Why do people you hate become what you are in the future?

Nietzsche's words come from such a story.

A village suffered from the dragon. Every year, brave men volunteered to slay the dragon, but no one lives. This year, a man followed the samurai to the dragon's lair, sat on the throne after seeing the samurai slay the dragon, looked at the glittering jewels, slowly grew scales, tails and tentacles, and finally became a dragon.

The general idea of this sentence is:

No creature can defeat dragons except dragons. If you always like to compete with the dark abyss, then the abyss will haunt you.

Just like someone snubbed you, you responded coldly; If someone looks down on you, you will ignore him contemptuously; Someone maliciously attacks you, and your arrogance is even more arrogant.

People you hate can easily turn you into something you hate.

Read a cold joke.

Because you hate him, you want to hit him.

Because you want to beat him, you should study him.

Because you have studied him, you will unconsciously imitate him.

Because you unconsciously imitate him, you will unconsciously become him.

When you find that you have become like him, it is too late to regret it.

Do you want this? Then don't hate anyone.

Hate is a stronger emotion than love, and hate is a kind of hate.

Try to treat existence as objectivity, try not to question objectivity, and then you will find that you can live according to your own model.

A friend said:

People will live a life they hate, because there are many things to consider when they grow up.

We are so eager to be different. We dream of scientists and stars. We thought we could change the world.

We hate the extraordinary, refuse to spend our lives in mediocrity, and hate people who are mediocre all their lives.

When I was a child, we all said, I want to choose the life I like, I want poetry and distance, I will never bow to reality, I can fly!

We stubbornly resist all hidden rules and oppose assimilation. Until you find that it is meaningless to do so, it just represents your immaturity.

You used to be a man who yearned for freedom and didn't bend down for five dou meters. But you have a family and children, thinking about daily necessities, children's milk powder money, supporting elderly parents and so on. For these reasons, you have to face disgusting leadership and work in 1996 and 2007. ...

People can't help themselves in the Jianghu.

We don't know that in this world, some people just try their best to survive.

Slowly, we find that what we yearn for is not really a wonderful life.

Luxury food, beautiful scenery in front of us, the price behind this may be a hundred times of pain, loss, emptiness and boredom.

In fact, in our hearts, do we still want to be safe and happy and spend our lives with our families?

With this in mind, everyone stopped slowly. Suddenly found that the previous pursuit is not necessarily good; There may not be too many mistakes in what we opposed before.

Probably everyone has had a dream of changing the world, only to find that what they really want is to be safe and be themselves without being changed by the world. The rest, let him go.

From the perspective of a person in the past, has this become a person I once hated?

In fact, there is no right or wrong, but the concept has changed. We know the kind of people we used to hate.

"Understanding" does not mean "since you say so, I will tolerate you and not blame you", but "I support your choice, because I sincerely believe that this choice is the most correct in your current situation."

After really understanding what "understanding others" means, I found that what others call "the most annoying person" is exactly what I want to be.

We hate people who are glib and stick to the rules.

But if tact can make you get along well with the people around you, it is not a bad thing. If your stubbornness and strength will bring discomfort and harm to others, then why keep it? I just want to get along with others, and don't hurt others because of my water chestnut, but I can't do it many times.

Everything in water conservancy is indisputable.

It turns out that what I hate is not what others say, but whether the choice I made is the best in the current environment. Don't turn other people's weaknesses into mine, and don't let the sorrow of the times become my sorrow.

A truly strong and excellent person will be responsible for himself. No matter how much changes have taken place in the surrounding environment, he can face up to and never forget his active attitude. Some people become annoying people and lose to themselves.

In fact, it's okay to become something you hate. Learn to accept yourself and get along with your best self.

Finally, I want to send you a word:

"Your power is infinite. If you change, the world will change. The world is not changed by others, but by yourself. "

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