you don't have a house yourself, why do you ask your husband to have a house?"

You might say, because I am a woman and you are a man, you should have a house.

The man can also say that because I am a man and you are a woman, you must be a virgin.

Supplement 4: Would you rather marry a virgin husband or have sex with other men several times? If you are given another chance to choose, you know your answer.

Supplement five, it takes two hands to make a sound. I think many girls are not forced by their boyfriends. Are voluntary. Don't say reluctant. At the last minute, you have gone to open a room alone with your boyfriend for one night. If you know how to love yourself, will you lose your virginity if you don't go to a room alone with him? If he stays in the girls' dormitory honestly, I can't imagine how he just gave up. He ran to the girls' dormitory and gave up with you in your bed.

Eighth, it doesn't matter whether you are a virgin or not. No, you won't read my post now.

Myth 1: Why do you want to be a virgin when your girlfriend is not a man?

Trick: by asking this question, many men immediately show that they are virgins, so they have the right, and non-virgins often feel ashamed. However, both of these reactions fall into the trap set by some people. The purpose of this trap is to establish a seemingly reasonable standard. Only local men can ask virgins to be wives or girlfriends, and then let non-local men have nothing to say. Without the support of non-virgin men, local men are easily subdued by some non-local people through other fallacies and heresies.

Positive Solution: This fallacy can easily be refuted by a rhetorical question: "Why do you women let men support the main source of income for your family? Or why men are required to be self-motivated, responsible, graceful and so on? If there is heavy manual labor at home, why should men do it? If you women can't do the above? " Now everything is clear. Some people try to take advantage of people's blind spots in thinking to isolate and narrow the word "equality", causing people's misunderstanding. In fact, "equality" is in a broad sense. Men are masculine, women are feminine, and their essence is different. Equality in a narrow sense is impossible to achieve. Men have jj, women have yd, which is a kind of equality, not to say that men have jj, women have jj is equal. Therefore, masculinity and femininity are equivalent. Men are expected to be able to support the family economy, have a sense of responsibility and be able to do heavy physical labor, while women are expected to be chaste, gentle and have a good appearance and figure. If a female netizen wants her boyfriend and husband to give up caring about whether they are female, gentle and good-looking, then she should also take the initiative to give up caring about whether the other person can support the family economy, be responsible and be manly. I hope everyone will not be misled by this widely circulated fallacy and expose some false and insidious intentions!

Myth 2: Do you men want love or that movie?

Trick: When asked this way, honest people usually reflect on their virginity complex: "God, how can I give up my supreme love for a movie?" The difference between the two is too obvious! "In fact, this is also a sinister word trick played by some people who have stolen more real content.

Positive solution: This fallacy can be completely refuted by a similar rhetorical question: "You went to college for four years and spent four years in youth just to get two pieces of broken paper (a diploma and a degree certificate)?" Obviously, these two pieces of paper are not ordinary paper. It marks that you have received a formal higher education, which is of great significance to your future life development and social recognition. Similarly, a film also marks a girl's self-esteem, her chastity, her attitude towards a relationship and her attitude towards the last person. In view of the fact that the special event of Qiang J has been explained separately at the beginning of this article, in our discussion, losing the hymen for another man marks that the girl has opened her body and mind to that man without reservation, accompanied by her true love. Therefore, one side of the comparison is the love for the current boyfriend or husband (if it really exists), while the other side is far from just the film, but also the woman's casual degree and love for her ex-boyfriend (in most cases, this is enough to exceed the love for the current boyfriend or husband). How's it going? Which side of the scale is heavier now? Men, decide what to choose! There may be something wrong with saying, "Does my virginity mean that I am casual?". I love that man very much! "In this regard, I want to say: First, it is indeed a casual behavior for a girl to open her most shameful and secret organs to a person who does not know whether she will become a husband before marriage. At least your later husband and boyfriend have every right to think so. Secondly, if you admit that you loved that person at that time, please tell your current boyfriend and husband the truth, instead of using obviously misleading language "Do you choose movies or love? "As more and more people realize that true love is the most important fact in most cases, I believe that your current boyfriend or husband will make a correct judgment on what to choose. Others will say, "I will give you the rest of my life." Who do you think is more important to me? "This trick of fishing in troubled waters should be put away in front of me, with good memories of the first man's life and my future husband as a meal ticket. This is your material and spiritual concern. Please answer a similar question: "you have eaten all your life, but the wedding ceremony is only one day." Is your wedding more important to you? " The answer is obvious. Eating is indeed more important, because it guarantees survival, but in your mind, it is far less important than the wedding ceremony.

