Don't care too much about other people's opinions and inspirational stories.

To keep yourself from being influenced by other people's opinions is to do what you like, even if you fail, it is better than success in what you hate. Therefore, please seize the opportunity, pursue your heart's dream, and lose and fight again and again until you succeed. Dare to sacrifice, dare to walk out of a comfortable haven and fight life again and again. Full of courage and passion, look directly at your fears. Stick to your dream and try to put it into reality. The following is an inspirational story that I collected for you, don't care too much about other people's opinions. I hope I can help you.

Don't care what others say

If a person's life is always influenced by others' evaluation, he spends all his energy in coping with the environment, so that he has no spare capacity to pursue his own life ideal, this person is very sad!

Don't be crushed to death by other people's tongues. Go your own way, and do whatever you want, be worthy of the sky, be worthy of others, and have a clear conscience.

Since Zen master Yi Qing joined the old Zen master Yuan Tong, not only did he not go to the meditation hall to do his homework according to the regulations every day, but he hid in the meditation room all day and slept soundly. When other disciples saw this, they really didn't like Yi Qing's behavior? Behavior? , therefore, have to play yuantong old Jackson? Small report? .

After receiving the report from his disciples, the old Zen master Yuantong came to Zen master Yiqing's meditation room and said to him:? I am not a place where you can eat and sleep, sleep and eat, and do nothing. ?

　? Then, is there anything you can do here besides sleeping and eating? Yi Qing Jackson asked.

　? Of course there is! You can go to meditation! ? Yuantong old Zen master replied.

　? If you have? Eat enough? , don't also for immediate? Delicacies and seafood? Have an appetite? Zen master Yiqing replied with Zen meaning.

After hearing this, the old Zen master Yuantong said:? However, other disciples have been whispering about what you have done! ?

　? How they talk about it is their business, what does it have to do with me? Yiqing Jackson replied.

public opinion can destroy people and invigorate them. In life, it is not easy for a wise man to grasp public opinion. Don't judge others at will. As long as you are right, don't care what others say.

If a person's life is always influenced by other people's evaluation, and he spends all his energy in coping with the environment, so that he has no spare capacity to pursue his own life ideal, this person is very sad!

A person doesn't have to do great things in his life, but he must know the meaning of his life and keep a clear head on the road he takes.

please pay attention to our surroundings: If I do this, how will people evaluate me? 、? What will others think of me? 、? They won't laugh at me, will they? People like me are easily influenced by others' comments, which are more important than their own opinions. If your behavior depends on the evaluation of others, once you don't hear their approval, you will lose your motivation and eventually accomplish nothing.

to make matters worse, other people's comments are often different, so you have to be exhausted or even at a loss for it, and you are always there all year round? I don't know what to do. It's hard to get around in tension, but I can't always get out of my own way.

If you care too much about other people's comments, you will lose your way and find your way forward. We should make it clear that people don't live for others, let alone live in others' mouths, and let others not decide to dominate their own destiny. If you care about the eyes of others, you will basically accomplish nothing.

however, it's really hard to go your own way and let others talk. But if you can think that no matter how well a person does, there will always be villains criticizing you behind your back, then why do you care so much about other people's opinions? Who doesn't talk about people before, and who doesn't talk about people after? This is the world where people live, and it will never change if they are told by others. Sometimes, the more you care about it, the more tired you get, and nothing can change it. Personal strength against the whole will always seem a bit like throwing eggs at stones, and it is difficult to dial a thousand pounds. The clear is self-cleaning, and the turbid is self-turbid, so you don't have to pay too much attention to it. What others are like is none of our business. The only thing we can do is to be ourselves and have a clear conscience. If everyone can think and do this, how can there be so many in the world? Turbid? Known as.

why has lotus been praised and praised by everyone since ancient times? Because of it? Get out of the mud without being stained, and clear the lotus without being demon? Because of his high morality and integrity, he often becomes a model in the works of people with lofty ideals. As long as you think it's worth it, life will be like what you think, and everything depends on your mentality.

others like to say that it is their right, and we also have the right to ignore it. If you care about what people say, your life will be in vain. Because individuals have their own opinions and opinions vary from person to person. After listening to this person's opinion, you have to take into account other people's thoughts, and you have to consider more people's opinions. You don't have so much mind to deal with such a variety of thoughts, opinions and opinions, so you have to come up with the same wisdom as Bole and recognize which one is really beneficial and beneficial to you.

