The children ate and rummaged, but Ma Bao didn't stop them. Li Meijin: You should pay attention to children's table manners.

In the eyes of most parents, the baby's meal can be said to be a major event. Because children's eating well directly affects their growth and development, parents attach great importance to this.

Although parents will pay attention to whether children eat well or not, some table habits are easily overlooked and it is easy for children to develop bad habits.

A few days ago, when I was having dinner with my best friend, she took the children. Her children are now in the third grade of primary school. They should be polite, but they have very bad habits when eating.

Children always like to be picky when picking vegetables, and they can't wait to turn the whole dish over and eat it directly with public chopsticks.

However, girlfriends seem to turn a blind eye to this behavior of children and seem to be used to it.

So I asked this question, but my best friend didn't agree, thinking that the child is still young and it will be fine when he grows up.

In fact, this kind of behavior like girlfriends' children is not uncommon in life, but many parents think it's no big deal and won't interfere.

But in fact, many children's bad table habits, if not corrected in time, may bring a lot of troubles and even affect their health, so parents must pay attention to them.

Therefore, if children have the following habits when eating, parents had better intervene in time.

1, the child is very picky about food.

Many children will be more or less picky when eating, which is normal, because even adults will have things they don't like to eat.

But when children eat, if they are too picky about food, parents need to pay attention. Because children are too picky about food, it may have a negative impact on children's growth and development, so that children lack nutrition in their bodies.

Especially some children, if they don't see what they like to eat at the dinner table, they will show a complaining attitude. "Why is there nothing I like?" "Why is it so bad?" Wait a minute.

Then the child's behavior not only shows that the child is very picky about food, but also shows that the child's table manners are very bad, which parents can't ignore.

2, children eat half-heartedly

Some children are not picky about food, but it may take hours to eat a meal.

Then, in the face of children's behavior, parents can't ignore it, because eating too half-heartedly will also bring harm to the body.

It is not only impolite for children to do other things while eating, but also easy to choke and affect digestion.

Because the child's throat is very thin, it is possible to swallow the food that has not been chewed up carelessly, which brings the risk of suffocation.

Therefore, when parents coax their children to eat, they must not let them do other things while eating in order to make them eat more, because it is very dangerous.

Children like to protect food when eating.

Some children have the habit of eating alone. When they see what they like to eat, they will take it for themselves and will not share it with others.

Especially when the child is about three years old, this kind of performance will be extremely obvious because of his strong self-awareness.

If parents turn a blind eye to this, it may make children form habits, and after a long time, their personality may become very selfish.

Because such children did not develop good consciousness when they were young, in their eyes, everything should be self-centered, regardless of the feelings of others.

Although some habits need to be corrected, it does not mean that all parents think that bad habits need to be corrected. Because some habits are corrected, they may not be good for children, so you might as well let your children keep these habits.

Children like to eat with their left hands.

Some children like to eat with their left hand, which is commonly known as "left-handed".

Therefore, many parents will feel very entangled when they see their children's performance, because children's hand habits are different from those of most people, and they don't know whether they need to be corrected.

According to incomplete statistics, one in ten people is left-handed, that is, people who use their right brain more.

Then such people often perform well in some jobs that need to be created, and parents don't need to correct their children.

Because if forced to correct, children may have cognitive impairment, do not know which hand to use, and may also affect the development of the right brain.

Therefore, when parents see their children eating with their left hands, as long as they make room for their left hands, it will not affect their hands, and there is no need to forcibly correct them.

2) Children like to eat with their hands.

Some children like to eat with their hands when eating. Even if parents repeatedly correct it, children still like to eat with their hands. Therefore, some parents feel very entangled and don't know whether to correct their children's behavior.

It is mentioned in Sears' Encyclopedia of Intimate Parenting that children like to eat with their hands, because the feeling of contact between their hands and food makes them very interested.

However, if parents use tools to force their children to eat, they may lose interest in food and even make them anorexia.

Therefore, after parents see their children doing this, there is no need to force them to do so. Just help them do the corresponding cleaning work to prevent them from eating bacteria.

Because as children grow older, this habit will gradually disappear.

Because of bad eating habits, not only others will think that children are unruly, but also it is not good for their growth and development.

Therefore, parents must correct their children's bad eating habits and gradually cultivate good habits, so that children can grow up healthily and become well-behaved and polite children.

Parents should teach their children to share, because the virtue of sharing can not only make children praised for table manners, but also let them learn to share with others in other aspects of life.

Because many children will become very protective of food when they are about three years old, parents should take this opportunity to teach their children the right behavior, and don't let their children eat alone or protect food.

Parents can stop their children from eating alone and then teach them how to share food.

When they enjoy sharing, they will gradually get rid of their eating habits.

At this time, parents can also try to praise it, which can make children feel a sense of accomplishment.

However, it should be noted that although many parents will prevent their children from eating alone, many elderly people will deliberately leave delicious food for their children and are unwilling to eat it themselves.

Therefore, if the elderly at home have this kind of behavior, we must stop it in time, because it will only encourage children to eat alone.

Some children are very picky about food, or prefer certain foods when eating. Parents can take some measures to correct their behavior.

For example, parents can communicate well with their children at the beginning to understand the reasons why children are picky eaters, because each child has different reasons for picky eaters and partial eclipse.

Therefore, at the beginning, it is actually the best for parents and children to communicate well and gradually improve their bad habits.

However, if the child has been unwilling to make changes, or is unwilling to communicate with parents, then parents may wish to try to starve the child and see if the child can improve the problem of partial eclipse.

But the method of starving children cannot be used for a long time, otherwise it will affect the normal growth of children.

Parents can make things that children don't like into some lovely shapes, or cut them into small pieces and mix them with other foods. Often, children can gradually get rid of the habit of picky eaters.

Some children are always half-hearted, and even need to watch TV or play with toys to eat.

Therefore, in the face of children's behavior, parents can make an agreement with their children before they eat, so that children can have a concept of quiet eating.

At the same time, parents can put away their children's toys or electronic products before eating, so that children can eat with peace of mind.

Therefore, in the process of eating, many parents have the habit of breastfeeding, thinking that this can make the baby finish the meal faster.

But in fact, parents feeding their children will only make it easier for them to be half-hearted when eating.

Because when children eat by themselves, their attention is often focused on the meal, while when parents feed them, they have time and mind to do other things.

Children's eating habits are not a small problem, and parents should pay attention to them. In the face of children's bad eating habits, we should also correct them in time to prevent bad habits from affecting children all the time.

In addition, when parents correct their children's eating habits, they can also correct some of their table manners together.

Because there is a good table manners, it will be very helpful for children's growth, and even benefit children for life.