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Why do many people say graduation season means breaking up?
I always think this is nonsense, so I don't believe Miss Stubborn said in a circle of friends that she broke up with Dashi. At first, I thought this sentence was just like what we said to someone who had a secret crush for a long time on April 1 day. In the eyes of others, this is just a joke. After all, I can't be with him many times. This sentence is just a big adventure.
Just as I firmly believe that the person I like will say "Stop" to me after hearing the sentence "I like you", I also firmly believe that Miss Stubborn is just playing a game, a game in which we pretend to break up and see if everyone will believe it.
But after a while, I paid special attention to clicking into her circle of friends to see if the comments would reveal anything. I saw our * * * friends comforting her down there. I don't believe they really separated.
Actually, it's strange that I don't know Miss Stubborn very well, but it happened that my most cherished college friend, a senior and a male classmate in the next class, happened to be good friends with her, so we are relatives. We are friends of good friends, equivalent to half a good friend and an ordinary friend.
No matter how strong my desire for gossip is, I never asked Miss Stubborn why she broke up. First of all, I don't know her very well. Although we are half good friends, it feels strange to talk about caring for her so intimately. Secondly, it seems a bit immoral for me to poke someone's wound just after their lovelorn love.
But I asked our friends. I looked at the time when she sent a circle of friends. After an hour and a half, she and her friends almost explained the matter clearly. I guess my good friend also knows the reason. I pretended to have just seen her circle of friends, but I asked him without concealing the essence of gossip: It's a pity to just see a circle of friends. They have been together for four years. Why did they break up?
After a while, my friend sent me a message: graduation season, breakup season, lovelorn season, you know. I weighed this sentence in my mind for a long time, and then I simply replied to him: I really don't understand. Then I turned off my cell phone, angrily picked up a book on the table and began to read it. For just two and a half hours, I didn't check my mobile phone again, even though I was constantly reminded of new news.
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It's ridiculous to think about why I'm angry. I was only angry at the phrase "I will break up after graduation" and realized that I am not an idealist in love. On the contrary, I am rational. I am good at analyzing the pros and cons of a relationship, and I can also use the swot method which looks very academic and advanced. Privately, I have also taken apart and analyzed Miss Stubborn and Dashi. They are perfect for me, too.
Dashi is the monitor of my university, with average height, average hairstyle and average personality, but it is said that his ability is quite unusual. He has a bitter gourd face when he doesn't laugh, and he doesn't look good when he smiles. I don't like him very much, so I have racked my brains and can't think of a few words of praise suitable for describing him. But on the premise, in a normal school where the ratio of male to female is 3:7, such boys are still good, at least.
Miss Stubborn, as its name implies, gives the impression that she is a stubborn girl, which is embodied in the expression on her face. I don't know how to look at her face, and I can't describe where it is embodied, but every time I look at her face, I always feel very stubborn, such as her personality.
Miss stubborn and Dashi are freshmen together. Shortly after the start of freshman year, I remember that the girl in our class also said that the girl moved fast enough and somehow stole our monitor quietly.
According to friends, Miss Stubborn and Dashi changed from good friends to lovers. Besides, I met them several times at school. Miss Stubborn always wears a sweet smile, which always gives me the feeling that Jordan chan and Cherrie Ying "laugh when she makes trouble". Well, the latter also changed from a good friend to a lover.
On Valentine's Day of sophomore year, Miss Stubborn went to the city where Dashi was located to find him. In fact, it's not far apart, and the train takes more than an hour. The two of them traveled to Xiamen on Tanabata, their junior year, and then prepared for the postgraduate entrance examination together.
Miss stubborn is the kind of girl who looks very obedient. Although I don't have much contact with her in private, I can clearly feel that she likes Dashi very much. If you want to elaborate on the investment ratio of two people in a relationship, Miss Stubborn loves eight points and Dashi only has two points. But if boys treat her better, this relationship is standard elsewhere, and it will definitely be no problem in the end.
