How to attract girls when chatting with them

1. You must have a clear plan. If you want to have a conversation with a girl, you need a great opening. When you see a girl you like, whether you have been attracted to her for a while or just met her, you should let her pay attention to you for a few minutes. Let her see you having fun with your friends and not paying much attention to her. Then, look her directly in the eyes with confidence. Keep your head up, your chest out, and look directly at your target.

If you don’t know her, briefly introduce yourself. For example, "Hey, my name is Li Lei, what's your name?" This is a simple but effective way to start.

If you know each other, say hello. It doesn’t have to be complicated – it’s no big deal if you want to get to know her.

Pretend a little until you get the girl - even if you're afraid of talking to girls, just pretend - it's not a big deal.

2. Start a relaxing topic. There's no need to plan an elaborate joke or do a backflip to get a girl's attention. Just talk about something to make the girl want to communicate more with you. Don’t discuss your grandma’s funeral, or your future goals. Just talk to her about something you saw on TV, something funny your dog did, or something cool you saw over the weekend. Don’t stress too much and talk about something lighter. Try this:

"Hi, I had a rough weekend. I had to help my dad do some minor repairs that made me unable to lift my arms. How were you? Did you do it? Are you participating in any interesting activities?"

"Look at the scratches on my hands. Do you have a pet?" TM is difficult. I’m sure I didn’t answer any of the questions correctly. How about you?”

3. Understand the inner feelings of girls. When you start talking, you should understand how she feels about you. Every girl is different. If she's shy, she'll need you to initiate conversation and ask questions. If she is talkative and cheerful, then you should let her talk more, don't interrupt her, and don't focus too much on how to impress her. Once you know what kind of girl she is, you can adjust your conversation accordingly.

Don't worry if she's shy. She may be the kind of girl who is shy at first but can adjust her attitude quickly.

Although it is important to show your true side, when you are chatting with a girl you are not familiar with and you are not sure about her sense of humor or whether she is not able to accept certain jokes, you There should be conversations about safety. The more you talk, the more you know what you can and cannot say.

Even if a girl is very outgoing, you should not let her do all the talking. Let her know you're having a great conversation with her.

4. Small talk is important. If you're chatting with a girl, you can't start by talking about your deepest, most important thoughts, as that will scare her away. Small talk is an art, and you can only master it by leading from mundane topics to more interesting ones. You have to start small, so don't worry about boring conversations about basic things like the weather or that chemistry test you have coming up. Here are some examples of how to change the topic:

“It’s been raining this weekend! I was going to go cycling with my dad