This is just a joke. Don't take English seriously.

It is inevitable to meet all kinds of people in life, some are humorous, some are steady, some are lively and some are good at joking. ...

If you are not careful, you will meet some people who look very friendly. When you talk, you are joking. It is really your fault! This kind of joke pleases oneself and the official, but ignores the mood of the teased person.

People who are teased don't care about two kinds. One is to fight back immediately (the result may get worse and worse). The other is that although I feel uncomfortable, I feel very uncomfortable. The result of this is to make others subconsciously think that you are a subject that can be used as a topic at will.

When everyone was chatting and playing together, suddenly someone pointed out to you that you were like a monkey or that you were just a tragedy, and then everyone was laughing. There is no doubt that this behavior pleases all readers, including yourself. But please wake up, boy, and realize that this is an unconscious personal attack. Maybe everyone is harmless, and the other party is just joking, so maybe we can get along well and have a better atmosphere. But this is an invisible identity slander.

The basic social principle of normal interpersonal relationship is mutual respect. Conventional jokes are limited to humorous interpretation of the surrounding things, and cannot directly comment on and define individuals. Anyone who talks about himself must be stopped in time.

At this time, we can kindly tell each other: I'm sorry, I took you as a joke. But I hope the next time you say this to a tragedy or a monkey.

Words are spoken words, which carry weight and can subconsciously guide the audience's psychology. Gu Yan: The speaker has no intention of listening. When you speak, you can think clearly about the final effect and influence of these words, so as not to hurt the enemy by 1000 and damage yourself by 800.

We can't ask others, but we can change ourselves and think twice before speaking. Everything we say is the embodiment of your own connotation, so not all excessive remarks can be revealed rashly with a joke!