Why is a divorced woman not happy when she earns half a million yuan a year?

Ma Yuan has been divorced for five years and is raising his 10-year-old son alone. She thought she was a unique woman who chose a man with nothing at her best age to fight together. The ending is always cliché, the man finally becomes successful, changes his house, changes his car, changes his wife. At that time, the marriage could not be divorced, but Ma Yuan could not get over his own hurdle.

Although the ex-husband transferred part of his property, he did not kill the mother and son. I was given a two-bedroom apartment in the city center and gave up my shares in a villa in a partnership. My ex-husband said that you don’t have to work hard to make a living in the future. Ma Yuan thought, what you said about loving me well changed your mind in the end, how could you take what you said about your livelihood seriously?

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Ma Yuan went to Sanya to recover from his injuries and spent all the money he had. He wanted to start a business but couldn't get started. She called her ex-husband and said that you sold my car, transferred the sale proceeds, and bought a small stake in the express delivery company. At first, I couldn't afford to hire anyone, so I rode a battery car to deliver and receive express delivery every day. Soon he became haggard. Ma Yuan, who majored in accounting, calculated that when the business started, one person would not be able to distribute tens of thousands a year, so he withdrew his shares.

3

After much deliberation, I decided to find someone to open a Western restaurant in partnership. The initial planned investment of 300,000 yuan was increased to 650,000 yuan. Ma Yuan took the mortgage payment of the house, the payment of the car sold, and the monthly dividends from the villa, and just endured it. Those who can owe a debt owe it. If you don't owe enough, your friends will come forward to guarantee it. The partners are very attentive to the operation, but the location is remote, there is no parking space, and the consumption is low. The number of people invited also changed from ten to one. The Western restaurant turned into a tea bar. My partner and I worked day and night shifts, working hard day and night.

Two years later, the business has just begun to pick up. The partner was busy in another store and asked his wife to come and help. The wife threatened to kill them and they refused to join the partnership. I also doubt that the two of them are innocent. Ma Yuan yelled at his partner that he was a fool. He knew that you were so lazy and lazy, but he still wanted her to help him and let the shit basin fall on his head.

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The partner asked Ma Yuan to take over the store. I just paid off my loan and I don’t have a penny on hand. A credit card overdraft of 100,000 is still not enough. Good friends lend a helping hand. The partner no longer came forward, and Ma Yuan made the handover to the partner's wife: She said, I have prepared the money to take over the store, but my husband insists on asking you to take over. Ma Yuan broke into a cold sweat. It turns out that when the business improves, everyone is planning everything right step by step. Knowing that you have no money and no one to help you, you will be thrown out of business. His partner used Ma Yuan's house as a mortgage for another store decoration loan. He treated others with sincerity and almost fell into a trap in the end.

The business is maintained like this, neither good nor bad, and I have to be on duty late at night every day. I can earn more than 200,000 yuan a year. Add in the dividends from the villa, my income from investing in real estate, and my part-time accounting income, and I have 4 to 50,000 yuan a year. In this small city where the per capita annual income of the 18th tier is only 30,000 yuan, Ma Yuan appears as an inspiration for a divorced woman to start over.

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Friends often come to visit Ma Yuan. Male friends usually say: You are so strong. Who dares to marry you? You will never get married like this? Ma Yuan said, if a man thinks I am strong, I can immediately close the store, wash my hands and go home to be a good wife and mother, but not even one such person appears. People who are worse off than me are always thinking about getting some money from myself, and people who are better off always think that I am not young, pretty, gentle and considerate enough. Male friends will say, it’s all your fault. You care too much about money. People are just here for your money. Wouldn’t everyone be happy if you spend more generously? Ma Yuan scolded: I am a person, I pay money, and I also want to get feelings. If you spend money on a man and get scolded and angry by him, why don't you just find a duck and forget about it. At least he is handsome and live a good life, and you can still get some points for spending money. All my money is hard-earned money. Why should I spend it on others and still be angry with others? How cheap must I be...

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Ma Yin said that his marriage failed. Stay away from friends. Give yourself a vacation every year and allow yourself to travel alone.

Some people would directly say to Ma Yuan, "You travel every year and you are so wild. How can any man control you? Who dares to want you?" Ma Yuan insisted on swimming in the reservoir and wore the most conservative swimsuit. Many people still said that this woman was not ashamed to wear so little in front of so many people. Even someone who had a crush on Ma Yuan for many years, who lived and died in the same year, month, and day, decided to block Ma Yuan because he heard about Ma Yuan swimming. Ma Yuan insists on keeping fit. Friends would also joke: I don’t have a man, so what’s the use of having a good figure and skin?

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Ma Yuan realized that nothing he did was right. Either you have a problem or society has a problem. Ma Yuan wanted to leave the city. Ma Yuan became honest when he thought that his children were still in elementary school and needed company the most. What makes Ma Yuan honest is that Ma Yuan's ability cannot keep up. It is not easy for a person who lives in a small city and has no skills to survive outside. She often envied those who lived in big cities. If she didn't like a city, she would quit her job and go to another city.

Ma Yuan began to work hard to register for classes. The day his children left for college was the day Ma Yuan left the city. If you can't live your life right, it's better to find a right place, a place where you are recognized.

I am reminded of two sentences by Feng Qiuzi: "When all the endings have been guessed, and even the echo can be predicted for every sentence thrown out, sober people actually have no pride at all. They never They are all desperate beyond measure; people like us, if we want money, we will definitely get it as long as we persevere; if we want a home, it will be a bloodbath in the end."

These words immediately I feel the same way.