Xi 'an is the best kindergarten, and the children who sell fish and vegetables are not worthy of our kindergarten. Where is this teacher from?

A video on the internet was very popular before. The charging standard of a kindergarten in Xi 'an is not uniform, which causes parents' dissatisfaction.

Then, the director of the school held a parent-teacher meeting and delivered the following shocking speech: "I am learning the skills of raising swans and can't raise pigs. Wage earners, vegetable sellers ... I can't communicate! If my tuition is reduced to 1200, there will be a large number of such children enrolled. What kind of situation will your child face? Vegetables, fish ... "

I can't believe that people are divided into three classes. Discrimination starts with dolls and comes from an educator. What is even more incredible is that the first few comments in this hot search Weibo comment area turned out to be like this:

Oh, what the hell is going on every day, forcing me to write a blog, a wife and pay attention to social news. Let's say fifty cents. People who believe in the law of the jungle will eventually be eaten by the law of the jungle. What we call "the law of the jungle" means the survival of the fittest and the law of the jungle.

The big one eats the small one and the small one eats the big one. Shrimp. It is natural that you are weak and I am weak. Many people believe this, because there are 10 thousand examples to teach you a lesson every day-this is the world.

This rule is reasonable, but the question is, can you be sure whether you are a big fish or a shrimp? Take this principal as an example. She thinks that her kindergarten keeps swans every month 1900.

But you can guess that the tuition fees of those international kindergartens are as high as hundreds of thousands. How would she joke? The terrible thing about the law of the jungle is that you support the law of the jungle because you mistakenly think you are a tiger. What should I do if I suddenly turn around and find myself a paramecium?

Inverted one becomes inverted one, inverted two becomes inverted one. People who sell vegetables and fish don't enter the classroom, but there will still be people under the classroom. Who will be fired next time?

How can such a simple truth, such a tall adult, not understand? Because of this, mainstream values always emphasize equality for all. This sounds ridiculous, but only in this public opinion environment can people have upward channels and affirm their efforts. Once everyone abides by the law of the jungle, being eaten is fate.

Subtle parenting education, those polite and quality children will not sit with children who sell fish and vegetables. Many parents subconsciously agree with this value concept, and they even cite the example of "Meng Mu's three moves" to prove the statement of "choosing a neighbor to live". At first glance, it makes sense. What the hell is that? Give me an answer. How do you want to raise children?

Choice 1: Sincere, polite, and know how to respect everyone.

Option 2: Take the gift from others, smile and say "thank you", then turn your head and throw the gift into the dustbin.

If you accept the director's values, it means that you acquiesce to your children and become the second person.

Here, our thinking about "elite education" is the most profound. Everyone wants their children to be gentlemen and ladies. But those who can say "sorry", "never mind" and "thank you" are the real gentlemen and ladies?

Some people say that during World War II, the death rate of British aristocrats was far ahead, because the upbringing in their bones told them that they should defend their country and take the lead. That is the aristocratic spirit they believe in.

In our eyes, what is "aristocratic spirit"? What we want to "nurture" our children is to nurture ourselves or just look educated.

No definition, no marking, no judgment. I happened to see another video on Weibo the other day. A teacher teaches children that stars and small meats are girly and delicate, and should not be worshipped.

I think the teacher's starting point is good But this kind of education scares me, because my children have no ability to think independently at all and should not accept such labeled values. One day, the child came home and said to me, "Mom, our teacher said that stars and small fresh meat are not good and very girly." I will collapse!

I'm only three years old. Do you know what "Niang" is? Do you understand the meaning of "bad"? Who instilled this idea in him? Children receive this kind of "good" and "bad", "able" and "unable" education for years, and the most likely consequence is the loss of independent thinking ability.

This is because parents and teachers have helped them choose. It seems that they don't want to see the whole world, being artificially imprisoned in a bright corner: playing with these people, not those people …

But one day, when a child asks you a question, what will you answer? "Why can't the children who sell vegetables at home sit with us? 」

Netizens can argue for a hundred rounds, be reasonable, be reasonable. But who can tell me, when the child asks why, how should we answer? At least I can't answer.

I can't tell children that adults are deceiving them by teaching them freedom, equality, fraternity and politeness. Adults don't do that. Adults are hypocritical and utilitarian, and like to look down on others.

The moral cost of "uselessness" is the greatest. Someone wants to refute me, saying so much, your child has not chosen a school for kindergarten?

First, it's not true. My children all take part in the lottery seriously and wait in line to enter the public kindergarten.

Second, even if I choose a more expensive international school for my children, at least I know it's not because I'm taller than anyone else. Just because of the process of social development, some families are unable to pay such tuition fees for the time being.

Literally, there is an essential difference between "man struggles upwards" and "worshipping the high and stepping on the low". Twenty years ago, who was not a child of a family selling fish and vegetables?

After reading that book that year, my family couldn't even pay the tuition fee of 1200! Thank the teachers for teaching me. They won't discriminate against my eyes. But they make up lessons for me, help me and comfort my inferiority and cowardice.

For these reasons, I have been far away from teaching. Fairness, respect and understanding, these words sound vague, far less stimulating and useful than "enrollment rate", "employment rate" and "class leap"

As we wrote, "Don't cry", "Don't cry" and "Tomorrow will be better" sounds stupid, far less enjoyable than quarreling.

However, you have to know that most of life passes by in a hurry, but there are also a few moments when we can survive because there are still people who say in their ears: Come on, tomorrow will be better. This is a gentle moral force.