How to help friends who are tortured by domestic violence?

For friends who are tortured by domestic violence, what we can do is to comfort each other. Many people may say, shouldn't we persuade each other to divorce? Yes, if it were me, I would definitely not accept domestic violence, but what we don't know is whether our friends can accept domestic violence. Maybe she feels good. Maybe she thinks she was beaten twice by her husband. Maybe she thinks it's a trivial matter, but she just likes to complain to us.

The first thing we should understand is that it is really easy for couples to quarrel at the end of the bed, and the bed is closed. Now you are persuading others to divorce, or how to get back at each other, but in fact, people may not take this domestic violence seriously. Maybe she was not badly beaten. You might persuade her to take revenge, call her back, and get a divorce at this time. This may not be the comfort she wants. She probably just wants to talk to you.

Some women are like this. Isn't it said that women will file for divorce only after the average number of domestic violence reaches 37? In other words, your friend didn't want to get divorced when he was abused for the first time. She may just be in a bad mood, just find it unbearable and unacceptable, so she came out to cry with you. What you can do at this time is to comfort her and listen to what she says. Don't help others choose

Don't talk too much, and don't try to persuade others to divorce. Sometimes people who are abused by domestic violence don't feel too serious. When your friends persuade them, they will think that you just want them to get a divorce.

So don't blindly persuade people, especially married women, whose mood is really hard to guess. Please persuade her to go home if you can.