What do you think of the mother-in-law's request that "I can wait on the confinement and pay me"?

Many times, relatives can't be measured by money alone. There is a good saying: "between relatives and friends, raising money hurts feelings more ~" But in real life, can we really measure the relationship between people by lack of money? My best friend Lili is very unhappy recently. She has always felt that her family is very harmonious. She has been in love with her husband for many years and seldom quarrels. Although we don't often meet our mother-in-law, we can always maintain the appearance of a kind and filial mother, but recently Lili is pregnant, which is a happy thing, but the direction of things is unexpected.

After Lili got pregnant, her mother-in-law didn't come to wait on her pregnant daughter-in-law, and Lili didn't choose the reason. She always thought that her mother-in-law would definitely come when she was confined. I don't know. My mother-in-law didn't show up until Lili gave birth to a baby. She just made a phone call to express her condolences. It was not until here that Lili really began to get angry. The little sisters around her are all helped by her mother-in-law, but when it comes to Lili, her mother-in-law turns a blind eye, even though Lili's temper is inevitably whispered by good people.

On this day, Lili's mother-in-law called to ask about her eldest grandson's recent situation. Lily said casually, "Mom, I'm almost a month now, and sometimes I'm too busy to take care of the baby." Why don't you come and take care of me for a while! " Lily's words are meaningless, but her mother-in-law looks very unhappy. She yelled at Lily on the phone, "I have no obligation to wait on you for confinement. I can wait for you to have a confinement, but you have to pay me. " Hearing her mother-in-law's words, her eyes are full of stars, because she knows that her mother-in-law is not short of money and has a lot of pensions every month. Now she comes to take care of her grandson and ask for money.

At that time, Lili was a little outspoken. She said directly, "I can give you a salary, so will you give me a salary when you are old?" The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have gone too far. It seems that the mutual affection between them can only be measured by money. Mother-in-law was angry when she heard Lily's words. She was only joking. I didn't expect her daughter-in-law to say that. Mother-in-law hung up the phone directly, and Lili became more and more wronged and even began to cry.

I didn't hear about it until Lili's husband came back in the evening. He is quite in distress situation because he knows his mother. She said these words in a joke, but Lili doesn't have much contact with her mother, so she doesn't know much about her personality. But Lily is right, too. She just gave birth to a baby, and her mood is fragile, so she should take care of the mood of pregnant women. Thinking of Lili's husband sitting next to his wife like this, he held Lili's hand and said, "Wife, don't be angry. My mother was just joking at first and couldn't take it seriously. "

Lily was very angry, but now it is even more wronged to see her husband talking to her mother-in-law. Tears fell involuntarily, and then Lili cried like a child. Lily's husband was worried when he saw his wife crying. He quickly wiped his tears and said, I don't blame you. I just think these are trivial things. It's all my fault for making you work so hard. Don't cry. "Lili's husband's attitude of admitting mistakes is a little touched by Lili. In fact, she later realized that she had gone too far, but she felt that her mother-in-law was too fickle at the thought of talking about money.

It was revealed under the comfort of Lili's husband. I thought it was over, and soon my mother-in-law came from the countryside. Lily was a little embarrassed when she first met her mother-in-law. Who knows that her mother-in-law went to the kitchen to cook for Lili, and casually asked her eldest grandson about her recent situation. Here, Lily still has nothing to understand. This is the first time my mother-in-law has bowed her head with herself. Lily smiled apologetically at her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law looked at each other, making her feel less angry.

Emotional message: Although relatives and friends have to settle accounts, the closest people still can't simply measure its value with money, because family ties are the most priceless feelings in the world and deserve to be treated well.