A shy and dull child is destined to be somewhat unsuitable for this game. If it was my turn to throw away the handkerchief, I would also like to catch some co-perpetrators, but often my focus is on h

A shy and dull child is destined to be somewhat unsuitable for this game. If it was my turn to throw away the handkerchief, I would also like to catch some co-perpetrators, but often my focus is on how to skillfully and quickly throw away the handkerchief and successfully catch them at lightning speed. People are occupied. After losing the handkerchief and then pretending to walk a circle or half a circle, and singing to cover up, it feels a bit guilty. For me, I almost didn’t dare to look at anyone’s face at that time, especially the eyes, even if those eyes were closed! I often worry that they will soon see through my little tricks! Although I am honest most of the time, when I sit back and wait, I will also be observant and eager to get clues from others to make a judgment! After all, being caught would be a bit unfun if you don’t have some skills!

Anyone who has played this game must have experienced these two completely different psychology at the same time - it is about rules and human relations, and the different psychological expectations and coping attitudes of people in different situations. This magical role reversal has an impact on me to this day. Although sometimes the personality is impatient and impulsive, this often creates an image of a lack of rigor and rationality. However, looking back on my childhood, when I traced my personality and style of doing things, I vaguely realized the importance of this game to me!

——Looking at it negatively, it will induce my speculative psychology, which is a way to be clever. Although this can be a temporary benefit, it also makes me suffer from the torture of my inner conscience. It seems very solemn to say this, but in fact, for me at that time, I did suffer from similar suffering! However, if you are not flexible, you will be caught! Why can't we be willing to admit defeat? It’s still a matter of mentality! This makes me completely admire Mr. Kant every time I see his famous saying!

——On the positive side, I gradually realized a method of putting myself in others’ shoes. Because of the angle and position, I encountered some difficult disputes or faced personnel matters that were inconsistent with my principles. , I often consciously make the following sentence changes: If I were him... I would... If he were me, he would... Often after thinking about it like this, many things will resolve themselves. If it cannot be resolved, it will be dealt with depending on the nature of the situation. If I don’t break out in silence, I will perish in silence. This is a reflection of my immature true self. But now, I have learned to argue with reason, analyze rationally, and choose the best. To put it bluntly, these are the rules of the game, weights, pros and cons. If you still can’t figure it out at this point, then you deserve to be game!

A small game of throwing handkerchiefs, which I played in my childhood. But in order to have fun, I really tried hard to figure out the method. I also asked adults or older children for help, but they all laughed it off without comment. Yes, isn’t it just for fun? Looking back, was this really a purely entertainment game?

Obeying the rules, defending justice, grasping the opportunity to let go, hiding the truth appropriately, choosing between friendship and rules, quietly confusing techniques, etc. Which of these is not a projection of the rules of social games in adulthood?

This game that once brought great joy to my childhood actually left such a profound impression on me. Looking back at the so-called "game power", there are various sayings that children before the age of three, or even preschool children, only need to know how to play games. In fact, they have already understood the value of games and penetrated the essence of human nature!

Society is a big circle, and we are all part of it. If the rules are clear, the players’ goals are clear, and basic knowledge is achieved, then you can have fun. After all, the pursuit of happiness and harmony is the pursuit of happiness and harmony. It's normal.

A school, a team, and a classroom are actually a game circle - with clear and clear rules, a unique culture and communication code, as well as abiding by and defending the rules. No matter where you are in the circle, if you have a desire to play with the rules because you have "silk" in your hand, this may allow you to temporarily win a game, but in the end, what you lose is your qualifications for the entire game of life. !

Childhood’s games are not inconsistent with adulthood. I can't help but re-examine the value of this "100-year-old nursery rhyme"!