How do you deal with your partner always mentioning your ex?

I believe that most people don’t mind if their love partner has an ex. They just hope that the other person will start a new relationship from scratch after being with them, and wipe all the past from their minds. After a breakup, no matter how painful and lost you feel, life must go on. When an old love becomes a passer-by, it is normal to welcome a new partner. But some people haven't completely forgotten their old love and are with a new one. This is very unfair to the current incumbent. If it is not handled properly, conflicts can break out at any time.

As your current partner, he can tolerate one or more relationships you have experienced before, and he will also be willing to listen to you mention why you broke up before. But the topic about your ex should not be too broad or too many. After you have confirmed your relationship with your current girlfriend from friends to a couple, it is best not to mention anything about your ex, especially the sweet and unforgettable experiences between the two of you at that time. Doing so will challenge your current girlfriend's bottom line of tolerance. Eat, drink, have fun, walk around in the same city, and come and go in all those places. For friends who have been in love more than once, it is normal for the current date to be in the same place as the ex. It’s hard to avoid feeling something when you see certain scenes! Some people are like this, going to every place that is suitable for couples, they will mention the different experiences of the past and previous lovers to their current ones. How does it feel to be around him?

If you don’t know when to stop talking about these topics, the other party will become very concerned even though they don’t mind. You might even think, are we in a relationship? Do you consider me your lover? Do you still love him after all? We will find a phenomenon: when a man mentions his ex to his current girlfriend, telling about the happiness and beauty in the past, he shows that kind of care and reluctance. This man is very likely to be sentenced to "death" immediately. Even if they don't break up, the woman will definitely be furious. It’s really not easy to mend this pot! When a woman often mentions her previous boyfriend to her current boyfriend, and the man finally can't stand it anymore and says that these topics should not be continued, the woman will think that the man has a virginity complex and is not tolerant.

In fact, it is not good for men and women to have this kind of thing happen, and it is quite unfair to the person next to them. Finding a new partner is nothing more than toasting to the past and starting over again, and embarking on the road to happiness again. Why do you always talk about your ex? If you are lonely after a breakup and are looking for someone to spend some time with you or to find a substitute to temporarily fill the void, you can find a suitable person to be your lover and explain your current relationship. Don't mess with those who are serious about relationships, otherwise it will be easy to hurt the other person. Some people think that no matter how many years you have been in love with someone, you should also be single for as many years after breaking up, in order to effectively fade away everything in the past. This statement is too exaggerated. After being separated for five years, do you have to be single for five years before finding someone again? In today's love, it is easy to stay together and easy to separate. Breaking up is not a big deal. If you are interested in developing a new relationship in the future, you must pay attention to the whole process of losing and finding again. When you first break up, you really need to have a transition period to allow yourself to digest and calm down, straighten out the old things and let yourself truly let go before facing new love. This is the mature approach. It’s good for both your current employer and yourself!