It is understandable that a person who cares too much must be tired. If a person cares too much, he will definitely lead a life on the waves, without stability, dependence, let alone security. Think about life for so many decades, and it has passed in a blink of an eye. Do you think it is worthy of yourself to live with such fear and live with such trepidation? Do you think this life is what you want? Who doesn't want to be happy, and who doesn't want to be happy? Dear friends, don't change your lifestyle for the sake of other people's ideas. Don't blindly obey yourself for the sake of other people's opinions. You are like that, not you. You don't live for yourself at all. Therefore, a person's happiness is not that he has more, but that he cares less.

Don't think about the past. History is something we can't change. It's an ironclad fact, and we can't be false at all.

So, don't care what others say. Only by living our own life can we control ourselves. We didn't come to this world for nothing.

Of course, this does not mean that one should act arbitrarily, regardless of right and wrong. Instead, the evaluation of others can only represent their views, not necessarily the truth, nor necessarily sacred and unchangeable. You think it makes sense, you listen; If you think it is incorrect, you can ignore it, and the initiative should be in your hands. If you accept everything at once, the result must be that you lose the opportunity to exercise yourself and express yourself.

the ancients once said: Can you do what you want, but ask for my heart? . Why should we care too much about what others say and think? People's thinking, environment and cultivation are different, and their methods and perspectives will be different. How can we understand all your actions? All you have to do is realize what your reason says and what your conscience thinks. That is to say, as long as you have a clear conscience, you can do it completely? I'm only responsible for myself? Even under the suspicion of Gua Tian Li also can not avoid.

When we were young, we may not have a deep understanding of this sentence. When we are old, when all the scenery is seen through, maybe you will realize the importance of this sentence. Regret how much regret and regret I left myself when I failed to do it. At that time, you may find that the most important and precious thing in life is a truth, and we have been in a muddle for most of our lives, but we have no chance to reinterpret our lives again. This is the greatest sorrow in life.

We can listen to others' comments with our ears, but we must never wander with our hearts.

worrying about what others think of you all the time can only be that there is nothing in the world and much ado about nothing.

all my life, the grass and trees spring, and it's fleeting with a flick of my finger, all of which are fleeting. Why care too much? Worry too much? Go your own way and let others talk!

Inspirational story: Don't care about other people's eyes, live well.

When Su Mei was in college, he studied very hard. Every day at dawn, he got up and read English in the morning. After dinner in the evening, he went to the study room to study late and didn't come back until ten o'clock.

In the eyes of classmates, Su Mei is an unsociable freak. The female students all said:? I've been studying hard at the cold window for many years, and now I'm finally admitted to the university. I can relax, so why bother? I'm not going to get married in the future. ?

　? Yes, some people are just one-track-minded. Their work and rest schedules are different from ours, so noisy that we don't talk about rest, and they wear so shabby clothes that they simply lose the face of our dormitory and class. ?

Su Mei turned a deaf ear to the irony of his classmates. They didn't know what kind of family Su Mei came from and how hard he worked to get into college, so they didn't share their common sense.

Su Mei's family has a brother, who has been favored by his mother and grandmother since he was a child. He eats delicious food first, and he has something to wear, but Su Mei doesn't. Su Mei has to help with housework every day, and he can't study until he finishes it.

She grew up in a poor family and cherished all the hard-won opportunities. My brother doesn't work hard at school, but he only cares about having fun. But in order to support his face at home, my mother has to lend money to my brother everywhere? Buy? A university came to attend. Su Mei, on the other hand, doesn't even have a review material, so he can only borrow from his classmates.