The virgin complex is a normal and reasonable pursuit.

7 reply: as long as you love her ~ she is your virgin ~

Myth 3: Who is responsible if you are not a virgin? You men didn't do it?

Trick: Women have long caused the public opinion that men think with their lower bodies. At this time, they are even more aggressive, trying to completely turn men into moral sinners.

Positive solution: on the issue of accountability, it is of course the responsibility of men to seduce women to lose their virginity, but obviously the whole concept cannot be used here. For example, if a driver hits and runs, we should hold the driver accountable, but we should not hold the whole human race accountable. Similarly, women are tempted to lose their virginity and have the responsibility of their ex-boyfriends, but they can never be passed on to their current boyfriends or husbands as a reason why they should not have a virgin complex. If you are scolded or despised by your current boyfriend or husband, you can cry and scold your former boyfriend, but you should not let your current boyfriend shut up and take responsibility as a man as a whole. And do women have their own responsibilities? Do you want to give it to the person who seduced you? If he wanted your life, would you give it to him? It is impossible for a girl not to know the consequences of losing her virginity. Since she accepted his request, she voluntarily accepted the consequences that she would be despised by her later husband if she could not marry him. The risk is always determined by yourself. From this point of view, some women are not as good as men, not only the upper body can't think, but also the lower body can't think! There may be questions to ask. If my current boyfriend or husband also caused other girls to lose their virginity, can't I sue him now? The answer is no, partly because of refuting the fallacy 1 and partly because the responsibility should be clear. Even if someone kills someone, you can't just kill him.

Myth 4: What age will care about virgins? Who cares in America and Europe?

Trick: We try to convince everyone that sexual openness is a manifestation of social development, fashion, advanced or closely following the world trend, in an attempt to push men who care about virgins to vulnerable groups for ridicule.

Positive solution: First, if sexual openness represents social development, then primitive society is undoubtedly the most advanced model of human society. There is a saying: primitive society is good, primitive society is good, men and women streaking in primitive society, men chasing, women running, chasing, pressing on the ground, making women cry and scream, reaching the climax of primitive society. . . . . In the early days of liberation, through the investigation of primitive social customs maintained by some ethnic minority areas in Yunnan and Guizhou, it was found that they still maintained the custom of promiscuity in festivals. At first, human beings obviously had no sense of sexual shame and chastity, and the emphasis on female chastity was actually a manifestation of social development and evolution. Don't use "liberating humanity" to try to put a noble coat on your premarital sex. Everyone knows that animals don't care about the first time. Sexual desire is not human nature, but animal nature. Second, in China, please use the thinking and moral standards of China people to measure the problem. Otherwise, please go home immediately and say to your parents, "When you are old, I will send you to a nursing home." China's backwardness is not caused by female complex, and the United States' advancement is not caused by the lack of female complex. Maybe Americans can be more advanced if they have a virgin complex? If we only see the advanced achievements of the United States, it is obviously absurd to regard any system and phenomenon in the United States as a reason, which violates the Bayesian principle of probability. For example, in the west, most women take their husband's surname after marriage. Should China also advocate it? I'm afraid of women and I can't bear it.

Myth 5: Men have female complex because they are afraid that their sexual ability is not enough to be compared.

Trick: This statement can also be seen in some sinister places: they attribute all men's concern for virgins to men's lack of confidence in their sexual ability. Which man can bear to appear as a weak and inferior image? What's more, it implies that your sexual ability is not good. We hope that in this way, men can't show their feminine complex. Moreover, in this way, all the responsibilities are put on men: if you really have confidence in your ability and have nothing left, how dare you blame us?

