Don't pick her up at her parents' house, let her stay at her parents' house and save money. What do you think of reaching a divorce agreement after half a year?

Don't pick her up at her parents' house, let her stay at her parents' house and save money. What do you think of reaching a divorce agreement after half a year? Obviously, the mother-in-law in question played a disgraceful role. She was selfish and didn't accept her daughter-in-law from the bottom of her heart, which eventually led to the breakdown of her son's marriage. She deserved it. Ladies and gentlemen, the value judgment of this matter is obvious, and Bian Xiao doesn't want to waste his breath. What Bian Xiao will discuss today is why there is such a mother-in-law. Is the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law a universal problem in the world, or is it unique to China?

Bian Xiao thinks this is a unique phenomenon in China. There are two reasons: first, this situation in the topic generally occurs in single-parent families or families where women are strong and men are weak. In this kind of family, it is often the mother who makes great contributions. The latter made great sacrifices and raised his son. In her subconscious, she has regarded her son as a "husband" and her own private property. Kant, a German enlightenment thinker, once said that people are selfish, which is nature.

Ladies and gentlemen, although maternal love is great and selfless, mother is not. When her children get married, the mother will feel a sense of loss. She couldn't figure out how this child, who used to chatter around herself all day and was full of his own children, could make out with others overnight. From then on, what children see in their eyes, what they die in their hearts and what they say in their mouths are strangers! Therefore, in order to find her son, her mother-in-law began to imagine her daughter-in-law as an imaginary enemy, and the contradiction between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law was detonated.

Because of the differences in traditional culture, western mothers generally don't regard their sons as their whole life, let alone their own private property. So relatively speaking, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the west will be more harmonious. Secondly, since Dong Zhongshu reformed Neo-Confucianism in Han Dynasty, Confucianism has been the mainstream of China traditional culture, which has influenced us for thousands of years. Confucianism believes that it is heaven for a daughter-in-law to obey her mother-in-law and husband, and it cannot be violated! It is under the influence of this thought that mother-in-law usually gives her daughter-in-law a problem.

For example, deliberately letting the daughter-in-law live in her mother's house is nominally to save money, but in fact it is nothing more than to declare the authority of the head of her own family! This kind of gene does not exist in western culture, so this kind of thing will not appear in the west. To sum up, this kind of thing in the title is unique to us! Finally, the woman divorced because of this kind of thing, which was a bit too impulsive. After all, since we are married, we are all family members and we can talk about anything, right?