How do you know if you are an extreme personality?

Extreme, as the name implies, is extreme and extreme.

As long as it refers to cognition, one-sided cognition of things, no patience or consciousness to understand everything about a person, define a person or a thing with what you like or hate.

Usually a person or a thing is expressed like this:

I hate this man's XXX shortcomings.

I hate this stuff, XXX

It really makes me sick, because I hate XXX.

This XXX only represents one of them, not all of them, and it is annoying without rhyme or reason. Based entirely on personal preferences, I lack the ability to fully understand things. Please note that it is lacking, which he can't recognize subjectively. This is his fixed behavior pattern, which is entirely caused by his personality.

Moreover, his views, thoughts and cognition have deviated from the three views of the general public. Many extreme people don't think their thoughts are extreme. They say they call it clear love and hate, and they call it hate!

In fact, it is a kind of self-beautification, with clear love and hate, and evil is rewarded with evil. If it is only out of one's own preferences, it is an extreme, extremely sensitive and one-sided emotional expression lacking rational thinking.

Shock is the impulse of emotional behavior, such as yelling at the National People's Congress if you don't agree, feeling that the other person is hitting the world with a stick, and many online sprayers are extremely extreme people. Of course, they don't think so. Think of those keyboard men who started spraying people because of a point under the guidance of the water army. The truth was revealed, and it was obvious that the wrong person was scolded.

And those who are easily misled make some decisions rashly because of what others say or what they hear from hearsay. This kind of thing is very common in adolescence, and it is easy to push things to the most important thing in life. For example, you can die for love or stab someone in the back for loyalty. Because people don't often say that you feel that you don't have love, because the teacher criticizes you and you give up your studies. This is an extreme figure.

Many students who go to extremes in adolescence will gradually change with their age. This extreme may be influenced by their classmates, film and television culture and their own body hormones. This extreme has certain adolescent characteristics and will be improved.

On the other hand, some people's extreme personality is formed due to the influence of living environment, such as the rude education of parents, the influence of people around him in childhood, such as meeting a bad primary school teacher ... This extreme personality will not end with the end of adolescence, and it is more harmful to life. If you want to improve this extreme personality, you must take the initiative to discover and restrain it.