Some people in our family worship bodhisattva.

1, buddhas and bodhisattvas are everywhere, not limited to temples. 2. Buddhas and Bodhisattvas are everywhere, not limited to one day. There is only one reason for invalidation, that is, insincerity. 1, worship on the fifteenth day of the first month and forget about 2 on the sixteenth day of the first month. Those who are closer can worship, and those who are farther can worship. Do you have the above two kinds of mentality? If it is, it will be hard to do. So, what your friend said is right or wrong. According to the Diamond Sutra, there is no fixed method. Many things don't have to be done according to certain rules. You do have difficulties, and Buddha and Bodhisattva certainly don't mind. But if there is no principle, today is east and tomorrow is west, then even if Buddha and Bodhisattva want to help you, they can't help you, because your heart is uncertain. The heart is set, and the Buddha and Bodhisattva will certainly help you.