The rule of the first anniversary of the old man's death

On the first anniversary of the old man's death, according to the custom, future generations need wine and food, and three sacrifices and five fruits to worship. In the first year, the tomb will be opened on the day before Qingming, the second day of Qingming and the third year after Qingming. Secondly, we should pay attention to the people who go with us. If there are people who are weak, don't let them go, such as pregnant women, children, the elderly, the infirm and so on.

You can burn paper, silver ingots and gold ingots for the anniversary. And steamed bread is essential. You can buy some fruits and other offerings. Respect religion and local customs when paying homage to the dead, and entertain relatives after the memorial service.

Pay attention to the anniversary of the old man's death.

1, do not wear red and green

On the first anniversary of Memorial Day, the children are still in mourning. Although you can wear auspicious clothes, going to the grave should still be taboo. They shouldn't wear red and green. This is disrespectful to their ancestors, will disturb their rest in peace, and is unlucky for the dead and the living.

2. Burning paper money and sacrifices

It is necessary to offer paper money sacrifices on the anniversary, not only because people want their ancestors to have wine, meat and money to spend in another world, but also because we show filial piety and miss them. There are many kinds. Generally speaking, all necessities such as food, clothing, housing and transportation used in people's daily life can be used as sacrifices.

Step 3 clean the grave

It's been a year since my loved ones passed away. On the anniversary of burning paper on the grave, the first thing to do is to clean up the weeds around the grave, give a bright space for the yin house, and prevent accidents when burning paper. However, it should be noted that "the new grave cannot be broken in three years", and it is forbidden to fill or dig graves, which will destroy the gathering of vitality in the grave and is not conducive to the fortune of future generations.