However, something went wrong in the end.
A friend said that unequal love is the most deadly place in a relationship, and the ideal ratio is 5:5, or you 4 me 6, you 6 me 4. One of us must love one person more and tolerate the other person more before we can go on, but it is not good to have a big disparity, such as a stubborn lady, one loves too much and the other loves too little, and it is easy to collapse.
When we are young, we don't know how to love. We always thought that if we had a little love, we should give him a point. But I didn't know that hiding love is also a skill in love.
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When I picked up my mobile phone to watch the news again, I received several friends' WeChat, explaining that "I really don't understand". My friend said that Miss Stubborn continued to study in graduate school, while the boys went to work. He said he would work hard, although both of them are still in Wuhan. He said he didn't think they were really suitable. Miss Stubborn is very nice, but he can't keep her. He said that his family hoped that he would work hard for the first two years and put aside the matter of falling in love and getting married for the time being.
Looking at this far-fetched word, I sneered at myself: Frankly speaking, is it so difficult to say that I don't like you, and I have to move out of the guise that I want to work and my family doesn't want you to fall in love. Holmes said that love and marriage are mental retardation, and he doesn't need this kind of drag. Do you want to be like him? His grandmother is a big watermelon. I don't believe it. It turns out that this thing has nothing to do with age. Even when they grow up, some boys don't have them after all.
In fact, I was a little relieved to hear the boy's sentence that I want to work hard and don't want to be distracted by falling in love. I don't have so many regrets, but I feel a little sorry.
Like two people who are about to reach their destination. Suddenly one of them gave up and said, it's not fast to go with you. I have other important things now. You go alone, and then you leave without looking back. The people left behind, watching the road we walked hand in hand disappear little by little, and finally disappear in a bubble. She was not taken back to the original starting point, but the system automatically scrapped the road that she didn't go on. It is painful to travel together, but we have to re-plan our destination.
I am paranoid that in a relationship, as long as it doesn't go to the end, everything in the past is just a bubble. I also know that the wrong people teach us to grow step by step, but I just don't want to understand that the reason why they hurt us is that we can learn to love and meet more right people, which is also ridiculous. They are none other than our lovers. How can they hurt us in the name of love? What remains is the most painful.
So after hearing the boy's remarks, I really feel sorry for this stubborn girl who has been blind for a quarter of an hour.
Later, I thought, maybe I was just sad that I bet on the wrong relationship, because I bet on youth and love. I silently erased the cross behind the brackets of graduation breakup, wrote down the word to be determined, and added a line beside it: graduation breakup may have special cases. For example, some feelings don't break up because of graduation, but just happen to bump into graduation. The relationship is over, whether you graduate or not, you have to break up. It's just that the person who graduated is miserable and always bears a burden.
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I once said that people can't afford to think about it, and no one can stand your 360-degree appearance. Now I want to complete the last sentence. Many things can't stand consideration, and sometimes the most superficial and one-sided appearance is often more acceptable.
For example, in the graduation season, we broke up, giving others the illusion that they had to break up because of graduation. This is also beautiful, at least it proves that we love each other. At the last moment of separation, we were still in love. This is fate, which has nothing to do with the purity of our love. You really don't need to know its loopholes.
At this stall, another couple broke up. Roommates joked that from now on, we can witness the couples who live together again, and the breakup war is about to start.
I laughed without saying a word, saying that the feelings in the adult world are not very reliable. The most sincere feelings are in the university campus. Actually, it's not like this. Feelings never look at the place and the age of both sides, but at who that person is and whether that heart is sincere.
I have asked many people why they fall in love. There are many reasons. They may just be looking for a college friend, a friend at dinner, someone who ran across the street with you at the movies, or just feel lonely. Seeing that many people around us have boyfriends and girlfriends, it's just warm to find a heterosexual for such a so-called name. After graduation, we have to go our separate ways, and the function is useless, so we naturally broke up. How can there be so many reasons why romantic love can't be together? The reality is naked and may be unacceptable.
