I really hate long-distance relationships. I really love you.

The bitterness of long-distance love is that I love you and can't hug you, but there is a cruel sweetness in this bitterness that makes people unable to extricate themselves.

In the past, cars and horses were slow, and we were together all our lives. Now they extend in all directions, but after being together, they can only fall in love through the screen.

Talking to each other along the Internet is a very popular life. As long as I don't stop online, I want to talk all the time.

Suffer the pain of separation.

I recently watched a movie "I really hate long-distance relationships", and there is a line that I can't forget for a long time:

Long-distance relationship is like this sugar-free drink you are drinking now. There is no sugar in it, only aspartame. But it will make you feel very sweet. Sweet words on the screen of a mobile phone can never compare with a hug in real life.

Indeed, no matter how many sweet words you send across the screen to express how much you love someone, nothing can compare with a hug in reality.

But sometimes the reality is so cruel. For the sake of each other's future or an unavoidable responsibility, you have to let go of your private affairs. This compulsion is also the most worrying.

How happy two people are when they are together, then how painful they will be when they come together, which is what long-distance love must bear.

Have enough trust.

We are all afraid of separation, which is also an instinctive reaction, but when we have to separate, we all need enough courage to let go.

Some people say that it is absolute true love to endure the pain of long-distance love and achieve positive results.

Indeed, without true love, you wouldn't have the courage. The feeling of being invisible and intangible is like a blind man touching an elephant and feeling uneasy.

If one day the other party loses his mobile phone, you will panic, worry about what happened to the other party, guess what happened to the other party, and even suspect that the other party has another new love.

This whimsical idea is not distrust. Just being apart for too long, you will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. Coupled with the accumulated grievances, you will never be able to continue to think calmly.

Break a cocoon into a butterfly for love

The most distressing thing is that one day someone asks you how you have been in love for so many years and haven't got married. You can only say:

I'm not married, because I've been waiting for someone, but we are far apart. There is no red line between us, only a network cable to receive signals.

This kind of love across the distance will always make people confused, but in order to be better together in the future, we will grow up in tears, be strong in loneliness, and finally strive to be better ourselves.

Just like before a caterpillar becomes a butterfly, it has to survive the cocoon breaking in a lonely cocoon before it can break into a butterfly.

I believe that many good things will eventually be as you wish as long as you have a firm heart.

Message: touch every word and leave a trace of warmth in the years.

May you gradually heal yourself between the lines.