"The same frequency attracts each other", how far a person can go depends on who he travels with.

I have seen such a hot topic on Zhihu: Why do former good friends drift away?

There are countless answers and many stories that make people cry.

Some people say that the reason why good friends drift away is because they are far away; Some people say that the reason why good friends drift away is because of different understandings; Others say that the reason why good friends drift away is because there is a gap between them. ...

But I think the fundamental reason why good friends will drift away is actually different frequencies.

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The frequency is different, so there is no need to forcibly increase capacity.

Remember our good friends, girlfriends and buddies in elementary school, junior high school, high school and university? Up to now, how many people can keep in touch with these former best classmates?

I think it should be very few. Even if you are still in contact, you will lose the feeling you once felt.

Me too. I once had a very good friend, and we talked about everything with her. The topic between us can be discussed from a novel and a TV series to the development direction of our lives.

After work, we separated two places and went to different cities for development.

Gradually, there are fewer and fewer topics we can talk about, and we have no original feeling.

Once the tacit understanding slowly disappeared, and the boy you like was said to be useless by the other party.

When it comes to development, it will be said that it is a fantasy.

Work hard. It goes without saying that girls should go out to play, eat and drink. Why?

Gradually, the two of us began to run counter to each other. She is no longer the one who can understand my thoughts and agree with my way of dealing with people.

In a word, she sneered at my efforts. I, an ideal she thought impossible, would only make us get along more and more tired in the end.

Different frequencies will eventually drift away.

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The same frequency lets you know that you know that you care about you.

The same frequency means that the other person has the same philosophy of life as you, will appreciate each other, and can respect each other even if they encounter things with different views.

Friends on the same frequency can understand your thoughts more easily.

Couples with the same frequency can appreciate and tolerate each other better.

People on the same frequency know more about your implication and your ambition.

In short, being with people with the same frequency can be described in two words-comfortable.

Because in front of people with the same frequency, you don't need to hide yourself, you don't need to please each other, you just need to be yourself.

Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie, who haven't appeared in front of the camera for a long time, were evaluated by netizens as the most desirable marriage life for the elderly.

Deng Jie takes care of flowers and plants in the garden, and Zhang Guoli writes and draws in the study.

Deng Jie listens to English songs and modern songs in the kitchen, and Zhang Guoli goes to the study to listen to Peking Opera and folk music.

It seems that two people who are different are living a poetic life.

Praise each other with appreciation and love.

As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together.

With what kind of people, what kind of people will you become, and what kind of life will you have in the end.

When two people with the same frequency get along together, they will have a tacit understanding in spirit, have the same ideas and three views.

When we are together, we can talk about our ideals, the future and everything we can talk about.

Same-frequency opinions, same-frequency steps and same-frequency goals. If two people work together, they will surely break into a new world of their own.

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It is really important to be with people on the same frequency.

Like a sentence very much:

There is something between people called "magnetic field". It can't be seen or touched, but it exudes your three views, your preferences and your subconscious.

People with the same frequency and three views will naturally move closer to you.

A positive energy person must make positive energy friends.

A reliable person is bound to make very reliable friends.

An excellent person, friends around him are not that bad.

This is the same frequency attraction.

Only people with the same frequency can see the unknown elegance in each other's hearts. Being with people with the same frequency can nourish each other, promote each other and grow together.

How far a person can go depends on the people who travel with him.