Of course, there must be sincere people in it. I have paid so much for that sincerity, maybe not much, but it is enough.
I have a friend who is also an article writer. She was once moved by the love story between him and her girlfriend. I didn't know at first, so I kept asking him if it was true. Did they finally get together? I am an avid reader.
The story is true, the people are true, the funny past is also true, and the sentence "The world is big, but there is only one you" is also true, but the final ending is beautified.
He said that they didn't get together because they were too far apart, and her family didn't agree. After graduating from college, he broke up. In the meantime, he has been to her city several times. In order to continue fighting with her, the girl's family disagreed. Finally, the other person was too tired and let go. He also wants her to have a good life.
I've been telling him since I heard this, did I poke you where it hurts? I didn't know beforehand. I'm sorry, but he said normally, in fact, I feel that our love has become a family relationship, and I really hope she will have a good life. Even if someone told me that she has a boyfriend now, I wouldn't react. I guess she's getting married, and I may be a little shaken in my heart. I really want her to have a good life.
Almost four years after graduation, I have been single. I chatted privately and asked him why. He has been using a sentence that is not suitable for generalization.
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He wrote some articles about his predecessor, all of which were her good.
He said, I have a bad temper and explode easily. No one can stand me except her. He said, I am a bad person. I felt sorry for her many times when I was not together at first, and turned her away when I was cold to her. But as long as I identify a person, I will treat her wholeheartedly. Later, I was nice to her. He said it was hard to break up, too He lay awake until three o'clock in the morning every night, chewing betel nut night after night and thinking of her, crying and thinking of her very much.
I said, which one of you finally broke up, it must have been difficult to make a decision.
He said, it's me. I told her jokingly that it seems quite popular to break up after graduation. Otherwise, let's follow the trend. Although you won't get used to it without me, after all, your boyfriend is so powerful, but you should take good care of yourself in the future.
He said that after so many years, C city is still a forbidden place in my heart. I don't remember how I escaped from the desert. Anyway, I dare not go again. And that girl's home is in city C.
Later, he also had a good life, writing articles read by many people, publishing his own books, and gaining a little popularity, although there was no female companion around him. It is said that the girl he loved is also doing well.
Suddenly I feel that this is the best way to end the graduation story.
For various uncontrollable reasons, we couldn't be together, we graduated, and we broke up. I tried to hold back my tears and pretend to be calm: we also rushed to the trend of breaking up after graduation, and how much sadness and sadness were hidden behind it. Only the boy who finally clenched his fist and hugged her tightly seemed to want to know.
If we can't go to never say goodbye, let's call it a day. Even if we are separated, we will live well when we are separated, because we still live with each other's love later.
To tell you the truth, I hate this nonsense of breaking up after graduation, because I simply feel that it is quite dull to find a reason to separate casually, but to some extent, I suddenly feel that the reason for separation is beautiful.
We were separated by such a decent reason, not because of money, not because of personality differences, not because of uncontrollable quarrels. Compared with any reason for separation in the future, we are much less embarrassed. Even if we don't go to the end, the mission of this love has been completed. In the best four years of life, that love has been with you, and it has tried its best, because it has only been here for so many years. In fact, we should be grateful in our hearts.
Maybe breaking up after graduation is not terrible. The terrible thing is that we are going to break up, in the graduation season, but not because of graduation. But anyway, at least I loved you once. Anyway, I wish you a great victory in the Jianghu. See you next time in the wonderful place of our world.
Columnist, invited author of many mainstream media, a little fresh spirit, firmly believe that the journey of a beautiful girl is a sea of stars, and once published "How can I know what to stick to? Rely on dead support ",official WeChat account: Wenchang (ID: Wenchang), Sina Weibo @ Wenchang Bear.
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