Why are women with rich emotional experiences more worthy of love?

There is no road in life in vain, and every step counts.

What kind of experience a person has can be seen from her words and deeds.

Especially women.

Under the traditional education, gentleness and innocence are the true colors, and they always have reservations when dealing with feelings and the opposite sex.

Whether a woman is in love for the first time, simple and lovely, or battle-hardened can be observed from her words and deeds.

If a woman has rich emotional experience, she will not be as shy and timid as when she first met, but will be more dull.

The first performance: little blush and shyness.

In the harem, after seeing Zhen Xuan in the imperial garden, the emperor fell in love with it.

Once, when he was chatting with Zhen Xuan in the boudoir, Zhen Xuan, who was still a girl, was embarrassed to look the emperor in the eye.

Always talk to the emperor in a half-hour state. When the emperor speaks touching love words, Zhen Xuan lowers his head and looks shy.

The emperor said that his wife's shyness always made people fondle it.

That's true.

That's what women do without emotional experience.

When you see the opposite sex, don't talk openly with the other person, even looking directly at it will seem unnatural.

This can be seen not only by Zhen Xuan, but also by other concubines in the harem.

When eyebrow zhuang first met the Emperor, he always hung his head shyly. Even if he dared to look into the emperor's eyes sometimes, he immediately withdrew his eyes and turned reddish.

However, when she officially entered the bedroom, it was a bit dull and meaningless to talk about the emperor with Zhen Xuan.

Compared with other people who live in the harem all the year round, even if the emperor is the only one, there is much less shyness and embarrassment in the past after having intimate relations with the emperor.

It is much more normal for everyone to sit together and talk about the boudoir.

When a man meets a heart-warming woman, he can't wait to get to know each other, and his desire to conquer will burst into flames.

When a woman knows that she may have sex with a man, if she has no experience, she will feel shy and blush.

On the contrary, if her emotional world is rich, she knows many different men and has had contact with them, she will be more mature and calm emotionally and will not blush easily because of the opposite sex.

The second performance: accept men's gifts frankly.

China people are the most polite.

When you receive something from others, it will take you a long time to reluctantly accept it.

Even if I like this thing very much in my heart, I will be bound by the "courtesy" education I received from childhood.

In the same way, women face the person they like.

When they receive a gift from the opposite sex for the first time, they will feel flattered and grateful. Their body language is very polite and embarrassing.

However, when women have rich emotional experience, they will understand that there is no need to be polite when getting along with men.

Many times, respecting and accepting a man's generosity will make him feel a sense of accomplishment, as if he had conquered this woman.

In addition, women with rich emotional experience know how to get along with the opposite sex.

They know better that men and women are born different.

Women are euphemistic by nature and like to convey their ideas with emotions. Sometimes, they often say something different and let men guess.

As a result, I always guess, not the taste. I have many misunderstandings.

Women with rich emotional experience have a better understanding of men's way of thinking, and their brains are almost a straight line.

The gift he gave out represented his heart. In that case, he naturally hopes to win the favor of the woman he loves.

At this point, the woman rudely accepted it, and then gave the other person a feeling and praise, which just hit it off.

Of course, there are also some women who have been hurt and disappointed in many unsuccessful and unhappy emotional experiences. Therefore, they are very lacking in their hearts, which is characterized by excessive demands.

It seems that only by getting something from each other rudely can we show that the other person loves himself.

The third performance: the language is bold and straightforward.

Some people say that when men reach middle age, they will become very greasy.

It is mainly manifested in three aspects: characters, language and movements.

Fat figure makes people feel very greasy; When talking to the opposite sex, one or two imaginative jokes will pop up from time to time, and there will be some actions that will make people who have no emotional experience feel disgusting.

In fact, after a woman's emotional experience is rich, she will be a little tired.

Mainly reflected in the language.

Chatting with young and inexperienced girls is mostly romantic and understanding, flowers and pure feelings.

In people's minds, the natural picture is like a romantic drama, clear and transparent, fresh and pleasant.

Most women with rich emotional experience have experienced the joys and sorrows of the world, and their inner simplicity and romance have long been covered up by the contradiction and cruelty of life.

In her mind, there are so many real things that there is no time to wrap her complicated heart with fresh beauty.

Some little girls, facing the jokes made by men, will obviously feel embarrassed and don't know how to answer the words.

Women who have emotional experience will be more "tough" in this situation, which will often embarrass men.

Of course, this situation cannot be generalized. Some women are pungent and straightforward, informal, and their language is bold and straightforward, which has nothing to do with emotional experience.

To know what a person has experienced and what kind of personality he has, it is not necessary for him to make a full confession.

Many details and body language can reveal her experience.

Of course, these standards can not be used as the only standard to judge a person's feelings, but only as a reference. The specific situation should also be analyzed according to her personality and handling characteristics.

Theoretically speaking, women with rich emotional experience can't all judge that they are unstable and persistent.

Most people are eager to have a sincere relationship, but the reality is often unsatisfactory.

Around, some people are more disappointed when they are alive, and some people are more transparent when they are alive.

A person's emotional experience can be her scar or her capital.

In these emotional experiences, they know better what kind of people are more suitable for them and how to deal with conflicts in their feelings.

Therefore, a woman with rich emotional experience has many advantages that simple women can't match.

Experience is a sign and a way to relax.