You have become excellent, and the male god is not yours.

This sentence is better than the QQ space signature file, which is the distress of many girls.

I have received many private letters about emotional confusion, which can be summed up in two sentences: "I am better to him than myself, but he doesn't like me" and "I am angry, but I can't let him go".

A lovely girl said that I care about him, but he always ignores me with his head held high, which is really unacceptable.

I know that it is natural to give in emotionally and think about returning. The closer you are to the person you love, the better and the more real you are. But sometimes, no matter what we do, the other person is neither too hot nor too cold and won't take you to the next step. What should we do?

Many chicken soups say that because you are not good enough, you should get better soon and become a goddess with beautiful skin and intelligence. You should work hard to shine, you don't work hard enough, you don't work hard enough.

Sorry, I don't think so.

Some time ago, I discussed with my best friend that a boy didn't like your performance. My best friend said, for example, if two people play together every day, they just have no feelings. When they climbed over the wall and went back to school, they were afraid of danger. The boy took her hand and let them go as soon as they set foot on the smooth road.

It's a beautiful morning. If there is love, there is no story. If there is love, there is no story.

But what happened to my best friend? There is nothing wrong with my best friend. Lovely face, slim figure, very talented, or high flyers won the 985 scholarship. I have always hated the argument that boys don't like you because you are not good. Do you want to take a piano grade 10 just because your male god said "I like music cultivation"?

I know that "he just doesn't like you" is really a hard fact to accept. So we tried to digest it, so we cheered ourselves up and said, we just need to get better, and we don't have to suffer the ups and downs of love when we get better.

That's not true.

How can we make the right person like us? This is really a difficult question. If you become excellent, you can solve it. Then falling in love becomes an exam.

A girl who sent me a private message, "What if the male god never likes me?" I usually answer, "You must cross this hurdle and forget him."

I won't say "I have friends", I will say it myself.

I have also experienced hopeless love, appearing in various scenes with each other at the right time and place, but even if he is by my side, he is like a passer-by. Hao became the closest friend. He never planned to take the next step, either playing dumb or joking.

I have been reflecting on myself for the past two months. What is wrong with me? What is wrong with me? I hate his high spirits and pride. It is because I love him more than myself that he easily became the winner in this tug-of-war.

Later, I used a very extreme way. I know he doesn't like me, but I made my confession on purpose. I deliberately let him refuse, so that our friends can't do it, otherwise I know I will be with him for a long time. If the answer is not clear, I will endure one more day of anxiety.

At that time, I was only eighteen years old, and I wanted to develop an unthinking relationship-but later I was glad that I had screwed up my relationship with him, because I soon met Mr. Right, and he was not embarrassed by me because he didn't understand amorous feelings, and now he lives a chic life.

It's a waste of youth to haunt someone who doesn't care about you at all. I know how painful it is to let go. I have experienced it. Crying in the middle of the night, drinking cold wine in the coldest December.

Don't drink chicken soup that says "If you are a little better, the male god will like you".

My suggestion is, break, break first. I am a real spendthrift, and I am also a person who has restrained himself from grovelling and thinks that I can get God's care. What I want to tell you is, don't try your best to transform yourself just because you want the male god to like you.

I'll tell you the truth. Why do you work so humbly?

I was a terrible girl when I met my husband at the age of eighteen. I wear strange clothes, always call names, and have a sharp personality, and I want the whole world to obey. He is a Ph.D. in materials, with high double quotient, tenderness and meticulousness. At that time, I had not started writing, and I was not regarded as an example by so many people, and I never achieved anything-but he was willing to grow up with me.

You see, I was not good at that time.

To put it simply and rudely, if that person really doesn't like you, it's useless for you to put a knife rest around his neck, not to mention that you are whining and watching a drama and trying to live as a counterattack in a literary film-"I won't like you until you get better." If the emotional logic is so straightforward, the majority of boys and girls will not always write sad signatures.

Back to the question at the beginning, what if that person doesn't like you?

I want to answer you today. Nothing you can do can stop it. Stop it, stop it.

You quickly left his world and started a new one. Let go of your useless fantasies as soon as possible. But don't be discouraged, live a stretched life, be kind and open-minded, and live for yourself.

You will walk through many heartbreaking thorns, but you will walk out of this dark forest, you will see the beautiful sky, and you will forge yourself many times in the future. This is your own life, and no one can twist it.

Isn't it sad that you became a goddess because that person likes it? Excellence is the driving force of progress, but you should remember that Excellence is always for yourself, not for a worthless person to like you.

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