Truth: men really don't like and don't want their girlfriends or wives to compare themselves with her former men, but this is not because they are not confident, but because this comparison is a serious insult to men no matter what the result is! A wife who should be pure is comparing herself-a man who wants to work hard for the rest of his life, and a man who should not have any influence on her life at all, or that! ! If you have no justifiable reason, please imagine that someone compares you with a perfect slut's woman and then says that you are much better looking than that woman. Although the comparison shows that you have an advantage, do you think he is praising you or insulting you? Engels said that the essence of love is selfish and exclusive. Therefore, only selfish love is true love, and the so-called inclusive love is abnormal, twisted, painful and forced love.

The virgin complex is a normal and reasonable pursuit.

As long as you love her ~ she is your virgin ~

Myth 6: Now you can make hymen for tens of dollars. Do you know this is true? So who cares if they are women and who are fools.

Trick: Some men will be really disheartened after hearing this statement, and become a virgin agnostic, thus giving up the pursuit of women. This fallacy is not only a provocation to men who pursue pure girls in some places, but also an insult to women who value chastity! Their purpose is nothing more than to make up for their psychological inferiority in the face of real women by saying that they are worthless.

Positive solution: This fallacy uses the trick of stealing concepts. These dozens of fake hymens obviously cannot replace the real hymen. The reason is that the fake hymen can't bear many meanings and values of the real hymen, so the fake hymen is worthless, which doesn't mean that the woman with the real hymen is not worthy of respect. This membrane is not another membrane! As for whether it looks like it or not, that's obviously another question. Someone can't tell, which means you can lie to him? Does this mean that he shouldn't care? Fake wine blended with methanol is still like real wine, so real wine is worthless? You shouldn't value real wine? Some gangster logic is shameless.

Myth 7: If you love her, you have to tolerate everything about her.

Truth: This is the most puzzling theory, so I don't think it is necessary to spend more ink to expose it. Ask their boyfriends to rush up and slap them while holding this banner high, and then don't complain. If you love him, you should tolerate everything. Even if he cheats in the future, you should tolerate it.

By the way, expose a scam:

Deception: When I was a child, my hymen was broken during strenuous exercise (or riding a bike, etc.). ).

Truth: If this explanation appears in the explanation of the woman who didn't fall in love when they first had sex, or when the woman reminded the man to be mentally prepared in advance before they had sex for the first time, there is only a small probability (estimated to be less than one in ten thousand) that she is telling the truth, and it is very likely that you have been cheated. Please note that it is still possible for women to have sex for the first time, but this is basically not because the woman's membrane is broken in advance during exercise. One of the reasons why I say this is that I am a classmate from Sun Yat-sen Medical University. She is very sexy. We often discuss sex. Once I talked about this topic, I appealed to those girls who didn't fall in love because of strenuous exercise. I thought this classmate sneered that it was all a lie. I asked why, and he said that the first attempt ended in failure and the female membrane was covered by yc. Unless you poke that point directly with a stick. I thought about it. It's true. He went on to tell me that the teacher who took him as an intern told them that these words were used by China Unification to deceive people, and their role was to protect women and maintain family and social stability, so they should be said in public. The second reason is that when I worked abroad as an exchange student for a year and volunteered in a local hospital, they once held a free consultation for the poor. I met a doctor when I was doing odd jobs and asked this question by the way. For this, I looked it up in the dictionary for a long time. The doctor who answered did not directly deny it, but said doubtfully, I have never heard of the statement that strenuous exercise leads to the rupture of the female membrane, which needs further understanding. You can judge for yourself. To sum up, if two people didn't fall in love during the first sexual intercourse, if the woman was extremely confused, she could never figure out the reason. At this time, she may be a real woman, just don't know why she didn't fall in love. But some people may not. If you take the initiative to tell your boyfriend that you had strenuous exercise before sexual intercourse, that you didn't lose your virginity after sexual intercourse, or that you didn't lose your virginity after sexual intercourse, you will suddenly realize that you remember what strenuous exercise you did in a certain year. At this point, she is lying.

Virgins, I have a suggestion for you. Before getting a marriage certificate, clip your thighs.

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Dear friends, if you read my post and feel psychologically unbalanced and hurt, then go to the man who split his thigh for him and make him responsible for his actions.

No, my post is right or wrong. In the dead of night, think to yourself. Maybe you can refute me with various reasons and excuse yourself with these words, but I believe that you can't cheat your heart.