What is the reason why a good friend is not even a friend?

What is the reason why a good friend is not even a friend? People will encounter many things in their life, some things we can solve and spend by ourselves, some things need the help and inspiration of family members, and some things only friends can solve your confusion and make you happy. Therefore, friends are indispensable wealth in our life, and some sincere friends are better than many. They can give you life, work direction or guidance, or emotional communication can make you gain a lot.

Although friends are very important and close, you can't mix everything together, otherwise friendship is likely to be delayed by other things and it is easy to get back at each other. When we get along with friends, please remember to do the following three things:

1. In terms of financial interests, it is best not to mix with each other. As the saying goes, brothers settle accounts clearly, let alone friends. There are many friends around us who start businesses and work together for the benefit. There are also cases of old age and death. To err is human. Everyone puts his own interests first. Generally speaking, less money exchange with friends will make your friendship stronger and longer. It's not that friendship can't stand the test, but in a materialistic society, when many things are squandered, even close friends will inevitably turn against each other, in order to avoid or minimize this influence.

Money can easily confuse people. If money must be involved, it is best to do business with money, so that our friendship with each other will be more in place. Chen Guo said that true friends are useless, sincere friends are useless, and sincere "friends" are "best friends". They are not playmates, drinkers, comforters when they are lonely, spiritual shelters, "contacts" based on interest participation or practical effects, or casual rhetoric or social rhetoric in the scene; True "friends" feel at first sight because of the closeness of their hearts. Spiritual harmony often takes time "such as talking and thinking".

2. letting your family know that your friend exists is also recognition of your friend. In this way, your friendship is not based on nothing, and you also have the support of your family. However, this does not mean that you can participate in other people's housework, and it is hard to break an honest official. More importantly, when we ordinary people are busy with our own affairs, don't participate easily unless our friends need your help. How do you know that other people's relatives won't hate you?

There is a skeleton in the cupboard. We get too involved in other people's family affairs, and sometimes we bring trouble to others. Once, a student joked that her husband was not good, and her friend suggested that she get a divorce. Later, the students still didn't get divorced, but friends felt a little embarrassed between husband and wife. So sometimes even if friends tell us something bad about their family, you'd better listen to it. Don't get involved in friends' family affairs, let friends make their own decisions. This is wise. Friends will appreciate your reason and thoughtfulness, and your friendship will not split.

Other people's feelings can't be mixed up these days. I always read some articles saying that my boyfriend was robbed by my best friend. When I read such articles, I always wonder, are they true friends? A true friend is a gift in the snow, icing on the cake. A true friend won't take away your happiness like this. Naturally, it takes two hands to make a ring, and your other half has his fault. You can say that you won't do anything to your friend's other half at all. You have your own love, but although you are sitting, you can't avoid the communication of some small things. No matter how close your friends are, mustard is inevitable.

So, stay away from your friend's other half, no matter how close two people are, please don't mix other people's feelings. This is really a no-no in dating. Life will not be smooth sailing, there are many difficulties and problems, it is difficult for us to spend the overall situation alone, only through family ties. Only with the help of friends can we do better. It is naturally beautiful to get along with friends. In order to keep this relationship unshakable, we must adhere to the three noes principle, which is also a consideration for your friendship with your friends.