Returned students were forced to jump off a building and die. What tragedies have happened around you because of stress?

I still feel lucky about the news that repeat students can't stand the pressure to jump off a building. My parents didn't put too much pressure on me. Yes, I am also a repeat student. In fact, I am particularly distressed that repeat students choose to jump off a building because of too much pressure. As a repeat student, the pressure is really not small, because you have to face not only the pressure from your parents and relatives, but also those students and friends who have been admitted to the university.

I was going to register for re-reading on August 22nd last year. At that time, in order not to let my classmates know that I was repeating, I insisted on going to the school in the next city to register. After I went, there were no places in several schools. My parents had an idea to let me go home to study again, but later I didn't want to. When I went to another school, the quota was full. The teacher in charge of registration said to see how many points you got in the exam, and then I heard that you were a fellow villager, so I gave it to the principal.

In this way, I successfully found a place to stay in this city, so I went to a cram school. In fact, there are quite a lot of people in the class, and most of them have been admitted to schools that are not very good, or people like me who have not been admitted. I felt very nervous in class. When we get along slowly, we actually find that everyone wants to give up, but they are unwilling to stop, and then continue to insist, taking exams again and again and posting scores again and again.

And pressure. Every time I see the scores of the top few, I look at my own, which invisibly increases the pressure. In fact, some people think it is particularly worthwhile to endure another year, because they have been making progress, and even if they regress, they will adjust their status in time, and the more they fight, the braver they become. I asked them if you were under pressure, and they said that only under pressure can you have motivation, but the pressure should not be too great, otherwise it will be counterproductive.

When I went back to my class to study culture that year, a schoolmate who had a physical examination in Nanchang asked me how I was doing recently. I said nothing, let it be. Later, he told me that the top student in senior three was a bully. He jumped off a building a few hours ago and died on the spot.

I asked him why, and my brother said it was probably because of his poor performance in the exam, and then my parents said a few more words. A schoolmaster in the top class of senior three couldn't quit because of an exam result, and then his parents said a few words about his children because of his grades, so he jumped from the sixth floor. I don't know whether he put too much pressure on himself or his parents were too strict with him, so that even a special exam brought his life to an end.

Later, I heard that his parents always wanted him to go to Peking University or Tsinghua. The influence of the aura of famous schools makes parents impose the hope of "aura" on their children. Sometimes it's too stressful. For a child, it is destruction, not hope.

I am very grateful to my parents for their concern for me in the year when I resumed my studies. They won't give me too much pressure, just let me know what I want and rely on myself. These are my parents. Thank them for not giving me pressure and letting me spend my senior year freely and happily.