When misunderstood by others, should you explain it or not?

In fact, I feel particularly uncomfortable when I am misunderstood by others. If I don't explain others, I will continue to misunderstand others, which will lead others to misunderstand me. So when others misunderstand me, I must explain clearly, otherwise I will keep some words in my heart, and whenever I think about them, my heart is particularly uncomfortable.

I remember it was when I was in primary school. I stayed at my grandmother's house for a while in the summer vacation. At that time, grandma and uncle were not separated. Every day, grandma cooked alone and the whole family ate together. In fact, my aunt hates me very much. Every time I go to my grandmother's house, she always annoys me. I could see how much she bothered me, but she never said anything. After all, I didn't eat or drink her, and she ignored me. My uncle's son, my cousin, is one year younger than me. Every time I go to my grandmother's house, I especially like to play with my cousin. My cousin is nice, but he doesn't have a fucking personality. But my cousin is particularly afraid of my aunt. After all, my aunt will give him a good beating when he does something wrong, so he looks particularly honest.

Grandma's family planted more than ten acres of rice. One day, grandma and aunt went to the rice field to get some medicine. My cousin and I didn't get up when we left. Grandma left the rice in the pot for us. I got up soon. At the same time, I also invited my cousin to have dinner together. My cousin brought vegetables and soup. I only heard a cry from my cousin, and the bowl fell to the ground and broke all over the floor. I was nervous then. My aunt came home and found the broken bowl on the ground, so she began to scold me. At that time, I really wanted to explain that my cousin broke the bowl, but I looked at my cousin's fear and said nothing.

In this way, my aunt always misunderstood me, and I never explained it. Since then, my aunt has been more prejudiced against me. In fact, she should have explained it to her at that time, just for her cousin's sake, and she dared not say it. That's why she's misunderstood me for so many years.