Why is Xiao Furen not suitable for young businessmen?

Xiao Furen is not good to Shaoshang, because she thinks Shaoshang is rebellious, scheming and difficult to control.

Xiao Furen regards education as more important than blood relationship, and Cheng Shaoshang is similar to her personality. Because of his background, Xiao Furen doesn't like Cheng Shaoshang's character.

Xiao Furen prefers disciplined, gentle and polite Cheng Xuan, so Cheng Shaoshang has never received maternal love from Xiao Furen.

The real reason why Xiao prefers Cheng Xuan to Cheng Shaoshang.

Anyone who has read the original work knows that Xiao's quirks are not limited to this one. Even later Lou Jia proposed to Cheng Shaoshang. She regretted that the other party proposed to Cheng Shaoshang instead of Cheng Xuan. It's not about face or reputation at all. This was completely ignored by Mei, who only had Cheng Xuan in her heart.

To tell the truth, this is a mother who puzzles me the most. Her eccentric object is not her own children, but the daughter of her brother-in-law, who has a feud with her. Many people say that this is to show her fairness and justice, truly treat her daughter as her own daughter, and complete the entrustment of Aunt Cheng Xuan.