"Mother-in-law, why did you tell me that your family owed 600,000 foreign debts after marriage?" My mother-in-law said I didn't ask, what should I do?

Li Qingfeng, Zhang Xiaoshan and her husband met through blind date. At that time, both of them belonged to the ranks of older urban youth. The male is 30 years old and the female is 28 years old. Seeing that I haven't found the other half for a long time, my family can't sit still.

In the end, the two arranged a blind date under the matchmaking of both families. Looking at each other's comprehensive conditions, I still agreed to each other. The two families have been urging them to get married within six months. To say that the situation of the two companies is not too bad, Zhang Xiaoshan's father has worked in a company for a lifetime, and his income and position are relatively average.

Her mother was still at work when she was in junior high school. Later, because of poor health, she went home to raise it. There is only a little living expenses every month, and the family is not too affluent. Fortunately, she is the only daughter in the family. When she grew up, she also found a relatively stable job. Although her income is not too high, about 4000 yuan a month, she is a girl. She just needs to take care of herself and her parents.

02

Li Qingfeng's parents are both retired workers in the same factory. The house at home was bought in full in the early days, which is not a burden. Both of them have pensions. When he dated himself, the introducer introduced the situation as follows.

At present, it belongs to entrepreneurs and has an ideal prospect. I am more thoughtful, self-motivated and sure of success in time, but I am still working hard and have not succeeded yet. Zhang Xiaoshan thinks that men are the best guarantee as long as they are willing to work hard, and they are quite interested. They said nothing else. When they got married, her husband's family gave her a hundred thousand bride price according to local customs, but strictly speaking, she didn't want it at home and she didn't get it herself. Before the wedding, she returned all the bride price to her husband's family.

It's just that things in the world really change quickly. From her lifelong events, she learned what is ulterior motives and what is the bitter fruit of unintentional swallowing. Just after the wedding, the couple haven't returned to their new house. Mother-in-law came to tell her that the house bought in full has been mortgaged to the bank. If the loan of 600,000 yuan is not repaid in the near future, the house will be auctioned off by the bank.

03

After marriage, she became a member of her husband's family. I hope she can find a way to raise money from her parents to help pay her debts. When Zhang Xiaoshan heard this, he felt that he was going to faint. She thinks that the other party is suspected of cheating on marriage by hiding such a big thing. She asked angrily, "mother-in-law, why did you tell me that your family owed 600 thousand foreign debts after marriage?" "You didn't ask," her mother-in-law told her with blinking eyes. Zhang Xiaoshan stood motionless in the local area, unable to move. Her new husband came to help her get on the wedding car. She sat directly in the chair beside her and said nothing.

Now that things are frozen here, she doesn't know if such a marriage can continue. If she marries the past, what will be waiting for her in the future?

04

A marriage like this is just a makeshift marriage for the sake of marriage. Both men and women simply lack the minimum understanding and know little about each other's family situation and occupation, so they only listen to the introducer's side of the story. In fact, as long as one of them wants to hide, it is quite dangerous.

The motive behind the man's concealment of debt is that he knows it is a disadvantage and wants to defraud the woman's consent, which is fraud in itself. If the woman wants to maintain this marriage under such circumstances, she must think clearly. Getting into huge debts for no reason is one of them; The other party's family is dishonest and dishonest, which may make her life miserable in the future. I must know what to do.

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