It's so cold in winter that my brother wears a warm new down jacket to school, but Su Mei can only wear an old down jacket that her cousin thinks is out of date. Su Mei cherishes it as a treasure for fear of getting dirty.

when she was admitted to a key university, her family said that she had no money to study, so she had to go to an economical normal school.

Su Mei was very wronged, but there was nothing he could do, because his family had already owed a lot of money for his brother's tuition, and he had to feed and support the elderly at home, so he could only wronged Su Mei.

In order to be angry, Su Mei even told his best friend that he didn't want to go to a normal school and go out to work. Her best friend advised her: Do you think that if you don't go to school, your family will compromise? On the contrary, it just met their wishes. ?

in an instant, Su Mei figured it out. She finally understood that even if she resisted again, her family would not compromise, and it was useless to fight hard. The only way was to let herself shine and change her destiny by her own efforts!

So, after Su Mei went to college, she studied so hard, because she knew in her heart that living in this world, family of origin couldn't give her the life and dreams she wanted, and she had to create them by her own hands. In every exam, Su Mei is the first in the class and gets a full scholarship every year.

While the students are busy falling in love, Su Mei is doing problems in the classroom. While the students are busy traveling, Su Mei is busy doing part-time jobs; While the students were busy buying in buy buy, Su Mei signed up for another training class. Everything Su Mei has done is incompatible with her classmates. In the eyes of her classmates, she is like a freak, and she is not afraid of being laughed at by her classmates.

After graduating from Blink of an Eye University, while students are busy looking for jobs, Su Mei has successfully entered the internship unit and served as an internship editor. While the students were still worried about whether they could become a regular employee smoothly, Su Mei not only became a regular employee smoothly, but also doubled his salary.

While the students are thinking about how to find a rich man to marry, Su Mei is thinking about how to continue investing in himself.

Time passed quickly. When the monitor organized a class reunion, those female classmates who mocked Su Mei for being shabby and out of place in those days have now become aggrieved kannika nimtragol who only reached out to ask her husband for money and looked at her husband's face, but Su Mei has successfully married a husband born in a scholarly family. My parents-in-law are highly educated, and my father-in-law is a turtle, so he is very reasonable. My husband runs an educational institution, teaching and educating people, and he is congenial to Su Mei.

what is a good marriage? In my opinion, a good marriage is not necessarily to marry the richest man, but to suffer indignities at home, without status and freedom. Everything depends on the faces of in-laws and husbands. Instead, the man you marry is excellent, well-educated, and his in-laws are good, and he also has the confidence and money to lose his in-laws. He can earn his own money and status, and he also has respect and some. That is a good marriage.

I care too much about other people's opinions and make myself a joke.

Six years ago, I started to learn my driver's license, and I met an old cyclist here. Every time he got on the bus, he devoted himself to practice, completely ignoring other people's surprised eyes.

During the break, the two of us started talking. When I learned that he was in his fifties this year, I smiled and said: You are so persistent. I wouldn't study if I were your age. ?

he smiled and said: Indeed, when I learned to drive, my family and friends didn't agree. They felt that they were so old that there was no need to toss around, but I just wanted to learn. ?

I learned from the conversation that he always liked driving, but he ran aground because he didn't have a chance in the early years. Later, he learned to drive by himself, but he never got a driver's license and kept driving agricultural vehicles at home. After a period of time, he felt that this was not possible and wanted to learn a driver's license to run transportation.

When he told his family about his decision, the family unanimously opposed it. His study process was very difficult, and he failed the exam twice. Later, the coach didn't understand it, but this cyclist was a person who refused to accept the truth, and he always insisted.

Later, I heard that he got a driver's license and bought a small truck. The transportation ran very smoothly and his life was very comfortable.

A person who knows what he wants will definitely not care too much about other people's opinions, nor will he give up his gun because of the difficulties encountered on his way. They will overcome the difficulties and cut through difficulties to make their life more beautiful.

Don't let yourself be influenced by other people's opinions, which is the best affirmation for yourself. Otherwise, you can only live as a joke in other people's opinions.