The child is a senior three this year, and she can't understand anything the teacher says. What if she doesn't love school?

What should high school students do if they don't love school?

1, emotional stability, such students are generally more susceptible to the influence of the surrounding environment, interpersonal relationships and other factors, so they can't study with peace of mind, such as anxiety, insomnia, inattention, puppy love or dislike for a teacher, which seriously consumes their psychological resources, can't play their potential, and finally their study is seriously affected.

2. Guide children to define their learning goals, because these students don't understand the real purpose of learning. Most of them think that they are studying for their parents and teachers, or for exam rankings. They have no clear goals and directions for their future, but just follow the crowd. Therefore, as parents and teachers, we should guide students to give themselves clearer and more lasting goals, make reasonable plans for their future career, let them see the future and re-stimulate their learning motivation.

3. Communicate with children more. As a parent, you should communicate with your child and his friends more, let them talk about their inner thoughts and depression, and ask him some plans. Tell him that without knowledge and culture, it is difficult to find a suitable job in society, and parents can't support him for life. Let him use the holiday to do odd jobs and let him experience it. In addition, every high school student will have his own vision for the future and his own ideals. Parents can communicate with their children more and know what their children's ideals are. If they have ideals, they must constantly strive to realize them. Therefore, parents can take ideals as a starting point, encourage their children to learn, solve their weariness of learning, and improve their learning consciousness.

4, parents' encouragement, parents should believe that the power of words and deeds is great, parents should set an example for their children and study with them. Always care about children's learning situation and slowly cultivate their interest in learning. Children's interest in learning is half the battle. As long as they are interested in learning, it is only a matter of time before their grades improve. Parents should continue to care and accompany their children.

5. Parents' expectations. In real life, some parents expect too much from their children. Apart from paying attention to children's academic performance, others are not concerned, causing pressure on children, not motivation. Therefore, our parents should understand that children are usually under great pressure at school. We should give more encouragement to our children and don't judge them by their achievements.

6. Communicate with teachers more. Many parents think that children can relax when they enter high school. In the face of children's weariness of learning, children become more lax. Sleeping in class, internet cafes after class and skipping classes are common manifestations of some children. In order to avoid children's weariness of learning, parents should keep in touch with school teachers, often attend parent-teacher meetings, keep abreast of children's learning emotions and school conditions, and cooperate with school teachers to jointly guide their children's learning and growth.

7. To create a good learning environment, in order to change students' attitude towards life and understanding of learning, we must first improve their environment. To provide a good learning environment for children at home, the "environment" here refers not only to the quiet space and spacious desk, but also to the spiritual environment. Children have to do a lot of homework after a day of intense study. At this time, parents should appropriately relieve the pressure for their children, such as talking with their children about topics of interest while eating, instead of teaching them to study hard.

8. Care about children's daily life. Compared with junior high school, high school children are under greater pressure. Parents can pay more attention to their children's daily life, listen to their thoughts, take their children out for a walk regularly, and change their emotions, so as to better alleviate their negative emotions.