Under the sky-high bride price, marrying a daughter in the countryside is like selling a daughter. What are the difficulties of the woman's family?

Daughters in rural areas get married and receive a bride price before they can marry their sons. In the final analysis, it is still difficult for rural women. How much can I give her for such a colorful gift? Used by parents to subsidize their brothers or younger brothers. Generally, when a woman marries a man's house, she has to do laundry, sweep the floor and cook, so she has no right to speak. Her husband's family asked you to have a few, and she had to have a few. Only the rich can afford such a high bride price, while rural people like to compare with each other. Whoever pays a high bride price will marry his daughter. There are the following situations:

First, the countryside is the concept of raising children to prevent old age. When a woman marries, she belongs to someone else.

The daughter who has worked so hard to raise is going to marry someone else. Of course, she must take the opportunity to get a good price, otherwise it will not lose money to raise such a big one. I don't expect my daughter to support the elderly. It must be a bride price to subsidize my son to marry a wife. After all, I will rely on my son to provide for the elderly in the future. In rural areas, there are many people who have this idea, so often the daughter is the victim and has no position in the family, let alone in her husband's family. After receiving such colorful gifts, my husband's family will definitely let you work more.

Second, the rural bride price was raised by the local rich.

In the past, the gap between the rich and the poor was not so obvious. In recent years, people who do business outside have become more and more rich, so they should show off when they return to the countryside. When you meet your daughter-in-law, shout as loudly as possible. The matchmaker is happy to introduce you. This invisibly raises the bride price. If you have a daughter at home, would you rather marry a family with more bride price or a family with less bride price? Rich people must be popular, and gradually everyone began to compare. It is difficult to reduce the price of bride price.

Third, the divorce rate is very high now. Some families are afraid that their daughters will have a bad marriage in the future and will ask for more bride price in advance.

Nowadays, the divorce rate in rural areas is very high, and rural girls get married very early. Doing business or working outside with her husband, and being abandoned by her husband after giving birth, this kind of thing is more and more. Some husbands are very rich, so they look for mistresses outside and finally get divorced. After giving birth to a child, her daughter is out of shape and older, making it more difficult to remarry. Asking for a high-priced bride price in advance is also considered for remarriage in the future.

The richer families marry their daughters, the less bride price they want, and the poorer families in rural areas want more. Wealthy families care about their daughters' happiness, while rural areas generally care more about their sons' happiness, and few people care about their daughters' happiness. Therefore, whoever marries a daughter must pay the bride price. ?