What's your ideal home like?

The ideal parents are alive and healthy. Although they can't make much money, the money they earn can also meet their daily needs. Children don't have to worry about their obedience, their careers are successful, and husband and wife are harmonious.

The relationship between husband and wife is the anchor of the sea. Only when you are psychologically separated from your family and independent can you have a harmonious family relationship. During the consultation, it was found that all families that have conflicts after having children have a common feature: they can't make decisions in their own homes without their parents, but let their parents make decisions in their own homes.

I didn't live with the old people before I gave birth, but I'm still an adult. When parents come after having children, they will find that the psychological umbilical cord between them has not been cut short. Whenever there is a contradiction, go to your parents to judge and complain, let your parents stand on your side, and some directly let your parents denounce or teach each other a lesson.

On the surface, the quarrel won and destroyed the long-term happiness of marriage. In the end, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was irreconcilable, and their marriage ended in divorce.

Other couples are always comparing whose parents pay more for raising their children. This comparison is essentially psychological immaturity. They regard themselves and their parents as the same body, instead of putting the relationship between husband and wife in a small family first.