One-sided happy joke

Therefore, if we are often joking people, we should take into account when joking:

1 What is my original intention of joking, just to enliven the atmosphere, or will it bring unpleasant feelings to the other party?

2 What is my relationship with each other? The relationship between two people determines the intimacy between them. If you are unfamiliar, try to make fewer jokes. After all, you don't know each other's bottom line.

The extent to which the other party can accept jokes, some people can accept them, and some people don't like sudden jokes, so we should know each other's habits and decide whether to joke or not.

Freud: "There are no jokes. All jokes have serious elements. Making fun of yourself is essentially bullying in language, interacting in a teasing way, but completely ignoring each other's feelings. Psychology believes that a person's words and deeds are often a reflection of his inner world. Those jokes without proper restrictions are just a kind of self-righteous humor, which puts one's sense of superiority above the other's pain and unintentionally destroys others' self-esteem.

Is there anyone around you who likes to play you like this? "You are so fat, still eat! If I were you, I would be ashamed. " You must feel safe when you look like this. ""Wow, you really know how to talk! You are usually an apple polisher. You have such a good figure that you have found many objects.

If you say you don't like it, the other person still thinks you are stingy. "Why are you so impatient? You can't joke about it. You are stingy. " "I really don't have a pattern. I can't say anything about it. " "I am outspoken. That's what I usually say. " "You are so boring. You can't even joke. Boring. "

If we don't like being teased by each other,

1 Tell each other how you feel about this joke and let them know their bottom line.

Silence, no response. The other person plays jokes you don't like just to see your reaction. If you don't respond, he can't continue the game.