The children are still young, but the parents are old and cannot afford to die.

As soon as I turned on the computer in the morning, I saw a very sad news pop up on 360 - the mother fought to the death to give birth and her life was fixed at the age of 25.

The author who wrote this article really captured people’s hearts. Even though he knew it was sad news, he couldn’t help but read it.

Wu Ying, 25, suffers from congenital heart disease and severe pulmonary hypertension, and has been diagnosed by doctors as "definitely not suitable for pregnancy." But she longed to have a child of her own. In the interview, she said the first sentence: I think life is complete if you have a child.

Perhaps this was her lifelong obsession. For this obsession, she had two miscarriages after being married for two years. Even though everyone advised her not to give birth, she still insisted on doing so. When no one could understand her obsession, she said to the director of the interview: They all say that I can’t think about it. If some things don’t happen to you, you can’t understand the feeling. Even if my friend said that, Then they also have children, then I see they have children, then I want to have children too. I also know the risks, and the doctor has told me, and I am willing to give it a try.

I don’t agree with Wu Ying’s approach, but I agree with her statement. As I said before, if you don’t have the same experience in this world, you can’t empathize with it, but how many people in the world have the same experience.

Wu Ying fought hard with her life, but unfortunately she only got a child, but not her life. If her pregnancy was a big gamble, then the result was a draw. The God of Destiny allowed her to get what she wanted, but also took away the capital she had used to gamble.

When the child was seven months old, the doctor performed a caesarean section for her safety. The pre-term child was sent to the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit of Shanghai Children's Medical Center as soon as she was born. As a young boy, he weighed only 1,005 grams. In the words of our hometown, he was as big as a cat. There is no name, but the bracelet says Wu Ying's son. But Wu Ying couldn't see the child with her own eyes. She could only see the photos and videos of the child on her mobile phone. I believe that the moment she saw the child, she must have been satisfied. She finally did it, and her life was complete. There is a child in this world with her blood flowing. She definitely hopes that the God of Destiny can continue to take care of her and let her continue to accompany this child's growth. It's a pity that although she tried hard to survive in the intensive care unit, she only lasted 14 days, and her life was permanently fixed at 25. age.

There are many people on the Internet who think Wu Ying is not worth it and feel that they would risk their lives just to have a child. stupid!

After reading the entire news and searching for the entire thing, Yanzi thought of the weak child who was still in the intensive care unit. Such a small child has no mother.

Teacher Tu Leitu said that when you decide to have him, you have to be responsible for the child. You brought him into this world, but left him to face life alone. This young mother is complete, but for the child, it will always be a regret.

Yanzi couldn't explain his feelings clearly. He felt sorry for Wu Ying, the mother, but couldn't agree with her actions.

Colleague Lala said that she was complete, but left a big gap for others. The child lost his mother as soon as he was born, and her husband lost his wife because of this child. How will he face this child in the future? Her parents lost their daughter because of this nephew. The price was really too high. What's more, this child will have to face the fact that his life is exchanged for his mother's life. How many strange looks will he face?

Yanzi said that she actually wanted a child, and the two parents-in-law could adopt a child. Although it is not your own biological child, the relationship comes from getting along with each other. In the daily feeding of milk powder and diapers, the relationship between you and your child will become closer and closer.

The swallow itself is adopted, but to the swallow, the mother is the mother, and there is no so-called adoptive mother and biological child. Because your mother is the woman who teaches you how to speak, guides you to walk, and accompanies you to grow up. What can really be distinguished is whether you love this child or not.

Regarding whether she would regret not being able to have a child of her own, Yanzi said she would definitely do so. Just like Yanzi's mother, she was destined to be unable to get pregnant due to physical reasons. Not having a biological child was the regret of Yanzi's mother in her life. But with the company of Swallow, her regret will become very small, and become the sigh that comes back from her dreams at midnight.

Yanzi is now also a new mother. After becoming a mother, Yanzi’s biggest realization is to cherish life more. In the past, you always felt that your life was yours, but the moment you hold that young child in your hands, you will feel that the heavy responsibility on your shoulders is so great, and you will be willing to give everything you have for this child. This is "women are weak by nature, but motherhood makes them strong." It is also because I have children, and as I accompany them to grow up, I can better understand the hardships of parents. This is also "only when you raise children will you know the kindness of your parents."

It is said that we accompany our children to grow up, but we ourselves are growing up and becoming more responsible people. When you have responsibilities and need to take responsibility, you don’t dare to be willful.

Just like when Yanzi used to drive a motorcycle, he only cared about rushing and not being late. He seldom paid attention to himself and always felt that the god of death was far away from him. Until a small car accident occurs. Although the person is fine, at that moment, you will find that the god of death is so close to you. On the verge of life and death, I think of my children who are only a few months old and my elderly parents. Don't laugh at me why I didn't think about my husband, because I always feel that if I leave, other women will accompany him, but the young children and elderly parents are the ones who are more seriously hurt. When you think about this, you will realize that you really don’t dare to die because you can’t afford it.

From now on, Yanzi bids farewell to the era of "speeding cars". This is no longer driving, but cherishing his life at all times.

They say that the most difficult thing is to have elders above and younger ones below, because your life is not just yours. Please think twice before making any decision.

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